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105,000 Spectators Crowd Into Long Beach for Red Bull Flugtag Girl Power Reigns as ... - PR Inside

LOS ANGELES, CA -- (Marketwire) -- 08/22/10 -- Red Bull Flugtag brought many things to Long Beach today: the Spruce Goose, the Jetsons, the Flintstones and more than 105,000 spectators. The crowd was so enormous that the ...

Is Vince Vaughn's wife having a boy or a girl? - AZCentral.com

The due date for Vince Vaughn's next cinematic bundle of joy, The Dilemma , is Jan. 14. But the comedy directed by Ron Howard and co-starring Kevin James might be upstaged by an earlier arrival. The actor, 40 ...

Justin Bieber's New VMA Promo: 'I'm Kind Of Like The Beatles ... There's Girls ... - MTV.com

For the deepest Justin Bieber beliebers, the new VMA promo — warning that the Biebs “will induce hysteria” – isn’t telling them anything they don’t already know. But the 1950s themed teaser ...

Sex abuse with girls rampant in Volusia Beach Patrol, suit says (41 comments) - Orlando Sentinel

A former Volusia County lifeguard claims that underage girls are expected to have sex with their Beach Patrol peers and that doing so is a "rite of passage" among the young lifeguards, according to a federal ...

Co-Owner Of Day Care 'Devastated' By Girl's Death - msnbc.com

WPBF.com One of the owners of a Delray Beach day care where a 2-year-old girl was found dead in a van said Tuesday she is "very devastated." "It's hard for me to sleep and eat at night," Katie's Kids Learning Center co ...

Lawsuit: Fla. ex-lifeguard coerced into sex for job - Bradenton Herald

A former lifeguard claims teen girls were expected to have sex with Volusia County Beach Patrol officers as a 'rite of passage.' The former lifeguard, who is now 19, filed a civil rights lawsuit in federal ...

Garbage washing up on beaches - Mining Journal

PERE MARQUETTE TOWNSHIP, Mich. (AP) — Garbage washing up on Lake Michigan beaches has some in western Michigan wondering if it’s a return to the summer of 2008, when Wisconsin trash rolled in. The ...

Snooki Says Miami Girls 'Threw Themselves' At The 'Jersey Shore' Guys - Musicwire

ramped up exponentially with the crew down in Miami Beach. With greater public exposure, so it seems, comes greater temptation. But as Snooki told MTV News, the lure of the MTV cameras was evident back in ...

Katy Perry Had To Escape L.A. To Write 'Teenage Dream' - MTV

Katy Perry decided to embrace her inner teenage girl when she sat down to write the title track from her forthcoming Teenage Dream album, out Tuesday. And she felt the only place she could get in touch with ...

'Teenage Dream' Video: Katy Perry Makes Out in the Beach, Pool and on Bed - AceShowbiz

The 'I Kissed a Girl' hitmaker is madly in love with Josh Kloss, going through a series of makeout sessions with him in this Yoann Lemoin-directed music video. Katy Perry bares her "Teenage Dream" in her latest music ...

Open Question: Hot lesbian part two what does she want from me?

'm a lesbian, college aged, she's a hot latina girl out of Long Beach. She just got out of a relationship with her butch girlfriend, and has since been hanging out with me. We went to rave together and she kept touching my arms and squeezing me telling me I've got the boxer arms. We talked in length about how her ex had a heroine problem and similarly my brother did. We definitely connected that night. She then grinned and said, "Melissa asked me if I liked you." I shrugged and laughed it off...at this point I thought she was making a pass at me. Then I asked her to go with me to the bars. She sat next to me and kept putting her hand on my thigh, and pulling me in when she laughed. We held hands as we walked around and later went to the strip club. She told me she wanted to give me a lapdance but couldn't because we'd get kicked out. Later in the cab I went in for a kiss, but then realized my timing was off. So I laughed and said I'm sorry, she told me not to be. Then she talked about how her ex...she still lives with got all jealous she was out with me. So I saw her last night but she was with her ex...who she is still broken up with. Her ex pretended to be friendly to me, and I pretended that me and Hanna were just friendly. Hanna found me on the dance floor when her ex went to get a drink and started grinding on me and getting really close until her ex walked up on us and grabbed hanna's hand and drug her off into the bathroom. more

Open Question: Is my roommate a skank?

Alright I live with a big group of girls in this giant house (we all go to college). She's a senior and really superficial but I get along with most everyone so I like her. The other night though when we were getting to know each other she told me she's never had a boyfriend or been on a date and that she recently lost her virginity to this random frat guy when she was on spring break at Panama City Beach. After that she started having sex with guys she found hot at clubs and then never spoken to them again. Last weekend she had sex with this guy we met at a kegger who had a longtime girlfriend. I just feel weird about it (I know it's her life and all), and sometimes she'll make comments about magazines and how they "degrade and demean women, telling them to do stuff they don't need to". I knew girls like her in high school and middle school but at least they would be dating the guy for a bit. What do you think? I'm just curious what other peoples' reactions would be.She's already gotten herpes and chlamydia....lol more

Open Question: Help, I fell in love with my cousin..?

She's the kid of my mom's cousin. Well, here is the story. We were together since babies, but we split up for about like 13 years, and our families have been going on vacation each Summer/Spring break so far. I'm 16 now, and she's 16. I'm about a week older than her. She is freakin gorgeous. Sure, I can get lots of other beautiful girls where I live, they just aren't the same. Our attitudes and views towards things are pretty much the same, and It's easy for me to make her laugh and think about things. anything I say can pretty much keep her entertained. Did I mention she was gorgeous? I know she wants me, but she knows she should ignore it. Me and her spent lots of time together over this vacation, and we headed to the pool and beach together lots of times alone. Her body is just perfect. It sounds sick, but I'm just looking at it as if she wasn't related to me. Perfect figure, perfect butt, perfect breasts, perfect face. I came home from the vacation today, and I cant help from thinking about her. We've just hugged alot and hung out. Nothing else, no sex, no kissing on lips, nothing. Should I just leave it at that and forget about it? more

Open Question: please help, what movie is this?

theres a couple that hate each other but love each other at the same time. and at one point they are fighting on the beach at night, but then they start kissing and such. Also, near the end of the movie, they are having a wedding and the girl shoots the guy in the butt. it came out a while back. please help more

Open Question: im sick of my dad and step mom favouring my elder step sister?

im 15 yrs old girl and my sister is 16, they look at me as more trouble i cuz go out and have fun and friends over and cuz i always go to a new friends to much jsut because i have alot of friends, most of my friends live in willow beach everytime ive asked to go there to a friends house ive always behaved and had no complaints, but like 4 months ago b4 i bahaved there, therees this one guy they dont like and dont let me go there now jsut because he lives there? they look at my sister as the good trustworthy saint child because theyve known her bf for a longer time and obv hes going to act nice around parents, they say im sneeky rude and lie abotu everything meanwhile my sister tells them shes going to her friend lonees when really her and her bf rent a motel and have sex, but when i ask to go to a friends they always have to talk to my friends parents and theyve NEVER talked to lonees parents, her curfew is 12 30 am mines 10pm, they bought her summer clothes and took her for a hair cut and when i asked for that they said i was complaining being whiney and greedy. and whenever i ask them why they treat her better and give them reasons they say not to compare myself to her were 2 different ppl or w/e i even got so upset i told my childrens aid soicety worker cuz im surpose to let her knwo what bothers me, and then my step mom came in annnd yelled at me for tellin them that i dont even know what to do anymore they tell me they care less and less about me each day ! more

Open Question: Help ! I like a girl :)?

So like here is how it goes, I'm 15 male - she is 17, been friends for a while. when we see each other we just smile at each other, kinda weird because when we smile at each other we instantly know how each other are going. Then she asked me to go to the beach today, which was pretty sweet. but like i like her ALOT, but how do i know if she likes me - does she. then she told me the other day that she is moving next year to the next city which is 3 hours away. so help. please ? thank you :) more

Open Question: What is happening to my relationship?

