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Open Question: What should I do about my ex-girlfriend?Need Help!?

Ok, the story is that me and my ex had been going out for three years. We have gone through so much and promised eachother that nothing would ever tear us apart. We were 16 at the time when we started going out, we lived in Maryland. Her mother decided to move to Pennsylvania, but she came down every other weekend and spent as much time together as we could. I never cheated on her the whole time she lived in PA or at all for that matter. Well a year and a half goes by and we finally got her to move back down and live with her father. Everything was great, we went to her prom, my prom, we went on vacation, everything was going great. We had plans to move out on our own and finish college together. I'm not going to lie, I have been an asshole to her at times I have called her names that I shouldn't have and she has done the same thing. It doesn't happen very often, but usually after a day we are back to normal. Well, about a month ago we got into one of these little fights, and the next day I went to go pick her up and she gets in the car and tells me that she doesn't want to be with me anymore. I was like yea whatever I guess you need another day to cool down or whatever. Her graduation was in a few days and I had been thinking about proposinng to her. So I went out and brought her a ring and flowers. I told her I wanted to take her somewhere so we drove to a small beach I know and I proposed to her. She cried saying that she didn't believe me, but she accepted it and told my mother how we were engaged now. Well I took her to work and later that night she texted me saying that she is sorry but she can't do it. So I spent the next month trying to say I was sorry and I loved her and wanted to have a future with her. And still she tells me that she just needs time, and that she promised on her whole family that she wasn't messing around with someone. Well I am going to Europe for a month to visit family and I told herr and she said she wanted to make love to me before I go. So I went to see her and we made love. Then I looked at her phone and she had been talking to another guy from her work. She had texted her friend sayin how I used to like taking on the phone all the time and this new guy doesn't. I asked her and she denied it, but she knew I had caught her. So she tells me well yea i had sex with that guy last night and didn't take a shower so you just had sex with him to. So, I left but it really broke my heart knowing that I did so much for her in three years and for that whole month I bought her flowers every week and cards. She even had her mother call the police on me saying that I was harrassing her days after, but after that day I never had any contact with her what so ever. But even after all she did to me, I can't get her off of my mind. I can't really imagine my life with any other girl besides her. Every night I look at pictures of us and it really hurts. I don't know what happened to the girl I fell in love with. What should I do? Thanks for the advice! I'm sorry its so long. more

Open Question: What should I do about my ex-girlfriend? Need help!?

Ok, the story is that me and my ex had been going out for three years. We have gone through so much and promised eachother that nothing would ever tear us apart. We were 16 at the time when we started going out, we lived in Maryland. Her mother decided to move to Pennsylvania, but she came down every other weekend and spent as much time together as we could. I never cheated on her the whole time she lived in PA or at all for that matter. Well a year and a half goes by and we finally got her to move back down and live with her father. Everything was great, we went to her prom, my prom, we went on vacation, everything was going great. We had plans to move out on our own and finish college together. I'm not going to lie, I have been an asshole to her at times I have called her names that I shouldn't have and she has done the same thing. It doesn't happen very often, but usually after a day we are back to normal. Well, about a month ago we got into one of these little fights, and the next day I went to go pick her up and she gets in the car and tells me that she doesn't want to be with me anymore. I was like yea whatever I guess you need another day to cool down or whatever. Her graduation was in a few days and I had been thinking about proposinng to her. So I went out and brought her a ring and flowers. I told her I wanted to take her somewhere so we drove to a small beach I know and I proposed to her. She cried saying that she didn't believe me, but she accepted it and told my mother how we were engaged now. Well I took her to work and later that night she texted me saying that she is sorry but she can't do it. So I spent the next month trying to say I was sorry and I loved her and wanted to have a future with her. And still she tells me that she just needs time, and that she promised on her whole family that she wasn't messing around with someone. Well I am going to Europe for a month to visit family and I told herr and she said she wanted to make love to me before I go. So I went to see her and we made love. Then I looked at her phone and she had been talking to another guy from her work. She had texted her friend sayin how I used to like taking on the phone all the time and this new guy doesn't. I asked her and she denied it, but she knew I had caught her. So she tells me well yea u had sex with that guy last night and didn't take a shower so you just had sex with him to. So, I left but it really broke my heart knowing that I did so much for her in three years and for that whole month I bought her flowers every week and cards. She even had her mother call the police on me saying that I was harrassing her days after, but after that day I never had any contact with her what so ever. But even after all she did to me, I can't get her off of my mind. I can't really imagine my life with any other girl besides her. Every night I look at pictures of us and it really hurts. I don't know what happened to the girl I fell in love with. What should I do? Thanks for the advice! I'm sorry its so long. more

