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Delray Beach girl, 16, charged as adult in killing of mom’s ... - Orlando Sentinel

A 16-year-old Delray Beach girl accused of killing her mother's boyfriend has been indicted as an adult. Circuit Judge Ted S. Booras ordered Berenice Juarez held without bond Friday morning at the Palm Beach County Jail. Juarez is charged with first ...

Florida Panhandle's spring break spot Panama City Beach wants new ... - Denver Post

PANAMA CITY BEACH, FLA. — The few beach walkers, surfers and sidewalk shoppers who ventured out on a recent chilly afternoon created a very different scene from the craziness that will soon crank up here as temperatures climb and students descend ...

Defending champion Stephanie Gilmore wins ASP Women's World Tour Roxy ... - Los Angeles Times Blogs

"It's definitely a dream start," Gilmore said. "I didn’t really expect to win here. The waves weren’t so great. I definitely didn’t put in as incredible performance as I would have wanted to, and I’m sure Mel [Bartels] has the same feeling ...

Santa Barbara Woman Accused of Dumping Newborn in Trash Bin - KEYT

TORRANCE, Calif. - A 24-year-old Santa Barbara woman has been released from jail after being arrested in connection with a case involving a baby found dumped in a trash bin. Prosecutors say Jessie Canfield allegedly dumped her newborn in a trash can ...

Lions eager to wear Class AAA crown - Greenville News

The Daniel High girls basketball players are the Conspirators, and Lions coach Jody Powell has played the part of Cassius. Powell plotted the coup to end one long-standing reign of power in hopes of starting another one today in the Class AAA state ...

SPIRIT AWARDS LIVE | The Complete Night, Minute by Minute - indieWIRE

I’m nothing but that little girl who was just dreaming… Don’t let ‘no ... Josh from Venice Beach” had submitted to a special MySpace page: “If you could be invisible for one day, what would you do?” “I would either hang out at banks ...

U.S. & World - WCCO

A 24-year-old California woman who is accused of dumping her newborn girl in a trash bin told police that she didn't know she was having a baby. Jessie Canfield was arrested Wednesday, hours after trash collectors found the newborn's naked body in an ...

Moyer students: 'Leave us alone' - Delaware Online

WILMINGTON -- Autum Kelson admits she isn't always easy to get along with. And she knows that means she occasionally is difficult to manage in a classroom. But the third-year student at the embattled Maurice J. Moyer Academy -- a Wilmington charter ...

Survivor's Cirie on J.T.'s Betrayals, the Power of Camaraderie, and ... - Seattle Post Intelligencer

TVGuide.com: Were you surprised by the vote? Cirie Fields: My only thoughts were, I was trying to figure out which one of them flipped. We had a plan and Tom had the idol but the plan was for him to play the idol and Colby to go home. But I was ...

Las Vegas Now'Precious' dominates Spirit Awards with 5 prizes - Lasvegas Now

LOS ANGELES (AP) - The Harlem drama "Precious" took the best picture prize as it dominated the Spirit Awards, winning four other honors that included trophies for stars Gabourey Sidibe and Mo'Nique. Jeff Bridges won best actor for the country-music ...

Open Question: what name do you think suits a girl like this?

she has light brown hair with natural golden highlights in. her skin is extremely pale, and her lips are a rosy pink. her eyes are a teal colour, and reflect the sun very easily. they are very round and the first thing people notice about her. she is reasonably short for her age and an average weight. she likes to wear floaty summer dresses, especially at the beach. she is a very compassionate person, and is a good listener. she is very shy around most people, but with her best friends she is more talkative. she suffers from paranoia, and finds it hard to trust people, so her secrets aren't known by many. she is very creative, and loves to read, write, paint and dance. she does ballet and has won many competitions.i just made her up xD more

Open Question: Redo* How does this sound for the beginning of chpt.1 of my book?

I redid it and used some of your advice... but anyways, helpful criticism... The seat-belt lights came on. Is the flight already over? I buckled up and the oxygen masks came down. I was scared completely out of my mind, and so was the girl next to me. What would happen to my mom, dad, and brothers? What would they do? I helped the little girl put hers on, then put mine on. I could tell we were loosing altitude, and fast. I closed my eyes when I remembered that we were over an ocean. I always hated those things. Then, everything went black... I woke up to the sound of the ocean's waves swishing. Was I really still alive? Appearantly. My heart was racing. Maybe someone else was alive too. I hoped it would be my family. I sat up and looked at my watch, which was the only thing I had left. It said 5:09 a.m. It was six o'clock in the morning when the crash had occurred. Twenty-three hours and nine minutes ago. "Anyone there? Hello?" I asked over and over again. No response. I decided to find a shelter. I looked among the wreckage and found a few helpful things. I found pillows, blankets, string, and a backpack full of snacks and drinks. I also found things that weren't helpful. Tons and tons and tons of bloody, dead bodies. Amongst them, my dead parents and siblings. I didn't want to stay on the beach looking at the dead bodies. I found an area in front of the woods that was grassy and dry. This would be where I would camp. I put everything in the backpack and looked for some thick, long branches. I managed to get the amount I needed and proceeded back to my spot. Once there, I made a tent using the string, sticks, some of the blankets, and my knowledge from girl scouts. Lucky me, huh? I went inside and laid down a pillow and blanket for me. I put the others in a corner just in case there were others still alive. "Now I need a campfire." I muttered to myself. I knew I was gonna be there for a few days at least, but, when I went outside, there was one. Right there in front of me. No one around. Just me and the fire. I wondered how it got there, but decided some things are better left unknown. I wished that some other people were still alive. I went into the tent and ate a bag of chips. There was water in the bag, too, so I drank a little bit. When I went back outside, there was somebody. I didn't recognize her from the flight, and I went up and down every row looking at everybody. I have a photographic memory, so there was no way I could've missed her. Was she the one who made the fire? "Hello Rose." she said calmly. "How did you know my name?" I asked, scared. "We have been watching you. Your house fire, you at the orphanage, this plane wreck.Your special Rose. Have you not noticed that? The way yourOh and I know it goes by too fast, but it's supposed to in the beginning... That's jut my writing stlye. I slow down AFTER the first chpt. lolHa thanks Rachel.... but what the girl says explains why she was just lik 'eh' about the plane crash. lol more

Open Question: How does this sound for the beginning of chpt. 1 of my book?