We've been together for 2 years. I was busy with school so ignored him a little bit and now he thinks I want to break up.. so we decided to.. it was 3AM and he asked my mom to come down stairs.. I dont know if hes bipolar or hates me cause I didnt do anything I found out after he said meeting people online was a phase, that he indeed was talking to someone online.. and even a girl at the beach.. got their numbers.. when he told me about the story, he told me he did talk to a lot of girls. he lies a lot to me and the new girl. he said in a month he will know if he wants to be with me still. I am moving onto college and I think he knows that and thats why he wants to break up. now since the new girl doesnt like him, he now talked to me saying: hey started it by saying: hihi. how r u? he said he was doing bad cause he was gonna go out on a date with a girl that was cool but she stood him up.. I bagged on him and said online right? and he then said: "well i wasnt expecting to find anything on line cause in the last 7 days ive been going out into the world and saving people 6:02 with my powers lol" thats one sign of bipolar if you check the symptoms "ive talked to a lot of people most of them men 20% women most hate me some dig me a lot, but i dont care im looking for somebody who really likes me 6:03 yeah" he always tells me that I dont like him at all and that he doesnt make me happy hes very controlling saying that the new girl wears makeup and nailpolish but hed force her to take that off, meanwhile he sees me to give me back my stuff and I give him a leather chair for his friend and he told me to dress sexy for him and if I lost weight id be the prettiest asian girl.. he asked me why I was angry? uh shouldnt he know.. cause he was talking to a female while he was kissing me when we brokeup.. he kept hugging me even after we broke up and said "I still dont know if I can do this" then I told him to call me and he refused: "no thx nah dont wanna hear it im very busy plz very very busy 6:05 cant do it" talking like a crazy man.. he should just say it once. he hungup on my 5 times and then hes talking to that white girl like 2 days in a row. he says I was annoying him and he uses smilies every 5 seconds in the chat online. I said: if a slut doesnt want u I wont either dont worry about it Michael 6:08 thats fine i dont want you ;] 6:08 dont need ya he talks like a black person when hes white. nah not worf mah time just tell me hur 6:08 gurl u have minutes Michael Tumer 6:09 yes :] not gonna use them on YOU I ask him for his windows 7 disk and he asks me: whats in it for me :] Whats that supposed to mean? Im like: its okay I understnad ur upset that im moving on he said: neg, im happy :] i hope you succeed fully ! i love ya personality Me: why are u talking to me? Him: because i like you and i wanted your opinions about what i should do with my life now, brb oven Me: I dont think after uve been in a long relationship going online to meet people is a good idea Him: yeah probably not a good idea tbh 6:47 i dont know what imma do Is he bipolar, his mom is? or does he still like me.. what does he think of me? What should I do if we see each other tonight? Is he worried I'll meet someone in college?he cussed me out in front of my mom who could hear everything for upstairs and he also yelled in the car 50 ft away and my mom could hear it.. more

Open Question: My sister is turning into one of snotty brats....? please help?

My sister is going to be in the 6th grade and she's turning into one of those slutty girls...i don't think it's the entertainment industry i think their just learning it from their older siblings....i can understand she's just trying to "fit in" but honestly she started begging my mom for Hollister clothes and eyeliner and cover up and what not....my mom told her the only way she could get makeup was if i taught her how to wear it...the whole time i was trying to teach her she was all "no, it needs to be darker, i need to have more eyeliner on, i need to dye my hair beach blonde" and on and on and on...and then she'll beg my mom to give her her old cell phone so she can walk around the mall arm in arm with her friends pretending to be texting...i have to be in the mall with her but my friends and i go and do our thing and we give her specific times to meet up with us at the food court(usually every 30min) so we can make sure shes safe, so we go to the food court and she shows up 15min later and when we tell her she's late and that we were worried, she of course trying to impress her friends turns into a total snot. "your not my mom and i don't have to be anywhere if i dont want to be, so quit acting like your the boss of me" of course then i embaress her in front of her friends by telling her if she didn't apologize i was going to make sure she didn't go to the mall for 2 months..the funny thing is at home she's not like this at all! .anyways i know she's smarter than this and she doesn't need to hang out with these other girls so how can i get her away from them...? more

Open Question: What to do when hanging out with a girl at age 19?

Hi. I'm a 19 year-old male and I guess I am not so great with "pulling in" girls. It seems like I am a "girl magnet" at parties & such, but when it comes to face-to-face encounters I really have no idea what to say to have a girl take interest in me. When I was in high school, talking to girls was so easy because there was time & place to talk. It was also easy to goof off & make a girl laugh in high school, and hanging out after school was usually just smoking, going to a party, drinking, or generally actin' up. But after graduating and age 18, I really just lost myself in what to do if I'm lucky enough to meet a girl and have them hang out with me. What are some good things to do when hanging out with a girl at age 19? I don't want to be boring or simple, as in I don't want to just see a movie or go out to eat, because that kind of stuff isn't find and really wouldn't have a girl take interest in me; it just doesn't make me unique or characteristic. I don't really have any friends so I couldn't just hang with the girl with a couple of friends. I wouldn't personally mind just hanging out with her at my house, but it is my mom's house which is an issue, and also if it's the first time we really just hang out it wouldn't be good as I would hope & expect the girl not to be easy. I would like to potentially get closer to/with the girl when we hang out and build a relationship if possible, but I have no idea what to do or how/where to hang out with her. To me, life after high school really sucks. I don't go to college right now and it doesn't matter with this girl since I don't know if she does. Meeting girls is so hard and then what to do and where to go to hang out? I wish people liked me more & I had friends that never used me, lied, and stole from me. I don't really do anything at all or hang out with anyone because I don't have friends to do anything or hang out with. And my back is broken right now - I can still walk & have sex etc - so some things like go-karts etc are hard for me, even the beach. In high school smoking whacky tobacky (weed) used to be an easy way to socialize & hang out with people and then make friends to do things, but seems I've lost most of the people if not all of the good people I hung out with etc and met the wrong people and yeah here I am. Well any suggestions of what to do & where to go when hanging out with a girl at my age (19) would be great & much appreciated. I really don't want to be used though or have to spend money because I've had girls take advantage of me in the past. more

Open Question: why do mothers put down their daughtners?

my mom is always judging people, like everywhere she goes, well she went over to a friend of hers house and apparently this girl didnt have alot of clothing on, like really short shorts. and my mom was talking to me and my dad, and was like shay is not hott, she has no figure, kinda like you. (meaning me) and last week she said something kinda like that to me, and i got mad, and called her out on it, and she got mad at me and sent me to my room, but it really gets to me, im 15 and whenever i go to the beach people think i look 17 but i dont know if they are just saying that to get in my pants, but that really hurts, and i cant say anything to her, because she gets mad, and i told my dad and my dad said to confront her, well i did that and it got me no where. and i know it is because she is mad because she is loosing her figure, (im not saying this in a mean way btw :) ) but why does she have to put me down, like apparently im suppose to be the "HOTT" one of my mom and my sister and me, but yet my mom is always putting me down. and what bugs me the most is that i use to have braces and look a little weird , well i got my braces off and alot of guys have been giving me attention, so im guessing im looking a little bit better, until my mom starts puttting me down. more

Open Question: Guy problems! Pleaseee help!!!!!?

So I have a lot of guy problems. I always feel like I'm never good enough. I started talking to this guy who I really like, but the only problem is I think he still really likes these other two girls. Everybody knows he liked these two reallly pretty girls and me and him were supposed to hang out at the beach, but when I got there he was with them so I didn't say hey or anything. Later he told me he saw me and said "hi" but I didn't hear him? He definitely didn't say anything to me. Should I continue to talk to him or am I just gonna get crushed? more

Open Question: Dream interpretation?

I'm a 13 year old girl and last night I had a dream I was on my way back from holiday in Sharm El Sheikh, Egypt(in reality I got back last Monday) and on the top of my bus to the airport was the beach and this Indian man was shouting, "I need an Egyptian man to show me some brochures!" so I handed him one. Then, we were suddenly on the plane and my friend who I did not know was on the holiday was at the back with this girl that goes to my school. I asked her why she was on the plane and she revealed that she lied to her Mom that she was staying at the other girl's house for a week when really they went on holiday. It was very strange. Then me and my friend ended up having a sleepover and my Mom was looking after some old man's mansion so we stayed there and it was amazing and huge! What could all this mean? more

Resolved Question: what do you think of my story?

A man is walking around the beach and finds a lightsaber.At first he grabs the light saber and says hell use it for emergencies only.When he gets to school a bully picks on him so he grabs his lightsaber and turns it on.Then he chops the bully's head off and says booyah.Then he does the same to robbers and criminals.Soon he goes mad with power and kills the cops and swat officers in the world.Then he says bow down to me or youll die.In the end a girl with a lightsaber fights him and the girl wins.Then peace is restored to the universe. the end! more

Resolved Question: guys wanna help a girl out?

okay so im 15 year old girl im 5"2 brunette brown eyes i have a very athletic build with curves because im an athlete but im sporty but girly girl i love the beach and surfing but here's my problem guys tend to try to use me a lot but for some reason they all expect me to change for them which im not going to do they say no one wants an athletic girl they say im pretty but because i wont change for them it makes me ugly and guys love to take shots at my confidence they say pretty rough stuff to me. so any guy want to prove not all guys are like that? and is my style bad? more

Open Question: I love this guy, but I broke his heart. What do I do? How to apologise?