Resolved Question: Wedding Reception Location Question?

This is going to sound odd... but would you consider it to be tacky or disrespectful to have a wedding at a war memorial? I was curious and checked out the Milwaukee War Memorial because we're having some issues with agreeing on a venue and I remember my senior prom being there... Not only is it RIGHT on the beautiful lake front (with no beaches in the area that are able to be rented... they're all public... and I always wanted a wedding on the lake) but it's also one of the cheapest venues we can find... especially when you consider the fact that the wedding packages INCLUDE the ceremony space outside in front of the water. And, well, the venue's nice enough. We're not exactly floating in cash... and it's a place that fits into our budget perfectly, meets our capacity needs, and looks nice enough (minus the ugly black plastic chairs... which can be removed and replaced with other rental chairs... even if we did do that, we'd still be under budget for our venue!)... I'm completely sold, to be honest... but my fiance's not... he's worried that people are going to get ticked off or disgruntled because it's at a war memorial. I'm just curious as to how many people on here would feel the same way. more

Resolved Question: Is it a good thing if he's taking it slow and getting to know me even better?

We became best friends. i met him in late may of 2009 when i switched schools and he was in 6 of my classes last year. we started becoming good friends and then in february, he asked me to prom. i actually had a crush on him the first time i met him (i didn't admit it to myself until later because i have had bad experience with guys who i have crushes on and such) and now i'm starting to fall for him. he took me to prom and we had an amazing time. he must have called me beautiful four times and stayed with me and danced with me the whole night. he asked me out the next friday and we went out on saturday he even told all his friends that he was going to the movies with me. we had a really fun time. on june 1st we became official and i saw him at my graduation party and then again at the beach and he almost kissed me. he asked me out again and i'm going out again this saturday so yeah it's going pretty slow... So is it a good thing if he's taking it slow and getting to know me even better? does this mean he really likes me? more

Resolved Question: Why did this happen to me?

OK, it all really started the day after prom. A bunch of us went to the beach to chill. I was laying out with some other girls when my boyfriend yelled for us to come over. When we got over there,he and some other guys had the guy Kyle held down by his arms and legs. Then someone yanked down his trunks! We all got to see his teenie weenie. We were all laughing at him and some of the girls even took pics and by the end of the year, every girl in school had seen him. Now fast forward about a month. My gf Katie and I went to a local lake. We laid out at first, then decided to take a dip. Then Katie looks over and see's Kyle. He was with his little brother and two other older guys. We called them over and were chatting. I decided to bring up his pantsing and we clowned him about it. Then we decided to go. But Katie thought it would be funny to sneak up behind him yanked down his trunks. I was standing there laughing while Katie ran past me. I wondered why at first. Then I saw the guys coming after us,so I ran away as well. Katie got away, but I didn't. As I reached the sand, his little brother grabbed the back of my bottoms and yanked them down. My big white but was exposed to them. I grabbed his hands and told him to stop but he didn't listen. Then I heard one of them say "get her". Next thing I knew,my top came loose. One of the guys had untied it and was trying to pull it off I grabbed it with one hand and tried to get away. Then Kyle came up,with a smile on his face, and untied my bottoms. Before I knew it,they had stripped off my bikini. At first I thought this must be a dream. Then I realized I was naked in public. I covered best I could and took off running. To bad I ran the wrong way. It seemed to take forever but I eventually found my clothes and towel. It was the most embarrASSing day of my life. So did I have it coming for teasing him? And before you laugh at me,what would you have done if this happen to you? more