The seat-belt lights came on. Is the flight already over? I buckled up and the oxygen masks came down. I helped the little girl next to me put hers on, then put mine on. I could tell we were loosing altitude, and fast. I closed my eyes when I remembered that we were over an ocean. Everything went black... I woke up to the sound of the ocean's waves swishing. Was I really still alive? Apparently. Maybe someone else was too. I sat up and looked at my watch, which was the only thing I had left. It said 5:09 a.m. It was six o'clock in the morning when the crash had occurred. Twenty-three hours and nine minutes ago. "Anyone there? Hello?" I asked over and over again. No response. I decided to find a shelter. I looked among the wreckage and found a few helpful things. I found pillows, blankets, string, and a backpack full of snacks and drinks. I didn't want to stay on the beach. I found an area in front of the woods that was grassy and dry. This would be where I would camp. I put everything in the backpack and looked for some thick, long branches. I managed to get the amount I needed and proceeded back to my spot. Once there, I made a tent using the string, sticks, some of the blankets, and my knowledge from girl scouts. Lucky me, huh? I went inside and laid down a pillow and blanket for me. I put the others in a corner just in case there were others still alive. "Now I need a campfire." I muttered to myself. But, when I went outside, there was one. Right there in front of me. No one around. Just me and the fire. I wondered how it got there, but decided some things are better left unknown. I wished that some other people were still alive. I went into the tent and ate a bag of chips. There was water in the bag, too, so I drank a little bit. When I went back outside, there was somebody. I didn't recognize her from the flight, and I went up and down every row looking at everybody. I have a photographic memory, so there was no way I could've missed her. Was she the one who made the fire? "Hello Rose." she said. "How did you know my name?" "We have been watching you. Your house fire, you at the orphanage, this plane wreck. Your special Rose. Have you not noticed that? The way your I stopped bcuz I didnt want anyone to steal it----------------------------------------- anyways... helpful criticism?Revise: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100306083458AAf9Swh&r=w more

Open Question: Ladies Only: I am looking for a companion to spend time with. Someone that we can start out as friends but?

that it will eventually lead to a relationship which is what I am seeking. I am friendly, loyal, courteous, well educated and enjoy the simple things in life. The reality is that I want to be able to share my life with someone. I'm not talking about running and get married...no that is not it all. I've been there and done that as they say and I'm really not interested in walking down the aisle again...but one can never say never, who knows? but what I am looking for is a woman that I can be a great friend to and be romantically involved at the same time. Why is finding the right person so difficult? there are so many variables that one must go through, so many obstacles along the way. I am not looking for the perfect woman because I am well aware that perfection in humans is nonexistent but just someone that I can have fun with and have a great time and also become a part of her life and she will do the same. I love a woman that can stimulate me physically as well as intellectually. You don't have be a beautiful specimen or have a Ph.D in Behavioral Science but a regular-looking girl with a brain that can carry a conversation. I tend to be shy and withdrawn at first but once we get going on a given subject, I'm a very good conversalionist in all modesty. I have a Master's degree in English literature so naturally any conversation about books, writers, poets, I am going to be fascinated with. I love music: classic rock from the 60s and 70s and I also like jazz, soul, blues and classical. I like going to the movies, the theater, dinner or just taking a walk along the beach and watching the sun go down. I LOVE sunsets, I can spend a long time watching how the beautiful colors intertwine with the clouds, it makes for a spectacular and most precious celestial sight. I am romantic...yes I am. I still believe in romance and sweeping a girl off her feet with a love poem, candies, and flowers. I guess I'm kind of old-fashioned in that sense. I just want to love somebody and have them reciprocate all of that love in return. I'm really a simple guy overall. I'm not materialistic or selfish and like to share whatever I have with that special someone. I hope I can meet somebody on here. I know that this is not a dating site...believe me I've tried a few of those and so far all of my attempts at finding someone have failed. Most women that I've encountered in the last few years and the ones I've dated seem to want the same thing: MONEY and POWER. I'm sorry but I'm not wealthy and I don't have any power. They all seem to be interested in how much money I make, or what kind of car I drive or whether I own or rent my house and if I own a business. If you're that kind of woman --than with all do respect don't continue reading because I am NOT the man that you're looking for. I wish you well in your seach and hope that you find what you're looking for. I love animals (although I don't have any) but if you have a dog, cat, bird or whatever other species as long as is not extremely dangerous I'm cool with it. Children are fine although I would prefer someone whose kids are pretty much grown but if you have a child that is a minor and living with you, I will understand. I know about kids as I have three of my own. One adult 21 and two teenagers 14 and 15, so I know all about having kids and raising them. I know how difficult it can be especially if you're a single parent. I really admire women that have been forced to raise their children on their own because the father left them and don't receive any kind of assistance either monetary or emotional. I ask that any ladies that read this narrative that sounds more like an advertisement for finding love, LOL and are interested in perhaps meeting and talking with me are from Miami only. I apologize if I seem that I am discriminating against other woman that live in other cities, rest assure I am not. Is just that I would prefer that the person be from Miami which is where I live so that I won't have to travel to another city in another state to meet her, I hope that you can understand. Although any ladies that wish to give me their advice on what they thought about what I've written here is welcome to do so and I appreciate very kindly. Well, I hope to get some responses and hopefully one of those will be the lady that I am looking for. I thank you for taking the time to read this long narrative and I do apologize for its length but I needed to be clear on some of the things that I am looking for in a person and needed to be as thorough as possible. I'm not posting my e-mail because I don't know yet what is going to come out of this but if something positive does which I am hoping than I will be get in touch with that person. Thank you. more

Open Question: What are your thoughts of girls acting so slutty nowadays?

I feel like I've been born in the wrong generation. It is getting so disgusting! I saw two 8th graders at the park making out. I was all like really?! I'm 17 and me and my boyfriend aren't into that kind of stuff. We've been together for a year and all we just do is go to Disneyland and the beach and other places. I agree with this person whoever wrote this (BTW this is not me, someone sent me this so yeah) Little girls as young and freakin’ sixth grade are losing their virginity, drinking, smoking, and doing all this crazy shit and it’s getting freakin’ crazy. I’m sixteen and they are what, ELEVEN(?)… and I’ve never done any of those things. It’s kind of stupid how they let the world know that they “FUCKED” some guy and now they tell the world that “oh yeah I recommend it, but if you really love the guy”. Umm seriously? You’re in middle school honey, you think being with a guy for 3 months and having sex with him was love?! NO -__- Yeah that’s sooo freakin’ gross. Really now, middle schoolers are getting tongue rings and other piercings too? -____- I feel like i’m “behind” when it comes to these little girls, but at the end of the day … I’M SOO HAPPY NOT TO BE LIKE THEM. more

Open Question: i like this guy a lot and want to kiss him?

sooo i really like this guy i am 14 i met him over summer and we hung out heaps. i havent seen him for a while and i am seein ghim this weekend. i havent had my first kiss yet and i really want to share it with him we flirt and kind of play hard to get towards each other. i think he might like me but i am not sure if we are hanging out with other people at the beach how do i get into a situation where we kiss?? and how do i kiss??i am not the out there sort of girl with boys a bit more shy but not super shy?? please help i would be so thankful :) more

Open Question: What could this mean?

Sooo a long time ago i had this dream where i was a little girl and me and my dad were playing at the beach. Suddenly the ocean was being pulled into the ocean and out to sea. I grabbed his hand and tried to pull him back in, i kept screaming, "Daddy!!!' But i wasn't strong enough and the ocean pulled him in and that's when i woke up. What does this mean? Does it have any meaning at all? more

Open Question: What do you think of this poem?