Some background info: I'm now 17, male, have blonde hair and green-eyes, really white, German/Australian, 6ft tall, pretty built, I play drums, I enjoy acting, art, painting, music, English can be pretty cool, video games, soccer and I do army cadets (I'm a Sergeant, hoping to actually join the army someday...soon, I have my enlisting form). Now, my school life is complicated. I'm a great guy, I admit, and I like some justice in the world, but my image. I'm kind of a bully, not really, but I'm in the group of what people define as the 'popular' or the 'don't-F-with-them' group and also the group that 'gets all the girls'. I actually have a brain, I never kissed a girl, dated a girl and above all never slept with a girl in my life! There's this one guy, he gets taunted by everyone because he's gay and when I mean taunted I mean I would trip him in hallways, my mates would laugh at him and spit on him and steal his homework, anyone would shove him around, smash his face in lockers, yell at him, push him into the mud, people would discriminate against him and my group would throw pranks at him. He gets looked down at, a lot. Let's call him G. It all started during the summer holidays. G was wrongly invited to a party and upon arriving there he was unwillingly forced to give one of my friends head. I was drunk, but I could still think, and I will not tolerate any forms of non-consensual se-xu-al actions like that. I grabbed up G before anything happened and walked him home. I gained his trust that day. Then one day, early March, my mates wanted to do something that would really get to him, being guys we don't care about feelings that much. The dare was that someone would date him for a month and then kiss, in front of him, either a chick or another guy, who is also gay, but he's fine 'cause he's no geek who cosplays. Anyway, I took the dare (mainly because I'm the head of the group) and it was easy because it's obvious, to me at least, that he admired me for what I did. Through that month, something happened. Through standing up for him, defending him and protecting him, I began to like the victim and then I felt like the victim. He's really sweet and shy, but once you get to know him, he's amazing. I love to see him smile and laugh and really, he is beautiful, on the inside and the outside (you can't get better than a Russian/Jap). We ended up having study sessions at my house or his and we'd just hang, this is stuff I could never do in my group and he makes me so happy and I was making a positive impact on him. He gained confidence in himself and did things just to make me happy and I would too. And then one day, he was performing for me his music assignment which involved him singing and I couldn't take it anymore, I kissed him. He's perfect. But I followed up with the dare, I had to with my group getting kinda suspicious and my cousin, who is best friend's with the guy I think I like, told me they were calling me queer, gay and an a-nal banger. So I did it, I kissed another guy in front of him, but that was only because the other gay guy knew of the dare and he just wanted to get revenge on G and for the dare to be done with. Now he knows of the scam. We live near the beach and he sent me a text to get to shore he said nothing, but he tried to slap me, yet he couldn't and he just walked away. My friends are happy, everyone's cheering, my cousin punched me and dislocated my jaw. I don't know what to do anymore. Yeah I guess I should be happy, but I want to get back to the guy, I want to say sorry and that he actually meant something to me, that the whole month meant something to me. He was the first person I ever liked, he was the first person to make me laugh and to make me cry. He changed me, because of him I quit illegally smoking cigs and drinking alcoholic stuffs. I care about stuff now, I care about my education and because of this I'm passing with flying colours. I even decided to step in and break up fights and tell off people who hurt him using the excuse that he's sister is dating my cousin and that I don't want them to break up over this (which is true, but a cover up on how I feel about him).But...with my friends, its hard, I am their leader, but you should understand, they'll degrade me. It's pretty hard stuff and I'm stumped. I don't know what to do with myself anymore. I broke his heart and I feel so bad for what I did. I know, you can remind me about how much of a d*ck I was to him, but now I know I love him, now I know that I am gay and yeah, I love him. I want him to know that I'm not out there to hurt him anymore, but I don't know how. Please, this is a mature question. more

Open Question: I like this guy, but I broke his heart, what do I do?

Resolved Question: Is my co-worker interested in me?

So the other night I went over to my co-worker's place to chill with him and his friends. I ended up bringing another girl friend of mine who also works with us. At one point in the night, it was just me and my co-worker chilling in the kitchen alone and making some drinks. As we were talking, he asked for my number so then he could call me tomorrow to meet up and go to the beach since me and my girl friend invited them to come to the beach with us. He called me the next day and we met up at the beach with his friends and mine. While he was skim boarding, he turned around where me and my girl friends were chilling. So I flashed him a smile and he smiled back. Then yesterday, he texted me asking what I was doing this weekend. It seems to me he might be interested in me. But he also just broke up with his ex-girlfriend about 3 weeks ago. So I don't know if he's just being flirtatious because he's single now. more

Open Question: I am considering allowing my 16 year old child to...?

I am considering allowing my 16 year old child to swim at the beach next weekend on our vacation, before summer is over. She is a very pretty girl though, and there will be men on the beach, so I was thinking getting her this type of swimsuit http://i978.photobucket.com/albums/ae264/ashantifan1224/modest_swimsuits.jpg What do you think, does it show too much skin? Thanks. more

Open Question: Please help me, what is this pop/dance song !!!?

Chorus goes "ohhhh.......oh....ohhhh...." and it's very reverby, mid tempo dance/electropop kind of song. "baby I'm a need you" is possibly a line. It's set on a beach at night, with a bridge in the background, possibly NY or Golden Gate Bridge. They're on a beach, a guy and a girl, both wearing BIZARRE headwear! Like, golden head-dress kind of things. The guy might have bleached hair, it's hard to tell...the entire video is set on this night beach, next to a bridge, next to a skyline. PLEASE HELP ME FIND THIS SONG/VIDEO! more

Open Question: Had a big fight with my friend, i feel sorry but i dont want to forgive her?

Ok so heres the most stupid fight over the most stupid thing...I still think im right My friend borrowed jeans, shorts, nail polish, and a crapload of other things from me over the course of our friendship. She takes her own sweet time giving it back, usually taking about a week for little things, to 3 months for my Ugg boots (and way more for other things). Whenever i ask her to give me back my stuff, shes all like "Why are you so pushy? Just use some other stuff till i'm done with it." Im pretty sure that it doesnt take that long to be done with a clip (which she never actually wore.) I barely ever borrow her things because i dont like n=being yelled at to give things back. Afew days ago, we went to the beach. I asked to borrow her sunglasses and she said yes, and i forgot to give them back when we were leaving. 2 days later she starts texting me being really rude. "Where the hell are my sunglasses?" I said ill meet her in 1 hour to give them back (we live a few streets down from each other.) She starts complaining about how shes sooo busy and cant come in an hour, so i decided to just go then. When i got to where we usually meet, she wasn't there, so i waited as long as i could then left after 45 minutes. She texts me back saying "Where are you? Did you ditch me to go watch TV or something?" I explained that i was tired of waiting, but she keeps sending me texts like that, and eventually says " My life is way harder than yours, and i still found time to come and meet you. You know Jesse? Well he broke up with me last week." Now, she says that HER life is so hard because her boyfriend broke up with her and she didnt cry at all( i was with her), when shes talking to a girl that used to be anorexic, best friend died a year ago while i was with her, and hasn't eaten a damn donut in 3 years. (should go under the anorexia part, but this is its own problem by itself) i Stopped texting her and blocked her off in every way possible, but now i feel kind of bad. What should i do? more

Open Question: Public beaches legal past 12am? Good idea?

Me and a girl I know really enjoy spending time with each other, relaxing, comforting each other and talking. I was thinking laying on the beach late at night would be very satisfying and fun (and the only place we can think of to relax). Specifically the beach is Buckroe Beach in Hampton Va. Is there a time period for public beaches where its illegal to go there? Or is it a bad idea because there is possibility of danger late at night? Thanks. more

Resolved Question: Why does my mom put me down?

Resolved Question: How can I get a guys attention at the beach??? GUYS HELP!?

Im 5 feet tall, light brown hair, not very skinny but thin enough to wear a bikini. I believe i come off as confident, but when I go to the beach, i feel like no guy gives me any attention. Is it just me? Guys please help, how does a girl grab your eye? Oh and I'm going to the beach for a whole week tomorrow so immediate answers would be GREAT!!!Guys that already answered: Would you find a girl whos a little overweight but still looks decent in a bikini attractive? more

Open Question: DO YOU agree with this????