Resolved Question: what should i wear to my date on saturday?

i'm going on my first real date with him as my boyfriend. i've been to prom with him and on one date when we weren't official. then he also came to my graduation party and we met up at the beach two mondays ago with my best friend and parents. he's more the shy, sweet, and respectful type that wants to wait to not screw up our friendship since we're best friends. we're both 18 too and it's both our first relationship. anyways i can't decide whether to wear like a sundress, a skirt and leggings with a cute shirt, jeans or kackies and a cute shirt or just a plain boring t-shirt and jeans. in school (he was in 6 of my classes in 12th grade) i used to change my outfits up every day depending if i had riding or not - if i did have horseback riding, i would wear my boring shirt that i could mess up but if not i'd either wear a dress or a skirt or cute jeans and a cute top depending on the weather. it's going to be really hot on saturday here like always, but we'll probably be inside when we eat dinner and of course inside at the movie. please pick one: 1. a sundress 2. a skirt and leggings with a cute shirt 3. jeans or kackies and a cute shirt 4. just a plain boring t-shirt and jeans so what should i wear to my date with my boyfriend? more

Resolved Question: Parents who have gay children?

My sons are 17 and I have always thought one was gay(Clark), he never liked sports or anything like his twin brother(Matt). Which I know that is a stereotype that gay guys can and do like sports. Clark has always been very artistic and just different than other boys. He has never dated a girl or shown and interest in girls that I can remember. He has a friend that I wonder if he is more than friends with, they went to junior prom together. His "friend" is very popular and could have easily gotten a date they spend a lot of time together. Clark and his sister and some of their friends went to the beach together and took pictures. I looked at them and some of them looked like he and my son are a couple examples my son on his back and one with his arms around my son. So I was wondering if you think he is gay? Should I talk to him about it? Maybe buy him a gay themed movie or show?Gemma you are an extremely rude immature person. Why are you even on here if you have no interest in helping people?I would buy him a gay themed movie or show as a way of showing him that I know and accept him. I don't know how you parents raised you but I raised my children to be honest and proud of who they are. If he is keeping this big part of him self from me it is a problem not something that needs to be ignored.KAY Buying a gay themed movie isn't away of saying I know you secret tell me. It's away of saying I know and am fine with it. I don't know about you but at 17 I know what gender I liked, by 17 you know what you like and don't like. I don't know about your family but in mine I raised my children to always be proud of who they are to talk with us about everything. Yes I have seen a protest against gay people. Have you ever been to a gay pride? I've been to 5 and all of them had some crazy group there protesting. Well his high school can't be so cruel because he went with this guy to prom. more

Resolved Question: Please help me, is my son gay?

Resolved Question: What is considered too slow in a relationship? should i see if he wants to take it to the next step?