I wrote this poem months ago, haha. . . I personally know it's bad. Just wondering for opinions. x.x Haunting Memory A painful memory, painful, regretful, enough to haunt you. sorry, it won't stop haunting me last year, that memory, so haunting it won't stop taunting me, tempting me, to remember, even thought i've tried to forget the memory always comes back to haunt me how many times have I tried to forget? just to find myself back at your bait. i tried to wait and wait patiently, to see if the memory well somehow disapear now i know it's all a joke the memory chokes me, until i find it hard, to breathe. quietly i sat, reminiscing about last years memory so foolish i was, not thankful, but it wasn't my fault, I was already missing, lost, invisible. and this year, now nothing and i tumble down. down into your arms, what's the harm? but you pull your hands away, not knowing, i'm falling, and your charming face changes, to a blank expression stupid, regretful, awful, hurtful, blameful name it, too much shame all the pain to bare with.. you might think it's lame.. but it's not, some times guys don't realize how much, they can hurt a girl, without words, actions.. when i see you heart quickens, and i get nervous i breathe faster, i look down, thinking something..might come to be.. but all that happens..is it worsens.. everything does.. somethings changing.. you go a different route now; oh how the haunting memory comes you play filthy in your own game, tell me the rules again don't you ever feel shame? i can feel the flames in my heart burn, to a point where my tears, don't stop coming down. as i go insane each tear tells its own story. so won't you settle down for a while and listen to each painful, depressing story they got to tell you should feel special that they're willing to share it with you. as they did with me why you have to go your own way? what i do? i guess i made the wrong play. running away from everything, from my surrounding, gets scary, terrorizing, to a limit where i break down and somehow i managed to run into you it's hard to say, especially to you in person but i need you, you come to a point, where you're rising.. i don't wanna bring you down. i came to a point where i fell to deep, why don't you help me up? keeping my heart safe in your hands.. until you toss it on the floor with great anger, and leave me numb, yet somehow my love expands.. i need you sweet fairy tales, evil queens, kings, step sisters, let's escape into a story, where it stars you and me. let's pretend your the prince and i'm the princess come rescue me along comes, the pain, of course; in the golden carriage complaining about how we could have left them behind. make my day, and take me away from everyone, and our surroundings. imagination creates illusions, which make me believe i still have hope another version of the same plot same ending, same pain, same waiting in agony. along with, the tears, the smiles, and everything in between. take a minute close your eyes, and listen. carefully.. to what could have been. listen to my tears falling down, have you listened to each story yet? each one explaining why they're ruined staring into the moonlight, listening to the silence if i see you waiting patiently, and politely listening. i'll tell you my story. and how your the star. don't flatter yourself wailing of the wind, knocking on your window, showing you it remembers you. do you remember me? now listen and; feel my pain, wipe my tears, console my soul, while we take a stroll down the beach now tell me your story. whats your reason, your side of the story, for the way your acting. i'll listen, i'll feel your pain wipe your tears, and; console your soul. perfect image we will create but now it's getting late i'll see you soon; i hope my haunting memory comes back; it's become an addiction oh the blame.. and the shame.. yet the pain, and the nonsense oh what you became, to me; a haunting memory sorry its so long hahaI know it's random like a lot put together.. haha.. more

Open Question: Begging for help getting over a girl?

My name is Max and I am 21. I never talked to anyone about this before because I hate bringing it up and it’s a long story but I really need help because it ruining my life. When I was a kid I met my oldest friend allysia. We became boyfriend and girlfriend (we were 11). I was also her first kiss but we drifted apart and stopped talking. Even thou we stopped talking she would send me letters and valentines but I was always too nervous to reply. Well a couple of years ago we started talking again. It was wonderful because it felt like we hadn’t lost any time. She ended up inviting me to her prom and about a week later, I confessed my love for her. She didn’t say anything right away but shortly after, she reciprocated those feelings. We started dating and even she was bringing up our future. About six months later, on my eightieth birthday, she decides to tell me that she is heartless and that she never loved me. I was speechless. I couldn’t believe what I just heard. We stayed together for another month until I sent her an inappropriate letter and she ended it with me claiming she wanted to stay friends. At first I was ok with it but two days later she started seeing someone else and it pissed me off. She couldn’t even give me a week. I started doing something stupid and started to threaten her with my life via starvation. I lost sixty pounds in two months but couldn’t go more than a few days without eating. I start attending the same college as her and after a whole lot of fighting, we became friends again. Things were going so well that even the conversation of a second chance at a relationship happened. A month after that she told me she was seeing someone else (which turned out to be a lie) and we stopped talking again. This time, I moved on. I started working, socializing, and even started dating. But none of this really helped. Everyone kept reminding me of how nice we were to each other and how were wouldn’t even walk near each other now. this just annoyed me so on new years eve of 07 I talked to her one last time and left long beach (where this all took place) new years day 08 to live with my family in orange county leaving her and all my friends. I even quit my job and stopped talking to most of my family. Since then I have done nothing with my life. For 2 years I have been sitting at home watching TV or playing games and the whole time thinking of her. I finally broke down and called her a few days ago. Not only did it start another fight, she told me she was getting married (which I don’t know is 100% true). Now my anxiety has tripled and I am now taking anti depressants which don’t seem to work. I wanted to fix our relationship together but now I would just settle for a friendship which she doesn’t even want to try. I asked why she told me she loved me and all she said was everybody lies. How can you call someone a friend and tell them that. I want to go back to school and go on with my life but I can’t get past this. What makes this harder is I have no one to talk to. I am begging for help and I don’t care what it is. My email is yujinha@yahoo.com and my myspace is the same. Please someone help me.Yes she is my first friend but whats bugging me is was my first friend and the only person i really trusted. As for my life, she sadly was the person who convinced me to do something with it and go to school. Before that i never even thought about college.i meant she was my first love and friend more

Open Question: Swimsuit IMPOSSIBLE : Update help?

recap: female, 170 lbs, going to florida in may, want to look decent in a swimsuit. my question was what diet and workout should i do. Ok. I took some advice. started eating more vegetables and fruits, i even took up "counting"...like carbs, cals, fat, protine, and fiber. BUT im still not sure on what kind of workouts i should do. most of my answers led me to a link that just told me to take a supplement, or told me that "everything you ever knew about weight loss is WRONG" site trying to get me to pay a couple hundred bucks just to learn they're "secret" oohh ahhh! NOT RICH! NOT GONNA BUY IT! Anyways i started working out...sort of. i pretty much just did a bunch of random crap i rememberd from highschool gym (which about killed me ha! not funny -.-). tried jumping rope, got maybe 10 of those in (low ceiling made it hard), made sure to strech first, ran, constantly moved, walked/ran on tredmill, rode on the bike thingy that doesnt go anywhere (it was electronic but now its broke so im just MOVING my legs i guess) and did some stuff with weights that didnt seem to make sence. ok. i need help! i dont know what im doing, and i cant aford a trainer! i heard that high whatever cardio workouts burn fat quicker (running, riding the bike thingy...) all i know is that im supposed to move constantly at a fast pace and keep my heart rate up. so. what i need to know. how to burn fat and lose inches in less than two months (i dont wanna be a stick figure i just wanna get rid of my huge "pouch" and some inches) and how to get started. and NO i do NOT want to build MUSCLES i dont need to, ive got muscles, i need less fat! any info would be great! (PLEASE NO: infomercial products, comments like "buy a bowflex", or links that take me to "miracle" products or membership sites and i BEG of you NO "GUARANTEED WEIGHTLOSS PLAN FOR 3 EASY PAYMENTS OF $39.99!" ive had about enough of those -.-) thank you, amanda aka strange girl that wants to feel confident at beach in may! more

Open Question: Questions about Newquay?

Me an about 10 friends are looking at going to Newquay in the summer, we're thinking first or last week in august. Girls & lads, will be 17 and 18. Looking at surf lodges, just wondering if people think it'd be pretty safe for us girls like going out at night? We'll probably be drinking but we're not like idiots and the type to be getting paraletic and throwing up in the streets or anything. Also any quiet beaches where you could BBQ? & in general is it expensive to eat out? thanks more

Open Question: What do I pack for the Tampa, FL Mid April vacation?