"NO DOUBT BAND BIO: # The Very Beginning # Anaheim, California. Little Gwen, whose tastes run along the lines of The Sound of Music, agrees to sing lead vocals on older brother Eric Stefani's first song, "Stick It In The Hole," about a pencil sharpener. Born and raised in England, relocated to Southern California at age 11, saxophonist Tony Kanal joins his high-school jazz band in 10th grade as the bass player. Ninth grader Adrian Young attempts to drum to "Bend Over" by O.C. band Doggy Style at a school talent contest; his parents bought him a kit when he was 18. A wee lad with a prized KISS record living in Irvine (California), Tom Dumont dreamed of being a rock star. As a teen, hopeful Tom started practicing guitar. # Setting the Foundation # December 1986 Back-flipping singer John Spence forms Orange County-based 2 Tone ska group No Doubt-named after his favorite expression-with keyboardist Eric, who forces Gwen to sing backing vocals. Gwen cites Madness, Kermit the Frog, Julie Andrews and Fishbone's Angelo Moore as her heroes. # March 12, 1987 After several raucous party performances, No Doubt play their first "official" gig at Fender's Ballroom in Long Beach, California; the band was second on a bill of 14 with The Untouchables headlining. Tony, a high-school junior, was one of several hundred people watching. Shortly thereafter, he tries out. Band accepts him even though he's never been in a band, has long hair and is wearing Mexican sandals. By the summer, Tony, an organized perfectionist, becomes the band's unofficial manager. # December 21, 1987 Tragically, John Spence committed suicide at an Anaheim park. A few days later, No Doubt plays a big industry gig at the Roxy in Hollywood. Devastated over John's suicide, they call it quits. Days later they reform knowing that's what John would want. # Still Forming # Spring 1988 College music student and heavy-metal guitarist Tom leaves his sister's band, Rising, because the metal scene in O.C. sucks; after peering in the window while No Doubt rehearsed, Tom pulls his long hair into a ponytail and joins the Ska-heavy No Doubt, adding a heavier edge. # 1987-1988 Part of the then-underground-ska-scene, No Doubt built a huge following of loyal "rude boys" and "rude girls" after numerous gigs opening for The Untouchables and Fishbone, as well as their own all-ages shows. A three-song and a five-song demo are sold at shows. # Summer 1989 Drummer, huge No Doubt fan and fibber, Adrian joins No Doubt after calling a number from the back of a demo tape; he tells No Doubt he has years of experience; he only has one. His love of 70's rock and Ska made the choice obvious. No Doubt plays their first out-of-state show in Arizona to about a hundred people."# 1989-1990 Band quickly evolves into a solid five-piece unit, expanding their sound to include the styles of each member. With shows opening for the Red Hot Chili Peppers, Ziggy Marley and Mano Negra, their fan base broadens to the college crowd. Pizza mailing list parties become the modus operandi as the list, which was started in 1987, grows from a few hundred names to a couple thousand. (In 1993, when the list reaches approximately 7,000 names, Tony decides to have just pizza parties.) # Underground Band Strikes It Big...Sort Of # August 1991 No Doubt signs a "big" recording contract with Interscope Records; they continue driving around O.C. in their old cars and work day jobs (Gwen and Tony are sales people at the same department store, Adrian waits tables at a steak house, and Tom runs a small music equipment rental business). Interscope head honcho Jimmy Iovine predicts Gwen will be a star in five years. The band really wants to be played on Los Angeles radio station KROQ. # Oct# October - December 1991 Between working and going to school (Tom's a music major, Gwen's an art major, Tony and Adrian are psychology majors.), the group drives to a Los Angeles studio to record their 14-song debut album, which features early-crafted songs (1987) as well as recently penned material; they spend less than $13,000. # March 1992 Self-titled No Doubt released. Only 30,000 sold; grunge is in; they don't get played on KROQ. Adrian remembers the program director saying, "It would take an act of God for this band to get on the radio." Enough said. In support of No Doubt, the band embarks on its first two-week, 13-show, Western-state headlining tour in two vans (five members, a three-piece horn section, a roadie, tour manager/soundman and equipment). # Summer 1992 Band makes video for "Trapped in the Box" for a mere $5,000; MTV never played it. No Doubt once again makes a two-week Western run.# Fall 1992 Hitting the "big time," the band undertakes a two-and-a-half month national tour-still in vans. Although predominately headlining small clubs, they opened shows for Public Enemy, Pato Banton and The Special Beat. # From Tragic Comes Magic # March 1993 No Doubt begins the first sessions for what would be called Tragic Kingdom. The album was recorded in 11 different studios over two and a half years. Tony refers to it as a "battleground"-and there were casualties. # 1994 Eric departs before the completion of Tragic Kingdom to continue as an animator on The Simpsons. After a seven-year relationship, Tony and Gwen split; the singer has plenty to sing about and "Don't Speak" evolves from a love song into a broken heart number.# Early 1995 No Doubt self-releases the 10-song Beacon Street Collection comprised of B-Sides from Tragic Kingdom. It is named after the house on the street in Anaheim where several members lived and the garage studio where most of the tracks were recorded. Available only at shows and local record stores, they sell out of the first thousand CDs. # August - September 1995 Laying the groundwork for Tragic Kingdom, No Doubt plays the main stage on the first Warped Tour. # October 1995 Tragic Kingdom, a mixture of ska, new wave, pop, punk and rock, is released. Of the lyrics, Gwen says: "We went through some really bad times in the past couple years. Our way of dealing with that is humor and I think that's really apparent in the record." Album doesn't make the charts and KROQ, slow to catch on, doesn't pay attention. No Doubt plays Virgin Megastore in Costa Mesa, California. At the request of her mother, Gwen tries not to swear during "Just A Girl," but she does and her mom won't speak to# her for a week. # Winter 1995 KROQ pays attention; band smiles. New wave-ish "Just A Girl," about being a girl, gets massive requests. Band swears it's not their friends calling. In support of Tragic Kingdom, No Doubt tours a week with 311, then several weeks on their own, followed by Holiday radio shows. # A Girl is Queen, No Doubt is Fly # January 1996 Several months after it's release, Tragic Kingdom debuts on Billboard's Top 200 at No. 175, and the single "Just A Girl" reaches No. 10. Tom, the music's author, told Guitar World: "That single surprised the hell out of me. I always thought the song was cool, but I never expected it to fly like it has." Video, which features band and Gwen in separate rooms, is all over MTV; media focuses on Gwen's midriff and bindi. No Doubt makes late night debut performing "Just A Girl" on Late Night with Conan O'Brien. # March 28, 1996 David Letterman is seen tapping his foot while No Doubt performs "Just A Girl" on The Late Show.# May 1996 On the road opening for Bush, Gwen breaks her foot while performing; the show must go on-this time with plenty of Band-Aids. # June 1996 The catchy "Spiderwebs," with music by Tony and Gwen-penned lyrics NOT about their relationship, reaches No. 5 in Billboard. Band begins their first European tour, followed by dates in Australia, New Zealand, Indonesia and Japan. # July 1996 Tragic Kingdom goes Platinum. Gwen changes her hairstyle; media focuses on her belly, bindi and 'do. # August 1996 Tragic Kingdom certified Double-Platinum. Although No Doubt had been headlining in clubs for seven years, they embark on their first sold-out, theater-size headlining tour. Fashion magazines and teens mirror Gwen's style; Gwennabees are hatched.# September 5, 1996 Mutual admiration established, No Doubt returns to Letterman to perform "Spiderwebs." # Sometime 1996 A leading news magazine reports that "that No Doubt girl" is paving the way for a new style; she changes her hair again. The band gets cropped out of photos. No Doubt stipulates they are A BAND, not just a girl. Gwen becomes the reigning queen of pop. # October 1996 November issue of SPIN hits the stands with No Doubt cover story-only they forget No Doubt is a BAND. Gwen's pretty face and belly button get top billing while the boys are relegated to the Table of Contents page. SPIN says: "No Doubt is the Last American New Wave Group."November 1996 After performing nearly every night for a year, Gwen's vocal chords are strained; the band cancels its second European tour; the dates are made up in early 1997. Quintessential power ballad "Don't Speak," about Tony and Gwen's break up, reaches No. 2 on the Modern Rock chart and No. 1 on Hot 100 airplay chart in Billboard. The cathartic video depicts three forgotten guys pitted against the adored singer; it was therapeutic. "Has it got to the point where we mean nothing? If Gwen doesn't speak, we mean nothing?" Tom queries a Rolling Stone writer.# December 7, 1996 No Doubt perform "Don't Speak" and "Excuse Me Mr." on Saturday Night Live. The following week Tragic Kingdom reaches No. 1 in Billboard-14 months after its release, selling 229,000 copies the first week at the top spot, more than 500,000 Christmas week, and six million total. The album will spend nine weeks at No. 1, and 36 weeks in the Top 10. # Decade of No Doubt # Winter 1997 No Doubt begins its third headlining tour, this time at enormadome venues. It was either stripped-down clubs or Spinal Tap, jests Tom. They went with the classic comedy and the Cirque de Soliel sets. Tragic Kingdom reaches No. 1 on Billboard's International Album Eurochart, and was a Top 5 album in the U.K., Canada, Germany, Australia, Norway, Spain, Portugal, New Zealand, Denmark and Finland.# January 1997 No Doubt attends American Music Awards after being nominated for Favorite New Artist Pop/Rock. Band is super excited even if they don't win. "Not bad, Best New Artist and we've been around for 10 years," marvels Gwen. # February 1997 No Doubt attends Grammy Awards after being nominated for Best Rock Album and Best New Artist. Band is super excited even if they don't win. They perform "Spiderwebs" live. All-time touring highlight, No Doubt plays a sold-out, 3,000-capacity show in Israel-including members of the opposing religious groups. On their day off, they tour Jerusalem and swim in the Dead Sea.# March 1997 No Doubt celebrates Tenth Anniversary!!! # April 11, 1997 No Doubt perform the reggae-tinged "Sunday Morning" on The Tonight Show with Jay Leno; although the lyrics are once again about their break up, it's Tony's favorite No Doubt song. # May 1997 Rolling Stone finally puts No Doubt on the cover-the ENTIRE band in white surgical garb. The writer announces "everything (Gwen) says is true" and that their pop music is "rousing and potent." At a show in Northern California, which ironically included a rendition of "The Imperial March" from Star Wars, George Lucas and his daughter go backstage to meet the band. Lucas invites the band to see the Phantom Menace set in London.# July 1997 Tony meets his all-time music hero Prince after the Purple One checked out No Doubt's Minneapolis show. Later that night, the band jams at Paisley Park. # Summer 1997 Rarely seeing a Sunday morning at home, No Doubt continues to see the world from a stage. Tragic Kingdom, still in the Top 50 at 80-plus weeks on the charts, sells seven million in the U.S. and 11 million worldwide. No Doubt, their first record, has now sold around 250,000 copies. # September 4, 1997 They finally win. "Don't Speak" gives No Doubt the opportunity to speak as they enthusiastically accept the Best Group Video statue at the MTV Video Music Awards.Fall 1997 Tragic Kingdom has now sold in the neighborhood of eight million in the U.S. and 13 million worldwide. The end of the "big" tour for Tragic Kingdom. No Doubt hit some choice spots in Europe, and play for the first time in India, Singapore and South America. While in London, the band watches the filming of a Phantom Menace light saber scene starring Ewan McGregor's character and Darth Maul. In Singapore, the band abides by the country's laws for public performance: no spitting, swearing, gyrating, and naked torsos. A good time is still had. The band all agrees that playing in India was the most awesome experience on stage. For Tony, who flew his parents home to India for a rare visit, the experience held a special meaning as his extended family sat in the front row.# October 1997 Interscope re-releases the 10-song Beacon Street Collection as part of the back catalog. (100,000 copies were initially sold by the band in 1995.) # November 1997 No Doubt releases Live In The Tragic Kingdom, a 92-minute, live-performance video shot at The Arrowhead Pond of Anaheim, the arena owned by the Magic Kingdom (Disneyland). Plenty of rock poses, good cheer and sweat. # December 1997 More good tidings, No Doubt's version of the Vandals joyful carol "Oi To The World appears on the album A Very Special Christmas III; album proceeds benefit the Special Olympics. The accompanying "Oi To The World" video was shot with a digital video camera by Sophie Muller while the band was on tour in India. # A Rest to Develop It# Early 1998 No Doubt takes some much needed time off. Separately, they step across the Orange County border and settle into new addresses within the L.A. County line. They also stop eating fast food-except Tony. Renting out a Hollywood Hills home, the band begins writing songs for the follow up to the big success-and finding their direction; as Gwen said: "We didn't know what kind of music we were going to write because we out grew our old style." Gwen, in love again, has plenty to sing about. # March 7, 1998 They win again-this time at the California Music Awards (formerly the BAMMIES). Gwen gets a statue for Outstanding Female Vocalist Statewide, and the band walks off with Outstanding Group Statewide.# March 1998 Adrian plays drums for the Vandals on a quick European tour. The band continues writing songs for their forthcoming CD. # April 1998 For the Stormy Weather '98 concert at L.A.'s Wiltern Theater, a benefit for Don Henley's Walden Woods Foundation, Gwen sings two torch songs: "I Can Dream, Can't I," made popular by the Andrew Sisters, and Elvis Costello's "Almost Blue." # August 1998 Gwen's a waitress-just for a day. She appears in an apron in a Rufus Wainwright video shot at her house. A week later, Gwen (without the apron) hosts a birthday bash for Tony and Adrian at her house. Many musician friends dance to loud rock music into the early morning.Wait there's more...?! At least tell if you agree with the facts.Also what to you thiink about it? more

Open Question: should i stay with him?

in march this year i came home from work one friday to find my boyfriend gone and all his stuff gone, i tried to call over n over again but his phone was off i got a message saying im sorry i love you. i was shattered we had known each other for over 5 years and were together for over 1. i didnt hear from him for like 3 days then i had 12 missed calls from him i answered and he was crying saying how sorry he was, he had gotten his friends to pick him up from queensland and he went up there with them to live. i didnt know what to do none of my family wanted me to have anything to do with him. so the weeks went and i took him back but it wasnt the same i was staying at my friends to keep my mind of things. he said called me one day can u go home tonight so we can talk on the phone and try and work things out i agreed so i went home and tried to call he wasnt answering a couple hours later i got a text from him saying sorry was at the beach with everyone i text back n didnt hear from him all night! a couple days later i saw all over the internet that he had slept with another girl i confronted him about it n he denied it all, i was having a talk with this girls friend and she told me everything and i told him about it he denied it all and i believed. we worked things out and i went to see him every couple of weeks. then it was my 18th birthday he didnt want me to go out and have fun so i lied to him and went out that night i got a message saying haha i did cheat on you.. and its funny when i got that message i didnt believe it i just thought he was trying to rewin my night. the next day it sunk in, it made me feel sick in my stomach but i took him back! its been about 5 months now and we live together again and i still cant forgive him, it still makes me sick, i cant trust him at all, i think about it everyday and cry, i cant look at him the same. i try to talk to him about it but he sayd get over it it was ages ago! which hurts even more. he says to me that im the one who rewined our relationship and that hes not going to try and make it work anymore. but i love him so much i cant see myself with anybody but him but it hurts to be with him. i dont know what to do weather to try and get councelling or just leave it and go back to my family! more

Open Question: HS girls, help me on it?

damn! i saw this happen a couple times last year to guys at school and laughed about it. once it happened to a friend of mine. he got slapped by this girl, and she used a move on him that i seen before. stuck out her hip with her hand on her hip and then used her other hand and slapped his face. he had his hand on his cheek and i asked how come he didn't just block it, he said he can't cuz of her move. i laughed hard, and was like, there's NO WAY that move would work on me! I'd block that EASY! well a few days ago i went up to this really cute blonde chick at the beach, and she had a nice a** too! she was about 5'6, said she's 15, a soph this year and had a sky blue bikini on so I could tell she had it all! I went up to her, and here's how she did it. First she was like "ughh?", like she gasped and then scrunched her face up and pushed FAR to the side her left hip. Then she was like "hmpph!" and put her left hand on top of her left hip, stood there. I saw the blur, but too late. out flipped her RIGHT! hand, my mouth fell open looking dumb, *slapped*, she got me on the cheek good. SUCKS! I thought I could block that move though. Awwrrghh! I had my hand on my cheek and said I coulda blocked it, but she laughed and was like "yeah right, creep. you can't. i've used it before." bit*h! damnit! I was frozen by that move. How? I woulda bet 1,000 bucks I was too fast for HS girls, but I'm not! Thing is, that was the best I had too, cuz I'm good at reading body language, signs, and there's NONE on this move, so it's impossible to tell! It's like HS girls are experts at using this damn move! Help me, you know it? How do I block that move?damn Coreen! Well, HS girls confuse me too i guess! more

Open Question: What's happening to our relationship?