We will be going to Tampa, FL for a vacation in Mid April. We have booked a stay at a kitchen suite on the Bay near the airport for our stay. I used to come down and work in Daytona Beach over the summer so I know about the summertime heat, humidity, and thunderstorms. I am wondering what type of clothing we should bring for our stay in Mid April. It will be my fiance' and me, and the kids boy 11, girl 14. more

Open Question: Should I still try to go out with this girl?

If you want the full story, let me know. But basically, in a nutshell, this is what happened: One day my friend, who is a boy, tells me that this girl whom he is friends with finds me to be “gorgeous” and really attractive (not trying to boost self esteem here. No amount of me trying to make myself feel better will cure my somber mood right now). However, although she said she found me to be “very hot”, she also mentioned to him that she didn’t want to date me, for reasons I am not really sure of since I don’t know her at all. So my friend ends up having a get together with a couple of other people so I could meet her. We met, and she was awesome. A called her a week later and we went out to the beach and to the mall together, alone. The date went well. I told my friend this and he got excited, saying that it was “looking good for me and her” and that she was only saying that she didn’t want to date me to hide her real emotions. Another week passed with little contact with her. I decided to make up for this by texting her from time to time or talking to her on facebook. But each time I texted her she either never responded or said basically not to bother her. I don’t know why she didn’t want to talk to me; she said she texted a lot, and the two times we hung out went pretty well and nothing awkward really happened to give her a reason to ignore me. So then today I saw her in the hall and asked her if she wanted to go to this concert that I was going to be performing in. She said that she would have to check her schedule. Later in the day, I got a text from my friend saying that he lost all confidence that the relationship was going to work, because apparently she was really mad at me and annoyed. He said it was because I tried to talk to her too much. Why is she annoyed? I don’t really think I texted her that much (three times total, and all I really said was “Hey” and that’s it, since she didn’t really respond). Should I still try to go out with her? more

Open Question: how do i deal with being alone & depressed?

this year, ive become more to myself, a loner when last year i was like outgoing, i dont know why but things changed dramatically. i use to be the one to laugh & make jokes w/ people, & now im like i dont need nobody around, & not alot of people talk to me anymore i guess cause i dont bother talking to them cause i feel like i dont have any real friends & anything in common with them. today when i found out my friend is going to the beach & the club tonight, they didnt even bother asking me to come along & im not the one to ask if i can come along cause they seemed liked they planned it weeks ago.. today is the official day that i believe im just a loner & i got really depressed. nobody wants to be around me anymore but for some reason i mind & then i dont, i like my space but sometimes it doesnt hurt to have someone around.. i feel so ugly, and unwanted, like nobody wants me and i dont even want my self. i see this one girl in particular, shes fkn gorgeous & everyone wants to be around her, every guy wants her, shes their fantasy > http://i690.photobucket.com/albums/vv264/storyofmylyf/l_c492cecdb0a84d6a9eb6a94e33e6956a.jpg you see in my school, its mostly mexican populated, blacks, then whites, then its asian & thats where i come in.. who really wants to be some asian chick, they always make fun of us like wtf. everyones different but since i speak another language, like mexicans you wanna make fun? dont get me wrong almost all my friends are basically mexican, ive been here all my life. its just my insecurities tells me im no good, cause i dont have the prettiest face or best body. i always have a frown or mean muggin face on being strong when i really want to sit at home & cry cause i dont like myself or im not liked around my peers. it really hurts & its getting me into a deep depression :( what do i do? more

Open Question: help me find 'that' wedding dress!?

Last year i spotted the PERFECT simple long sleeve dress for my beach wedding this Dec, but i waited til now to order it, and now i cant find the website! It seems to have vanished and i cant remember what site it was. The dress was white, long, flowy sleeves that flared out slightly at the ends. A very thin, flowing fabric. Straight neck-line. Floor-length, very small trail.. Almost hippy-ish! But stunning. The picture of the dress had a blonde long wavy haired girl, barefooted walking along a beach, and the dress was about 300-400 pounds. It was such a simple lovely design, has anyone any idea of how i can find it again??!! I cant find another like it anywhere. Please help! :) more

Open Question: Hard time understanding this girl..?

Kind of complex, so I apologize for the length. Your opinions are all welcome, thanks for the time! So I've had an off and on crush on a girl for over a year, and I'll text her every once in a while and we'll talk frequently for a couple weeks, I usually text her first, but she will text me first sometimes too. I've told her on more than one occasion that I thought she was cute, so she must have known I had some interest in her. She never did anything to really give me the impression she liked me however. We will talk all day sometimes from morning until bed, and she never tells me she has to go, although sometimes she has stopped replying, usually if I end with a one word text or something. We never hang out in person, but last summer she suggested that we get a group together and go camping. The group ended up being the two of us, and another couple (who had been dating for over two years, they were mutual friends) She said she still wanted to go, and this would be the first time we really hung out. A couple days before the trip, I find out she is interested in another guy, so I decide I won't hit on her while we go camping, because I was a little frustrated. Anyways, we went, and had a lot of 1 on 1 time, we had good conversations, and I thought overall a really good time. We laughed a lot, at one time the others wanted to go down to the beach at night, but she said she didn't want to go, so obviously I wasn't going to leave her by herself, so I stayed. Nothing really happened, but we ended up talking for about an hour while the others were gone. Anyways, she already had plans the following week to go with the guy she liked on a family trip, so I knew if she didn't end up super into me, that their trip would completely erase ours from her mind, and she ended up dating the other guy for a while, although I pretty much stepped down and stopped talking to her. I've just been wondering for a long time what she was thinking that whole time, but felt it would be weird if I asked, so I just thought I would see what everyone thought. Thanks for the help, let me know if I can answer any of your questions.I'm not trying to get with her now, I just want to know what she was thinking when all of this went down, I'm long over it all, I've just always wondered. more

Open Question: Girls, are stretch marks from working out ugly?

I got stretch marks on my biceps and chest from working out and i was wondering if girls think there ugly or gross cuz im going on spring break soon and ill be at the beach alot more

Open Question: What should i do? Boys advice to a girl.?

I know you will say, don't do it. But i have to tell you my story. I waited a little to long to tell my best guy friend that i like him. Well he has a girlfriend. And, he tells me, if he wasn't dating her, then he would be dating me. He has said it more than enough times. We get along great. How do i show him what he is missing? I know he has some emotion towards me.. We are going on a trip to spring break together, for a week. With a bunch of other friends, his gf isnt going. What should i do before those weeks to try to get him. And what can i do at the beach. Give me some pointers/ tips. I am on a roll! haa :DThe girlfriend, i am not worried about. I can take her. And she isnt coming to the spring break, because i did not invite her. He is coming for sure. Me and this girl barely know each other. more

Resolved Question: Im writing a love story and i need ideas?

i basically have everything planned out already but i dont know how to continue with this one part im writing, the part im stuck on is this boy is teaching this girl how to skate at his beach house on the pourch and i dnt know how to make them go down to the water please help if you have any ideas more

Open Question: Does anyone have a clue about this movie?