Me and my girlfriend have been together about 6 months. Im 17 shes 18. It is my first real physical relationship, but not hers. We spent alot of time together, we get along amazingly, and we totally get each other. We have never really fought about anything, but i have this issue with her first boyfriend, she was very attached to him, and they did alot of stuff. And this upsets me, and they had a very bad breakup, so she was upset for a long time about it. it ended over a year before we started dating, she says shes over him, and i have no doubt that she is. I fell in love with her around month 3, when we were at the beach, i knew i ment it too. We started getting physical around then. We decided to wait for sex, which was fine with me because i cared about her so much. THe jealousy of her exboyfriend would upset me sometimes, but i am getting over it. We saw each other almost everyday. when i went to the beach with family, i had to call her every night, and same when she went on vacation. then i left for two weeks to be a counselor at a camp, we didnt have much communication as it was in the mountains. nothing really changed, i just learned i guess that i cant be in contact with her at all times. And plus this really cute girl i met started flirting with me, just flirting harmless. I dunno, i really considered going after this girl. I dont know why, nothing changed in my relationship with my girlfriend. Anyway i got back, and i started spending time with my girlfriend again, and somehting just felt different. I didnt have the obsession with her anymore, i still wanted to talk to her all the time and see her everyday, but the intense passion just isnt there. And out of no where i have this issue with her appearance, for the record she is gorgeous, but this other girl was just ridiculously goodlooking. two days ago, my gf left for college, shell visit every two weeks. I really love her still. but i want to know why im feeling like this. I know deep down i still do. i cried for hours when she left, and i just slept for the last two days. im really worried something is happening. her feelings for me havent changed. Weve talked about marriage, i know its way early but i really considered it, and i think seeing this other girl made me realize that one girl for the rest of my life at seventeen is asking alot. i dont want to be attracted to other girls, but i dunno, this is my first super serious relationship, and i dont wanna fuck it up because i might like another girl, because i think ill realize that i wont feel the same way about other girls.. also, while we were packing, i read a few excerpts from her diary, they were really depressing, i didnt realize how much she cared for this other guy. but i believe that shes over him and her feelings for me are stronger. i have a bad feeling she might just want to love someone, but i dunno, reading it affected me bad. so what is happening and what can i do? p.s. i know its long, im sorry, please only answer if you have actually advice for me, it will be greatly appreciated. more

Open Question: will a guy call a girl everyday if he has no romantic interest in her?

I've been talking to a guy for a few months now, flirting is usually involved. and he always call me things like hun, darling, love, lovely etc. he's even thrown out an I miss you or I need to see you. for about a month now we've switched from texting to talking on the phone everyday and night for about 3 hours at a time sometimes more than once a day. the first time we hung out just us two nothing happened no kiss no hand holding nothing and I thought maybe he just wasn't interested but he called me later that night and everyday since. so yesterday was our second time hanging out just us and we went to dinner, he payed even after I offered and opened all the doors for me, very sweet. afterwards we decided to take a night drive to the beach, when we got there it was the perfect setting, stars were out, no one else was on the beach but us and we stayed there for about 45 minutes... again nothing, no kiss no arms around the shoulder nothing, when I dropped him back ar home he said he had a nice time and would call me later and said goodbye and gave me a tight hug and that was it. he called me about two hours later and we talked for about an hour then texted me later when he couldn't sleep and we talked on the phone for about an hour again. am I totally mis reading the situation? should I make the first mcw next time we hang out? or does he want to be just friends? so confused... any advice helps!! :) more

Resolved Question: should i stay or should i go : S?

Well, there is this girl whom ive been hanging out with for almost a year. shes really funny and we have fun every time we go out but lately shes been very...b**tchy and annoying! last month she hadn't spoken to me for a week just because i sat next to our other friend at the Beach(wtf? ... were 17!.) i didn't text her yesterday at all because she was at her cousins for a few days( i don't like bothering others when on holiday or on family occasions) she wasn't too pleased about that and complained and today she asked if we are going to the theme park on saturday but since smth came up (my bf came to visit, i don't see him that much) i asked if sunday would be okay and she sent me this text : "but we arranged for saturday. oh my fu**ing god ive already told my parents. why does this always have to happen? how many times must i tell you he same thing? " WTF? so what if i have changed our plans be4, is she like keeping count? i dont complain when she does... should i get angry? i mean... shes just a friend of mine i care about her and all but never have i thought of her as a "best friend" or a person who truly knows me. so ... i don't feel like going to the theme park with her at all! whats your opinion, after this would u go? more

Open Question: I had a dream that I murdered someone?

I dreamed that I killed a girl that I met 2 years ago at a beach. REALLY strange. I shot her twice. I am really not angry at all, nor do I feel like killing people lol. What do you think this dream means?? I'm recovering from a bad year, so maybe it's like I'm moving on? I don't even really know the girl.What do you think it means? more

Open Question: Is he an ***? Or am I just biased?

My best friend, who i've had since the 7th grade, started dating this guy a little over eight months ago. He is the most annoying, weird, and touchy person that I've ever met. I absolutely hate this guy and dread seeing him. As her best friend, I will put up with this guy as long as she likes them or until they get married...god forbid. He recently went to the beach with one of his girl friends (not my best friend, some other girl he is just friends with) and a bunch of her friends. My best friend has been sitting at home for days bored out of her mind because everyone is away currently, and her boyfriend did not invite her to come with him. When she talked to me about it, she was really angry, but he says "he didn't know that she wanted to come." I call ******** on that, he would of atleast asked her then right? I would love your guys opinions on the matter. Is he an *** or am I overblowing things with my hate for him? more

Resolved Question: Tennis section- guess this song p3?

this time round im gonna pout 2 songs since ppl seem 2 get 1 answer pretty quickl XD song 1: Yeah, Here we go once again Guess who's back Let's go This song is all about you I really hate you but I love you So what can I do? now listen... chorus: girl you got me hurtin' Cause I know for certain We can be so perfect And I know you know that Ill always be your lover Why don't you get it? BABY LET ME LOVE YA, LOVE YA, LOVE YA * girl you got me hurtin' Cause I know for certain We can be so perfect And I know you know that Ill always be your lover Put no one above ya BABY LET ME LOVE YA, LOVE YA, LOVE YA You know that I've waited for you all of this time With every breath and with every rhyme you say you can't hear me, your letting me go, but now I'm back I'm letting you know Forget your boyfriend, I can be your best friend He never loved you the way I can love you girl so baby won't you come to me I'll make you make you happy chorus You know that I tried being happy for you, Even if my dreams would never come true what can I do, if you would just look back at me, your smile is all that I need But girl I see the way your tears are flowing I know your pain is showing I try to hold it back but its no use. my love is growing I CANNOT LET IT GO, I GOTTA TAKE YOU baby You belong with me YEAH Why don't you listen to me? Just think of all we could be... cause every time i look in your beautiful eyes, your pain is all I can see Forget about the bad bad love that bruised your heart and pushed you away You know Ill always be here for you at the end of the day every time your tears are flowing down , ill save you girl you'll never drown even if my heart is ripped apart yea... I can cross over the sea Please believe , before your ship goes down I'm gonna sink into your heart, so we can burn this town. song 2: like a rush on the beach at the end of the day when the sand is going to be cold under your way the season fades and you think everything's lost in the waves like a spark in your eyes so your love will be mine when the sky is going to light and shine you take my hands and i think that time will give me one more chance do you remember a kiss under the moonlight when it was summer it was love at first sight can you remember cause i feel the same now until the winter will see blooming this love x2 ----- music ----- like a dive in the waves i am caught in you love and i'm flying in the clouds above i feel you near and i fear no more the winter 'cause you're here do you remember a kiss under the moonlight when it was summer it was love at first sight can you remember cause i feel the same now until the winter will see blooming this love x2 the first song was remade into a english cover btw =)nd the last song was wedding dress by taeyang but the eng cover was by kevin lien heres the link 2 the song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-XZSquYFCWQ =)lol this is a hard 1 XD, no1's got it so far. =) im happy XD@mexi- lol nop still wrong XD@JBP- yep the second song is waves by dj satomi. now can any1 get the first 1??@vamos- lol wat r u talkin about?? the first song or second?@vamos- lol then gimme the artist nd titlehaha nd vamos has found the first song its love ya by SS501 eng cover by jd relic!! more

Open Question: NEED HELP WITH MY PARTY!!!!!!!!!?

Ok, I'm having my birthday at the Sheraton hotel and I have some serious problems. Well first here are some details Its for middle-school girls We couldn't afford two rooms so my mom is sleeping on the floor There is a pool with 1 slide but right across from the beach We are on a really tight budget Here are the things I need help with: Overall: do you think my party is gonna b a complete disaster because i havent planned much and do you think we will just be sitting in the room or pool doing nothing fun :( Entertainment: I have no games planned or anything because idk if my friends will like them, do you think I should have games and if so please describe :) Food: Is ordering Pizza ok? Decorations: None as of now- what should we do??? again we are on a tight budget Basically I just need help with making it more fun and just general advice. :) Thanks soooo much :) more

Open Question: I like this Guy I know I shouldn't :/?

Okay, so I'm 16 and the guy I will be talking about is close to my age lol, I need mature answers and please don't judge me. Thanks :) Last week my friend told me that her boyfriends friend saw my profile on facebook and said I was cute and wanted to meet me, I just broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half three weeks earlier so I said, why not? I felt like I needed to meet new people and my friend said he was super cute. So we met up with them and my first impression was, damn, he was super hot but he smoked ciggarettes, which i think is so gross. We'll we all went to the beach and this guy kept checking out other girls and I was like okay hes a total man whore. But we started talking and I realized he was super sweet. When we got back from the beach him and I went to get job applications for him and we talked and stuff and he seemed like a real party boy haha. We'll we kissed and stuff and that night and hung out til 10 when my friend and I went home. He texted me and told me that he thought I was really sweet and the kind of person he needed in his life, someone who was stable and didn't just want to drink and party. That next night we all hung out and I ended up staying the night at his house and we had sex, once again, no judging! It was alot of fun and he was sweet and we had a good night. The next day he dropped my friend and I off at her house and when he got home he texted me saying he had so much fun and he really liked me. So, stupid me I fall for him because obviously casual sex DOES NOT work for me and I started getting feelings for this guy I really don't know. He talks to me everyday and tells me he cares about me and likes me and stuff like that but when were together he pushes for sex like no other! It's like thats all he wants and I know I should be like screw you and leave, but apart of me is attatched to him because we had sex and we have a bond, but come on, I've known him barely over a week! I feel so stupid because I gave it up so easily and that was the first time I have ever done something like that! I'm not a **** or anything and I know what I did was not very smart but he used a condom and I am on BC. So what do I do about my situation? Stick around and see where it goes? Or swallow my feelings and leave? :/ Please Be Honest and Not Hateful! Thank You! :) I think the only thing I am honestly scared for is that I will fall for him then I won't have sex with him to see if thats ALL he wants, then he'll get it from someone else, that will totally make me feel like crap:/ more

Open Question: I like this guy I know I shouldn't :/?

Okay, so I'm 16 and the guy I will be talking about is close to my age lol, I need mature answers and please don't judge me. Thanks :) Last week my friend told me that her boyfriends friend saw my profile on facebook and said I was cute and wanted to meet me, I just broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half three weeks earlier so I said, why not? I felt like I needed to meet new people and my friend said he was super cute. So we met up with them and my first impression was, damn, he was super hot but he smoked ciggarettes, which i think is so gross. We'll we all went to the beach and this guy kept checking out other girls and I was like okay hes a total man whore. But we started talking and I realized he was super sweet. When we got back from the beach him and I went to get job applications for him and we talked and stuff and he seemed like a real party boy haha. We'll we kissed and stuff and that night and hung out til 10 when my friend and I went home. He texted me and told me that he thought I was really sweet and the kind of person he needed in his life, someone who was stable and didn't just want to drink and party. That next night we all hung out and I ended up staying the night at his house and we had sex, once again, no judging! It was alot of fun and he was sweet and we had a good night. The next day he dropped my friend and I off at her house and when he got home he texted me saying he had so much fun and he really liked me. So, stupid me I fall for him because obviously casual sex DOES NOT work for me and I started getting feelings for this guy I really don't know. He talks to me everyday and tells me he cares about me and likes me and stuff like that but when were together he pushes for sex like no other! It's like thats all he wants and I know I should be like screw you and leave, but apart of me is attatched to him because we had sex and we have a bond, but come on, I've known him barely over a week! I feel so stupid because I gave it up so easily and that was the first time I have ever done something like that! I'm not a slut or anything and I know what I did was not very smart but he used a condom and I am on BC. So what do I do about my situation? Stick around and see where it goes? Or swallow my feelings and leave? :/ Please Be Honest and Not Hateful! Thank You! :)I think the only thing I am honestly scared for is that I will fall for him then I won't have sex with him to see if thats ALL he wants, then he'll get it from someone else, that will totally make me feel like crap:/ more

Open Question: How should I write my book and does this book sound like a good idea?

Okay so the book is a realistic romance, sorry if I failed anyone haha. My idea for the book is there is a man somewhere in his thirties who used to be a hit singer and died down and now only few people know who he is. He is traveling his old, now deserted beach house for inspiration for a new song and meets a woman who is trying to evict the house. At first they think nothing of each other, then fall in love. She doesn't know that he's looking for inspiration for a new song and she doesn't recognize him from being a famous singer. She has had her heart broken before and is taking things slowly, and then she finds out that he is only using her (that's what she thinks) and leaves him and i'm not sure how to end the story yet! just thought of it! anyway, who's view should this be? should i switch off views or should i do third person? i was thinking about making the man be the person's view, but im a girl and i don't quite understand the guy brain.... also is this a good idea, the book? no hate comments, if u don't like it just say so politely more

Open Question: is it better to go w the flow or just go all the way? (sorry its long, <3 you if you reply!)?

long story short, this really flirty church girl has been showing quite a bit of interest in me. staring, touching, smiling she's had 1 boyfriend. I've been flirting back then stopped flirting, pick on her a lot, etc..shes asked me if I wanted to hang out with her quite a few times (I'm playing hard to get even tho that's the girls job)..anyways I heard from some people that she likes me, but she is extremely flirty. she's always asking why I don't like her. we went out to eat in a huge group the other night and she was kind of ignoring me, then talking to me. she was flirting/talking/complimenting other guys right in front of me, while glancing my way. we ended up going to the beach this past sat, same touchy, flirty, talking, laughing at everything I say, her talking about how hot other guys were that were around us. me, my friend, her and her friend went out to eat after the beach. we were sititing across from each other and she was staring at me. I looked at her and we locked eyes for 2-3 seconds and I winked at her, she winked back. I came out of the bathroom and she was inside my car w it started. I stuck my hand through the window and she grabbed it and we interlocked fingers and we were playing for a couple min..then we hugged good bye... we went to the beach again and we were more close this time. we took pics together, flirted, had a great time together. we were cuddling and rubbing eachother on the way home. we went to the gym the other night and we got into some pretty deep conversations. she told me something that she hasnt told one person yet, and she still cant get over that she told me. we talked about eachothers familys, got to know eachother. she told me shes already told her mom about me. on the way home I told her I know she's been wanting to hear this. I told her I really liked her. her face LIT up with a huge smile and she told me she felt the same way. we both agreed to go with the flow of things and not rush into anything. after she dropped me off @ home we talked on the phone for an hour. one of her friends came up to me and he asked me about me and her. he told me she came up to him randomly and asked if he thought that I thought she was pretty. what do you guys think about this? more

Open Question: HELP! common app short answer?

my common app short answer is 164 words...i need to get it down to 150. can anyone help me with cutting it down? And, how does it sound? Do you think it's a good short answer? I really appreciate the help!!! Ever since I was a young girl, I had a love for the water. If it was a swimming pool or a beach, I would dive right in. I started basic swim lessons at the age of six and once I turned 7, my mom took me to a local swim club to try out for the team. I made the team and as the years went on, I developed not only a love for the sport, but a love for my team. We all work together and strive to help each other out. There were grueling practices and disappointments, but I knew that failure comes with success. Throughout the ten years that I have swum, I can proudly say that I have had more successes than failures. With the help of my team, my coach, and the perseverance I give myself, I was able to accomplish my goals. As my coach says, “Success comes not with wishing, but by hard work bravely done.” thankyou! :) more

Open Question: i had a dream about my ex friend on the beach....?