Years ago I saw this movie (not sure but it may have been a made for tv movie). All i remember is a little boy and girl are at the beach and are trying to build a sand castle. The little girl goes to play in the ocean and drowns. Years later the little boy (who is now grown up) goes back and builds a sand castle where they were and when he does the little girls body is found in the ocean by a man in a boat. Thats all i remember, if anyone knows what this movie is PLEASE tell me. Its been driving me crazy for years trying to figure it out lol! more

Open Question: magaluf majorca beach apartments?

me and my boyfriend are going away to magaluf in june staying at the majorca beach apartments never stayed there before always at the fiesta's when i go with my mates. the majorca beach looks alot nicer its right on beach quote the name, does any1 know what i can expect there i dont mind it being lively its magaluf but would rather u didnt have lads running about kicking ur doors at 6am : ) also i have been to maga 4 times on girls holidays and love it but if any1 could recommend maybe quiter bars or nice places for us to go thanks x more

Open Question: Make sure swimsuit top doesn't fall off?

Please don't try to be a smart*** and tell me not to wear one. Every girl wants to look/feel good at the beach. Anyway, I was wondering if there was any way to prevent a sliding-triangle bikini top from not falling off or flashing anyone other than tying the strings really tight...? Thanks! here's and example: http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/onlineProductDisplay.vs?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=GK-253474&page=1&cgname=OSPNKBIKZZZ&rfnbr=7052"get slim before you wear it" haha idt i'm overweight...i'm 5'3 and 105lbs and 34A. i just wanted to make absolutely sure it won't fall/slide off. more

Open Question: My colleague and I are thinking about a girl's getaway. I was thinking Martinique. Any suggestions?

I'm mid 30's, she's early 40's. We would like to sit on the beach during the day and have fun at night. Recommendations please. more

Resolved Question: Ladies: Is this a sign she is insecure?

My good friend who is a female used to have a really cute shape. She always had bigger boosoms and a bigger bottom but now i hate to say it, but its starting to get out of control and she is looking a little bigger than normally but still isnt fat but could be there if she continues. I think she is getting insecure about it, because she is now posting all of these pictures of her in a bikini from like 3 years ago at the beach and just putting all the pictures up of her looking really skinny instead of putting recent pictures up. Is she insecure about her weight? I want to know because i offend girls without knowing so i want to make sure i dont offend her in a bodily way. She says she doesnt mind when someone mentions her gaining weight. But who knows?Is that a sign that she is insecure more

Open Question: should i be afraid to show this at the beach?

i luv the beach and all the girls that i like go there so should i be afraid to take of my shirt at the beach what do you think. http://s973.photobucket.com/albums/ae217/snow133/?action=view&current=Photoon2010-03-03at2100.jpg more

Open Question: Can't remember book title help!?

I think this book was written in the 80's but it was about a girl who was on summer break and ends up meeting this boy while she's on vacation at her beach house. He's like secretive and when she goes back to school after the summer break she finds out he's a teen star on this show I can't remember anymore all I know was it was a great book and I would really appreciate it if you could help me =] more

Open Question: Girls, what would you do?

Imagine you are at a beach and you see a guy next to the kiosk where you are going to buy something. This guy is watching you and when you approach the kiosk he gets a h*rd *on.does your age make a difference? more

Open Question: What do you think of my story so far? its only the introduction?

It was a stupid mistake, really. My sunglasses seemed to settle into the groove of my nose so pleasantly in the precise moment I kissed Tucker Hope. That little tidbit of information was all that I can remember of that sunny day, besides my lips being plastered to his in such a way that it took copious amounts of effort not to project vomit all over Tucker’s sunglasses. “Are you okay?” Tucker mumbled as his hand moved from below my waistline to my face. This gesture, of which humans generally think of as compassionate, felt like a small anvil was being deposited onto my cheekbone. I cursed Mrs. Hope in my mind and her uncanny desire to stuff Tucker like a star football player. Reverting to cavewoman-like tongue, I grunted what I thought sounded like a “yes” into the spit gland-encased cavern known as Tucker Hope’s mouth. He then returned to his roots as well and used his crusty caveman tongue to its full extent. I could not stop thinking about anatomy. That’s another thing I can remember perfectly about that day; how I contemplated ulcers and aortas like they were the stars of Gossip Girl. It was almost like the gorgeous Tucker Hope wasn’t right in front of me, kissing and holding me passionately on the beach on a relaxing day of June. It was almost like I wasn’t enjoying it. I wasn’t. I know, it was spoiled of me, I assure you. And I also suppose I remember quite a lot about that day, I just didn’t want to tell you about it. It is kind of embarrassing that a four-eyed recently updated to contacts B-average student besides her outstanding A in English sort of kind of a loser was bummed about Tucker Hope’s lip-locking abilities. “Blay?” I hated that nickname. My name is Blair. That’s it. “Yes, Tuck?” “I’m sorry, but it’s burning. Icecream? My treat.” He smiled, and I thought I was looking at a toothpaste ad. I wondered why in the world he’d want to sugar up his perfectly white teeth with plaque-encrusted Rocky Road, but I consented. I licked the icecream. He watched. I bit a small bit off the cone, because it was falling off. He watched. I watched him. He looked away. Peering coolly behind my oversized sunglasses, which I had still not taken off even though we were indoors, I could see that Tucker was just a typical sixteen year old boy with raging hormones. The minute I looked away, I could feel him staring blatantly at my chest. I don’t really know the phrase to describe the feeling I felt when he did this, other than really weirded out. While being careful not to lick my icecream in any sexual way whatsoever, I tuned out his blabbing about surfing and reflected on the date. It was a stupid mistake, really. “Blind dates never turn out well. Especially if the man is sexual” (my mom). If I can’t find a better title for this book by the time I’m done with it, I am going to title it that quote. My best friend Casey had set me up with him, assuring me that he was the best of the best. I had fretted about this day for months, and even plastered my binder with little hearts labeled “Tyler” at school. It’s not just that Tucker was a horrendous kisser, or that he had sexual thoughts. I’m not that shallow and I’m not that mom-like to dump him for those two reasons. But I am Blair-like, because the reason I dumped him the following day over texting was completely and utterly Blair-like (as Casey would call it). He was boring. Tucker Hope hated literature. He hated poems, books, and absolutely anything about Emily Barrett Browning. The boy despised Charles Dickens, for God’s sake, there must have been something wrong in that frontal lobe of his. There I go with the anatomy again. Making brain analogies? Very Blair-like. I must say that I am definitely an individual, seeing that not many 15 year old teen girls like to curl up and write poems in their free time. This goes without saying I am not proud of it. I made a list the other night of things I should look for in a husband when I’m older. I decided to do this now at age 15, because when I’m older and searching for a mate my mind will probably be distorted with adult things such as alcohol and work, and my brain won’t function properly. Then I’ll end up marrying someone like Tucker Hope. When I wrote that sentence, I’ll have you know that I shuddered like a wet dog trying to dry itself off. But I will keep it there, I guess. It’s not like this book of my sophomore year of high school is anything to be proud of, either. I wrote it simply because I am Blair. I have probably written poems or stories about every personal experience I’ve ever encountered, from the experiences of counseling at Camp Oakak to the little robin’s nest I discovered over my bedroom window. But hey, here it is. Read it. Laugh about it. Cry about it. Do what you want with it, just don’t tell me what. Chapter 1 more

Open Question: 13 year old girl birthday??????

im turning 13 in the begining of april and i need birthday party ideas. i want to have a bonfire at the beach but i have nooo idea if its gunna be cold or warm or what ever. do any of you know the weather in the beging of april/ end of march?? what other ideas can i do?? no bowling or parties in house .. thanks<3 more

Resolved Question: Do any of you girls wear Bandeau style bikini tops? (Pics)?

All of my swimsuits tie around my neck and I was thinking of getting something different this year. I was looking at this style: http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/onlineProductDisplay.vs?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=GK-252236&page=1&cgname=OSSWMBIKZZZ&rfnbr=1232 But I'm not the type that just sits on the beach and looks pretty...I like to actually go in the ocean and swim. Does this type of top stay up okay or am I totally going to lose it? more

Open Question: Wat are some great dares to do at the beach?

My friends and I played a game of dare at the beach. It was awesome and we plan to do it again, but I can't help worry that we did all the best dares already. From hot girls blowing beer bottles to licking someone's chest in front of a bunch of people. more

Open Question: Screwing you on the beach bloodhound gang video girl?

Who's the girl in the video for blood hound gang's "screwing you on the beach at night"? more

Open Question: Birthday Surprise for Girlfriend?

My girlfriend's birthday is tomorrow and I don't plan to spend a bunch of money on her this time. Tomorrow night I'm going to drive her to the beach where we will look at the stars and talk. A little into it I plan to put my arms around her and sing "I will follow you into the Dark" by Death Cab for Cutie. How does that sound to the girls? Do you like when a guy serenades you? I'm not that bad of a singer Lol If you don't know the song here it is http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j6XZsau7CSk Any other song suggestions are welcome :) more

Open Question: girl problem what to dooooooooo?

Okay so here's the story i really like this girl i hung out with her a few times with groups and just past recently with me and her alone. So i believe she liked me because throughout our texts she tells me sometimes how i am a beautiful person, and when i mentioned the beach she said she would be depressed to see all the happy couples holding hands and etc and how she would bother me with the "right guy conversations" in quotes but also she sends me mixed signals at times. But recently her cousin found out me and her have been hanging out and she's jealous because she liked me too. And when i told her that her cousin was jealous she was like yea maybe and she doesn't want any drama and all she's focused now is on school so my friend, the girl i like said in "i dont wanan steal your man away" she texted me that referring to her cousin but i was like i wouldnt mind if u took me away and she said are you sure? im afraid if i tell her my feelings she would say no because of the cousin drama :( i don't know what to do. more

Open Question: Is this story good? I need opinions! Please Help!?

Julia: Chapter 1 Walking along the foggy beach seemed to make me feel more tired but I felt happier. The waves were graceful. They didn’t make a crashing sound as it hit the red sand. It was very calm. Last night I had a dream. The dream was just like any other dream I had but not a dream that any regular person would have. I had a gift. It wasn’t like a gift one would receive for his or her birthday or for a holiday. It was a special gift I had received at birth. Nobody knew about it but my dad. You can’t see the gift. It was a gift that was part of me. I guess some could call it a“super power” but it wasn’t a power that enabled me to have x-ray vision or to be able to soar through the sky and help innocent people from the evil villains. I dreamt of the future. Some times it was a dream of the past. My dreams were a message. If I were to dream about Christopher Columbus finding America then it most likely meant that I too would discover something of importance. Last night I dreamt that I was starting high school in California because I read the name of the high school which was California High School. I was walking to the cafeteria. I bought a lunch, a turkey sandwich with 2% milk and a bag of chips, and I sat down with four girls and two boys at a table conveniently right next to a trash can. One of the girls name was Haley because I called her that when I asked if she and Lucas was going to the movies with Jake and I. One boy with dark hair put his hand around my waist casually and surprisingly I didn’t flinch. The girl next to me then started to talk about some party she was going to have at her house that night. Then I woke up. I usually wake up at precisely six in the morning and walked a mile or two along the shore. I would think about my dream the previous night. Would I actually move to California? Who were those people that I was sitting with? Who was the boy next to me? Questions began to fill my mind like an intoxicating gas filling a room with its doors that can’t be opened. I realized I was walking for well over two hours. I was supposed to be back home one hour ago! My mom wanted to tell me some“good”news. Good news to my mom was usually bad news to me. Except for the one time when I got a new Cocker Spaniel, Bailey. I started to sprint as fast as I could to my mom’s mansion on the beach. The sand under my feet made it impossible to run fast enough to get to her house on time. My black hair swished side to side getting in front of my face quite often. Soon I saw the house around the corner. Finally! My mom greeted me with an ear to ear smile. Then she led me to the kitchen. The kitchen had black granite tabletops and a bar in the middle. There was a black microwave next to the stainless steel refrigerator with a glass window to see what was inside. “I found a nice high school close to here. Your old school was too dirty and the rules there didn’t make any sense what so ever. The school is called California High School. It was named after the man who founded the school who had a last name of California. The first time I saw the school’s name I thought it was in California. Our chauffeur will drive you there. It starts early in the morning at 7:30 and dismissal is at 3:00. School starts tomorrow. Sorry that you had to change schools in the middle of the year with out notice. The chauffeur already bought all your supplies. “Now I have to go shopping. I also got you a nice cashmere sweater. It was a new style. Very nice by the way. I left it on your bed. Toodles!” And with that my mom stepped out the door and left. I didn’t get to say anything to her! How am I supposed to get used to some random new school in the middle of the school year. I mean seriously! Every weekend my mom went shopping at the mall with some of her friends she met at the salon she worked at. Every week she made new friends and came back with a new style of clothes. I wonder how many friends she has by now. The“old” clothes which were actually bought new last week were donated to some charity (thanks to me). She would bring back a present to me too. Last week it was a touch screen laptop. I don’t get why my mom has to spend tremendous amounts of money on overly priced clothes. I do like designer clothes but I wear them more than five times unlike her. Although the sweater was quite nice, it was a concrete grey v-neck sweater and it was very warm and comfortable. My mom’s house was the size of a giant. It was paper white on the outside and it had twelve rooms and two kitchens. My mom would also host a huge party in the ball room every month. I sighed as I flopped down on my hot pink bed. My room’s walls and lap top were light pink too. I petted Bailey who was wearing a pink bowtie as she gently snored. Her chest was going up and down in perfect rhythm. I walked to my walk-in closet and stared at the rows of clothes and shoes. As I always did I picked my outfit for the next day. Great, I more

Open Question: Girls I need some help please!?

So, I met this girl in 7th grade at a beach we had talked a lot all the way up to 9th grade, I was always to shy to ask her out. Then she moved away because her mom got married. However in 11th grade she moved back to live with her grandfather and we started talking a lot again. Come senior year we got together a lot..I could tell she liked me but i was to shy to make a move. I also knew i was leaving in the summer for the Marine Corps. I had kissed her on numerous occasions throughout a few months in the winter and spend tons of time with her. Since i have been gone in the Marine Corps we have lost touch. I still like her a lot. When i went home for christmas i got to see her. After that however we haven't talker and her phone number changed and non of my friends know her :(..Idk what to do? I know she used to like me, but may have gotten tired of waiting for me to ask her out. She knew i rlly liked her and we have talked about our first kiss numerous times and stuff. What should i do if i get in touch with her when i go home with this week? I leave for afghanistan in 3 weeks. I go home for 2 weeks...What should i do? more

Open Question: What should come next?

i'm writing a book about a teenage girl, who was robbed of her childhood. she takes a summer at her dads, her mom forces her to go. She meets a boy, on the beach, at her dads house, where she's shipped off to. and he gives her a normal childhood before high school. so i have that the girl is a professional soccer player, and because of her intense soccer training she was robbed of her childhood, or that she was a broadway star in the musical 13 and never had a normal childhood because of that. Broadway stardom. and as much as she loved it, sometimes she wanted a real childhood. any name suggestions as well? more

Open Question: What's the song on MTV dance floor chart- it is a dance song played over the last month?

the video has a brunette girl in a swimsuit walking on the beach, then surfing and then getting saved by a lifeguard. At the end her and the lifeguard are cuddling on the beach. It is a dance song, with a female voice on it one part of the lirics is...."your making me crazy" more

Open Question: Guys would you date a girl that gave you a bj on the first and second night?