I I was walking on a Beach pier boardwalk, which is very similar to the Santa Monica Pier. Then at a short distance I noticed a girl who is lying on the beach. She is lying down on a beach towel & beach umbrella is covering her. I realize that it was my ex-friend, who I had a really bad falling out with earlier this year. I decided to walk toward her on the beach; she notices that I’m coming. She yelled at me “no Mickey don’t come near me, I’m warning you & I don’t want to argue with you”. I said “no Vanessa I’m not here at all to fight or start an argument with you”. I said to her “ I only want to say hi you”. Then next thing I know, she & I are both lying down together on the beach, she is holding me very tenure & sincere. Both our eyes are shut, & we are listing to the waves. She kisses my head while she is holding me, I kiss her right arm every time she kissed my head. Please tell me what that dream was about? more

Open Question: Girls if a guy you were interested in/dating did how would you react...plz help?

Girls if a guy you were interested in/dating did how would you react...plz help? say you were seeing her for 2 wks and were dating....or spending a lot of time together. cuddling, watching movies, being intimate and that she was sending you signals that she like you a lot flirting, texting, calling a lot. then you see on his facebook pictures of him alone at the beach with a girl wearing his hat and his bracelet and he took up close pictures of her smiling at him wearing his stuff and pics of her playing in the water, and pics of her butt from behind as she was walking into the water and then more of them together...and that she had also gone to dinner with him. then there was a comment from one of his friends saying "new wife...damn shes smoking!!" so then you blow him off and he keeps texting you and asking to hang out. then you drop off his stuff at his house and he patronizes you and doesnt understand why you just want to be his friend and no longer see him. more

Resolved Question: Me & This girl..I wander?

I surf a lot. I got a bunch of buddies I surf with and one them happens to be this chick that I was introduced to. She's mad cool, real chill, real polite. Whenever she wants to go out surfin, she'll text me & everyone to tag along or whatever. Sometimes it'll just be me & her. It's not awkward around her. We just relax, catch a few surf if we can, and sometimes chat a lil bit, crack a few jokes. We don't talk outside of the beach or even at the beach as much, we just enjoy each others company. But I just wander, in some sense, could there be an attraction that's real subtle? Or am I getting a head of myself. Just wandering, from a girl's point of view. thanks -LEE more

Open Question: Why are guys SO wrapped up in a girls looks?

Okaay so this topic frustrates me sooo much & I was just curious as to what your opinions are about it. It really frustrates me the way some guys look at a girls body. Its not even enough to have a pretty face anymore, you have to have a great body too. The other day I heard some guys talking, and they were complaining that lululemon pants fool them into thinking girls have nice asses, and then when they take them home and get them naked, there asses look bad. This reaaally pissed me off. Like, they're lucky the girl even shows them her naked body. They should show some respect and at least appreciate it. Also, this guy i know dumped his girlfriend because she looked bad.. down there. So now girls have to be good looking there too? Really? Some guys just go on and on about asses & breasts. Like the girl is an object or something. I know ALL guys arent like this, but there are a fair amount that are. Girls can be bad too.. but I don't know any girl who wouldn't date a guy cuze he doesnt have nice arms, or a six pack. The other day I was at the beach, and there was this girl who was flouncing around in her bikini and every time a guy would walk by, she'd bend over, stick her butt out, pick up a pebble, and toss it into the water... Classy. People wonder why girls have eating disorders and are so self concious.. well guys are the answer! they have no respect for women what so ever. And I hate how some girls just go with it, like that girl at the beach. Now i understand if a girl wants to get a better body for a number of reasons.. but if she wants to just to please guys? Hell NO. She should do it for herself. What's your opinion on this topic? Thanks. p.s. before I get people saying I'm just an ugly girl who doesnt have a nice body, who can't get a guy or whatever, i'm not. I consider myself attractive. And I'm comfortable with my body. I'm also in love with someone, and his feelings are very mutual. Thanks. more

Resolved Question: Should I learn how to surf?

I am 17 years old and a girl and I really want to learn how to surf but I live in Georgia and don't if its too late. The only place I could visit to learn is Myrtle Beach, South Carolina... which I know isn't that good but its all I got. If it helps I snowboard and had a natural talent at that, do you think that it would help in surfing lessons? Thanks in advance!! :D more

Open Question: will a guy call a girl everyday if has no romantic interest in her?

Open Question: Do women give off some sort of scent when they get sexually aroused?

im just asking because i went on a first date with this girl, we went to the beach. we clicked very well and were very attracted to eachother, and when we went into the water it led to heavy making out pretty fast, and then after about 5 minutes while she was holding onto me and we were staring at each other i picked up this scent from no where and it was only for a few seconds and it definitely came from her, then she started making out with me again.. so what was the deal about this? We're both 17 btw. more

Open Question: What is wrong here? Good looking, successful guy needs help!?

I am a successful musician in a popular band. I am well known for my guitar skills. I am also very good looking to women. I know this because women hit on me and actually GIVE me their numbers when I go out places on a regular basis. I rarely make a move on a girl they usually just come up to me. Many aggressive girls are into me. I have a young, clean, just got off the waves in cali, surfer, beach boy kind of look. Long curly blonde hair and blue eyes. I am in good shape. Women don't seem to trust me. The only girls I am able to get are very hot and usually really slutty. Regular looking girls (The kind I actually want to date) seem to distrust me. I have even been told by girls that I am "too good" or that they feel like "I have done this before". At parties especially. I have done very romantic things like taking a girl out to a pretty hill and play her guitar, and SOMEHOW IT BACKFIRES. She thinks that I have taken many girls there and put the same moves on them.. There are many examples like this. I recently tried being more passive and "nicer" to try to make myself seem more trustworthy but it has actually made my dating problems WORSE. Girls think I am some rebel badass who plays in a band... all I want is a simple girl to love and they can't trust me. What would anyone do in my position? You are good looking, and talented. Women are attracted to you but you have no idea how to make them trust you. You are afraid to be your cocky, natural self due to people judging you. You are able to get hot girls, but they leave you shortly after finding out you're a nice guy. The nice girls you find and want to date don't trust you because you're a popular, cocky, successful, etc, etc guy. What can I do to improve my relationships with women? I know I am a good guy with plenty of good qualities that women want. Should I be MORE passive? Or should I be more aggressive and find women who like all my badass qualities? more

Open Question: So, I'm planning a little wedding...?

and my fiancée and I would love to have it a destination wedding to Hawaii (it's where he's from actually), but we would rather have a small, intimate wedding with few close family members (my dad, brother, grandpa possibly two of my girl cousins, and he wants his mom, dad, and four other family members that already live there). We both picture our wedding on the beach and would absolutely love that, but want to then have a big reception after the wedding back at home a week or so later. Has anyone ever did anything like that before? Small wedding, large reception a while ago later? It's something I want, something intimate, small and comfortable (since we are both chipping in to pay for airfare for the family that aren't in Hawaii already. more

Open Question: Do women give off some sort of scent/smell when they get sexually aroused?

Open Question: do i have the right to feel angry and betrayed?

okay this is a really long story so ill try and keep it short :). There is this girl i like we met at a mates party last holidays.. we ended up getting with each other that night and continued talking for a few days. I then asked her to another mates party where we got with each other again.. i started to really like her. We continued talking through facebook and texts. Okay now last weekend i decided to invite her to another party we agreed that we would sort out what was going on between us.. but it all just went wrong. When she got there she didn't even say hello just sort of ran past me. Latter on my friend told me they were speaking with one of her friends and they said that she didn't like me and didn't want to go out with me. So i decided to avoid her all night saving myself the embarrassment of rejection. I went for a walk with my other mate down to the shops to get some food and when we got back one of my good mates ex girl friends who im like best friends with met us at the door she was with her other friend and my mate she then went in for it and we started kissing. Now i know what your thinking im dog for doing this but i had heard off her ex (my friend) that he wanted me to get with her so she would finally get over him. so we went down to the beach and kissed for a while. When we returned out the front was my friend (her ex) and the girl that i liked they saw us and immediately started hooking up.. i was just shocked ignored it and went inside. latter that night and going on into the next day me and this girl sorted things out she said that she did like me and just wasn't sure about me. But ive heard my other mate is trying with her.. i know he doesn't want a relationship with her and only wants to use her but what can i do? its been awkward at school and i just really feel dogged by him do i have the right to? and what the hell should i do. P.s me and this girl have made up and are trying again.. sorry its so long but please any advice would be great! more