Like seriously dating? Hey my name is Misty and I met this really cute guy about a week ago at my job. We talked for 15 minutes then exchanged numbers. He called me the next night to go on our first date. We went to the beach because it was so cold we stayed in the car. We were talking and he suggested we get in the back seat to get more comfortable. We started making out and he was touching me all over and grabbing me. I could see it rising through his pants. He pulled it out and I gave him ****. He **** in like 3 minutes. We had a fun date. He called me the following night to take me out on a second date. We went to the movies. We were making out and I gave him **** in the back row but we stopped because people were looking. It's not like I just give him pleasure he said he wanted to *** me out but I was on my period and we needed a bed anyways. We have fun together but will he ever want a relationship or Just fun?? more

Voting Question: Is it okay to date two girls at once?

For the few days, I've been hanging out with another girl. We've gone out to the movies, dinner, beach, etc. I must admit, I am attracted to her. The problem is that I also have a girlfriend -- who I've been seeing for almost one year. I don't want to break up with her. My girlfriend is 19 and I'm 24. Anyway, I find the girl that I've been seeing for a few days attractive because (primarily) she is 17 years old. She is about to turn 18 in a few days and I'd like to be her first; I've never had sex with a virgin. Nonetheless, I feel like I have a big decision to make; either I pick my girlfriend OR the new girl. Both girls are very attractive and my girlfriend is great in bed. But what if I were to date both girls at once and decide on which one I want to keep after a few weeks? more

Resolved Question: Does my ex gf like me again? plz answer?

Ok so we were in love with each other for a 1yr and we both didn't realize but then we went out and it ended bad cos of complications and ppl lying and being horrible. Ok so now we hang out and talk and get along again like we did when we were friends. At the beach today i was jumping and play fighting with my friend and then she says "don't you just love 2 hot girls fighting" to my friend then later that day some ppl were saying that i was really fit and stuff and that they were jealous and she kept saying stuff like "yeh you got a hot body" and "you shouldn't change at all..." also i got stung by a jellyfish and she said i was cute and hugged me for ages. When we were out and about to leave i said to her as a joke i have a 1m limit, ur in my personal bubble so i stuck up my hand and she walked up to it and said she'd lick it if i didn't move it so i left it and she actually licked it. I was like wtf so i tested her again and said "if i put something else in front of your face will you lick it?" she was like yeh depends what it is ;) hmm so she like me or trying to get our friendship back? im 16 and bi :) more

Voting Question: Going to the beach with my boyfriend, need help please :)?

Okay to start off, I'm 15 and he is 16, we've been together for about two months, he invited me to go yesterday and we are leaving over spring break and staying for a week. His parents will be there, one of his friends and his friends sister. kay i have quite a few issues: Problem number 1: I am 4'11 and weigh 83 pounds :/ and I look really weird in a bikini because I have a short upper body... i feel so self concious,I'm okay in the boobs department; I know suprising for my size, right? I feel like I look like a little girl though :/ how can I get rid of that? Oh and for the recored i come up a little past his shoulder so the height difference isn't massive. Problem 2: I feel terrible without a little eyeliner and blush on, but I want to be all natural while we are there, I'll put on a little eyeliner if we go to dinner or something but duh, don't wanna go walking on the beach with makeup ;P How can I make myself feel comfortable without it? Problem 3: I will be in the same house as him... Same room, i'm not sure :/ But if I am we will NOT be having any kind of sexual activity going on, I assure you. We both have plenty of self control and respect for one and other.... Just scared I,m going to scare him in the morning... Lol :P How can I be a more "graceful sleeper?" I kick and stuff :/ i also tend to drool.... -_- Problem 4: What should I wear on the ride down there? We are going by car, and i don't know what to do with myself! I was thinking my red denim shorts a black tank top and my light black jacket over it (and when I say light I mean uber thin) and flip flops, better ideas? Is this good? Problem 5: Meeting his parents. I'm extremely shy, and I want to make a good impression. Any advice on how to calm myself? Not so much a problem.... but still I need advice on cute things I can do for him, or things we can do together when we get the chance. AND I'm also worried about getting along with the guys sister. I know nothing about her, and I don't do well with other females AT ALL. :/ thanks :) and 10 points to best answerOh and please don't give me the "accepts you how you are" thing... I know he does, but I would like to feel more confident as well, you know? more

Open Question: Cal State Fullerton, Long Beach, or San Diego?

I'm deciding between those three schools and I honestly can't choose. Here are some things about me that you should know and maybe someone can help me. -I have a good GPA and will do good in school, but at the same time I love being social and I definitely don't want to miss out on that part in college. I'm not a complete party girl but I love parties and just being around people. -My major is most likely going to be something in journalism or communications -I live in Newport Beach and want to be near L.A. so I can maybe have a career in the entertainment industry or just because since I want to write it's a big city so there will be things to write about and there will be jobs. But is San Diego that way too? - I want to have the college experience so I want a dorm but those schools are said to be commuter. Which one isn't that bad of a commuter school because I do want friends -Which school is less of a pain in the a** to get classes I want or even the major I want (basically the least impacted) I'm just not sure what to do! Help!I've already been accepted into San Diego and Fullerton; I'm awaiting long beach's response. more

Voting Question: my boyfriend cheated on me last year and I am doubting our relationship. We have been together for 2 years!?

Last year he went to indonesia to go surfing and when he got back i found photos on his computer of two girls and he had taken a close up of one of the girls breast in her bikini top. When I confronted him about them he said that they were just 2 girls that hung out with him and his friends on the last week of there trip but I had suspisions that there was more too it then just that. I was too scared to keep looking at the photos just incase I found something else so I stopped! I always had suspisions that he cheated on me because he only emailed like 5 times in 3 weeks and I got no calls from him and even when he came back to Australia he didnt call me until the next day. I have tried to get rid of him numerous of times but he clings on to me and so I take him back only to find that I want to get rid of him again. So last week I plugged in his memory stick to see what was on it and guess what else I found, I found heaps of photos of chicks (sexual) some that he had taken of girls on the beach (close ups of there arses and tits) and also some of the internet and loads of porn and also (heres the devastating part) a video of a balinese girl touching herself and its just them 2 in the room but the video cuts out so I dont know if they had sex or not but this was from the same trip he went on last year where he hung out with the 2 girls and he told me that him and the guys hired her as a stripper but then why did he end up alone with her? Once again I was afraid to keep looking on so I stopped and have now missed out on anything else that he couldve done with the opposite sex. just too let you guys know he has a high sex drive and when he went on the trip we had been together for a year and now its been 2 (painfull ones I may add). When I told him about what I had found he denied it and said it wasnt fair that I went through his stuff and then came rushing home to find I had packed up my stuff and caught a taxi home. Well guys and gals i should tell yous that I took him back but im not sure whether too stay because im so afraid hell do it again and wreck my heart even though lifes all about learning and shit im unsure whether I want to go through with it. Our current situation is that he wants me to move in but i dont think its a good idea. We both love eachother but I cant forgive, forget, and trust him after all this. I feel he has loads of secrets that hes keeping (womens intuition) and he tells me if I leave him he will go crazy and that he wants to make me trust him. Please help me people im going out of my mind thinking this over and over again. just give me some opinions and fellahs feel free to be brutally honest because if anything yall know him aswell as us gals do!!!! Thanx more

Resolved Question: How would you describe my personality?

I guess you could say im quite interesting but anyway... Im just wondering how anyone on yahoo answers would describe my personality. I'm deff. a wild person. I love just hanging with friends and acting crazy. I love darker colors. Like reds and purples. My whole entire room is black and white...i just love black and white things they catch my attention. Its hard for me to fall in love with anyone because im afraid to get too attached and lose someone again. And i have major trust issues. Im very skeptical of mostly everything. I love animals. I love cold weather. I hate it when its light out unless im outside.Im a night owl.. i sleep mostly in the day and stay up all night... pretty much nocturnal. I love snow and rain. Im into art and music. I love football... not really a sporty kind of girl tho. I love to laugh, im deff. a leader i dont follow anyone. I have more of a dominant personality compared to most people. I love sarcasm. Im pretty funny.. always cracking jokes. And i love my friends. Im a 19 year old female. I love the beach and i love nature. I'm not a religious person at all.. although im not atheist. more

Voting Question: What are some FUN summer activites?

Im making a summer fun checklist and I need some ideas to add to it. This is what my friends and I did LAST YEAR :] 127.) Get kicked out of a store - CHECK 128.) See a starfish - CHECK 129.) Have a candle lit dinner - CHECK 130.) Do something nice for your mom - CHECK 131.) Go to the exhibition - CHECK 132.) Go on a ride 133.) Have a seance 134.) Solve a mystery - CHECK 135.) Do yoga outside 136.) Get hit on by an ugly person - CHECK 137.) Build a sand castle - CHECK 138.) Bubble gum blowing contest 139.) Girls night 140.) Dropkick a parking cone - CHECK 141.) Play mini-golf - CHECK 142.) Plant something - CHECK 143.) Put a secret in a balloon and set it free 144.) Crash a party - CHECK 145.) Fuck with a telemarketer 146.) Oilly slip and slide 147.) Act like cave people - CHECK 148.) Watch the sunset - CHECK 149.) Find a heart shaped rock 150.) But something with a unicorn on it 151.) As a team, find 50 Kadiddles in 24 hours - CHECK fuck ya! 152.) Walk downtown - CHECK 153.) Dropkick a childs toy - CHECK 154.) See an eagle - CHECK 155.) Find a licence plate with "666" on it - CHECK 156.) Drive down a one way street - CHECK 157.) Stand on the edge of a cliff - CHECK 158.) Drink from a beer bong - CHECK 159.) See a rainbow - CHECK 160.) Win something - CHECK 161.) Steal a lawn orniment/solar light - CHECK 162.) See a hummingbird - CHECK 163.) Hit on someones mom - CHECK 164.) Build something - CHECK 165.) Go left when comming to a fork in the road - CHECK 166.) Complete a crossword puzzell - CHECK 167.) Pull a prank on someone - CHECK 168.) Go for a walk on the boardwalk - CHECK 169.) Go to a birthday party - CHECK 170.) Get dressed up - CHECK 171.) Drunk go-carting 172.) Explore an old abandon house 173.) Have a BBQ - CHECK 174.) Make Jell-O shooters - CHECK 175.) Get lost - CHECK 176.) Go swimming - CHECK 177.) Meditate - CHECK 178.) Laugh til you cry - CHECK 179.) Spray paint something - CHECK 180.) Switch a street sign with another street sign 181.) Get drunk in the afternoon - CHECK 182.) Party at Maypoint beach - CHECK 183.) Movie night with Ryan & Tony - CHECK 184.) Breakdown - CHECK [ in a car, twice in one day] 185.) Have a nice 1 year anniversary - CHECK 186.) Prom party - CHECK 187.) Go to Hunter River - CHECK 188.) Murder Mystery Party - CHECK 189.) Buy a vibrator - CHECK 190.) Go to a bar - CHECK 191.) Pat and Willies on 20th birthday - CHECK 192.) Pass out in a weird place - CHECK 193.) Answer a question on Jeopardy - CHECK 194.) Learn to play Texas hold 'em - CHECK 195.) Go to the mall - CHECK 196.) Go to Summerside - CHECK 197.) Get baked - CHECK 198.) Drink Champagne - CHECK 199.) Joy riding with the girls - CHECK 200.) Go to a wedding - CHECK 201.) Ditch a bitch - CHECK Take some of these ideas for your own checklist, theyre so fun :] more

Voting Question: Okay, I'm not extremely skinny...and dont know what to do for swimwear this summer.?

I've already begin thinking about summer... the beach. and that means a swimsuit. Im not THAT skinny... im 5' 6" and 130 lbs.. sooo if that helps you picture my size....ya. Im going to cheer camp this summer because im a varsity cheerleader... its at the beach. We will be in our swimsuits. im not that skinny.. and dont know what to do. tankinis kinda drive me crazy... but i think some can help cover my belly. I love my legs. they are pretty. and i like my butt. but... my tummy.. grose. i just need some help here.(: Thanks girls! more

Resolved Question: What is a good way to find girls (babes) in Texas? San Antonio?

Not looking to screw, but I want to have fun while im in Tx. next week. Is there a site I can go to or how do you search for them on Facebook... Im going for sPRING bREAK rather thatm South Beach.... for more than a week to San Antonio, Texas so I want to know where the females at so i can have a good time and maybe they can show me around. I have a homie and a friend girl that stay there but we just friends and she be busy so I need to have somebody to chill with on my long stay there. So what is it to do in San Antonio rather thatn going to a B-Ball game, I want to go to a college or a strip club or something. I just broke up with my girlfriend so I am free to mingle. So lets get er done.... more

Voting Question: Beach date this weekend. Pick one please.?

Pick one and please say why. Also if you have another suggestion please leave a link and also say why. I'm tiny, curvy and tan. My hair is medium length and brown. The girls are B's. They've worn triangle, bandeau and push-up before. My boyfriend likes something that will turn him on just by looking at me. Skin is good. Choice 1: http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/onlineProductDisplay.vs?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=GK-250400&page=2&cgname=OSSWMTRIZZZ&rfnbr=1409 Choice 2: http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/onlineProductDisplay.vs?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=GK-253653&page=1&cgname=OSSWMBEAZZZ&rfnbr=148 more

Voting Question: Is having sex in public something you would admit to doing?

I think most people do it on the beach, on vacation, at school, in the car, etc. But what if your partner says no they haven't, yet they are dropping their pants quickly? Is this bc its too personal, like, ie. did you have a real orgasm? My friends who are girls sound like pretty dirty to me, maybe its just my gf and my friends are cut from different molds? What do you do when your gf enjoys or pretends not to care when guys watch her having sex with you or undressing? more