You don't have to read the second, third and fourth paragraphs - that's just background information and stuff. I have my first boyfriend. I'm his first girl and we're both 18. we went to a small high school (300 kids total k-12) and there weren't many girls. there were probably about 10 girls in the whole high school. most of the guys were jerks but he was like the best one there :D I've always had a crush on him - ever since i met him when he was doing internship last year (11th graders get an internship half the day - he had photography with my photography teacher so he would be helping me out...) and i just shoved it in the back of my head and never told anybody like i normally do. back in february, he asked me to prom. it wasn't all that romantic but it was cute because he told all his friends that he was going with me and all. He asked me in psychology class. we had to do a project and we could choose to work together or alone. usually i worked alone because the guys are jerks besides him and he usually worked with his friends. he asked if i wanted to work with him so we started working and then prom was brought up and he was like are you going with anybody? and i was like no and he was like would you want to go with me. I wasn't sure what to say, but when he started getting nervous and like looking around the room and talking fast etc i realized he liked me too so i said yes :). anyways we went to prom. he stayed with me the whole night, called me beautiful, and we danced on the dance floor to the faster songs (although he couldn't dance for his life) but his friends forced him to even though he didn't want to make a fool of himself and i told him he wasn't making a fool of himself. when we were on the deck of the boat, he'd sit by me and if someone got in between he'd ask them to move so he could sit by me. he'd ask me if i was cold and if i was we'd go back inside. basically we had a blast. he even texted me the next day to tell me he had fun and the next few weeks people started asking if we were dating. we went on another date and he paid for the dinner and movie tickets - he bought the movie tickets early so they wouldn't run out because it was a pretty popular movie (iron man 2). we didn't hold hands or anything but when we walked, we walked basically touching and he never flinched when i "accidently" touched his arm. in the movie theatuere, I wanted to cuddle but my butterflies hit me as usual. i would put my arm on the arm rest that we were sharing and our arms would be touching. again, we had a blast and he texted me the next day and told all his friends that he saw the movie with me :). I told him i liked him and he said he liked me too :) and we became official june first. he came to my graduation party and stayed like 45 minutes after and told me we should defiantly hang out when we both get back from our vacations. i saw him at the beach because he was down there when i was. i wanted to go alone with him, but my parents were being suborn and my best friend was with me and plus we had to leave right afterwards so he tagged along with us (him and my parents like each other...) we had fun, but i haven't talked to him since then but i understand since he's still at the beach. i'll probably call him tomorrow to talk to him. I've been wanting to kiss him, but chicken out. we haven't done anymore than touching, him patting me on the back, and dancing. Next time we're alone, I'm going to force myself not to chicken out since he's really shy when it comes to taking the next step. he tends to get nervous, but never fails to talk to me. when he does take the next step (like asking me out etc) he gets calmer each time. It's just that it's been like since i've known him and we haven't done much. We've been official for a month and he's taking it really slow. we have so much fun together and have met both our families and he's met my friends and i've met some of his. I guess we're like doing the whole "meeting and showing each other our places - houses, area where we live since we live 25 minutes apart etc." I just want to take it to the next step, but i don't want to make him nervous and back down since he's shy. So is this considered moving too slow? and should i see if he wants to take it to the next step and make a move myself or what? more

Voting Question: What would your wedding with Justin Bieber be like????????????????

omg i would play all his songs on a loop and like of course he would have to sing something himself aswell....like..to me. and i would have a hugge wedding cake with like 10 sections, the ones that get smaller as you go higgher and each section would be a different colour and i would have the little bride and groom on top. and at the end we'd go into one of those things OMG LIKE AT THE PROM IN TWILIGHT and we would dance and dance, just us, the other people can like get lost. and i'd play a slow song there. and like the guests i'd invite would definitely not be his ex girfriend..cos shess o two faced and annoying, i mean it would be extremely inapproporate anyway, if she turns up i woud like totally hurt her. like i havent decided if i want to marry him in a church or on a beach but whatever. after my wedding im gonna have the honey moon somewhre really warm and me and Justin will tottally have sex on the beach. and when we have children im going to name all the boys justin junior..so i can call them JJ!!! and if there are any girls i'll probaby combine my name and justin's to make a new name. more

Voting Question: My ears are infected, what is the best way to handle this?

I'm currently stretching my ear lobes. Right now I'm at a 0g, or 6mm. I stretched them about two days ago. I know where I made my mistake, so I'll quickly give a time line. On June 31st I stretched to 2g, 4mm, without any problems. I wore glass spirals for the entire duration of that stretch. On July 4th I stretched to a 0g, 6mm. The first mistake I made, but it was unavoidable, is that I used acrylic tapers and plugs. I'm too cheap/poor to buy titanium or niobium for every stretch. The second mistake, is that I left the tapers in for about 24 hours before forcing, and I mean I had to quite literally force, the plugs through. I put my lobes through some trauma when I did that and there was some bleeding and minor swelling. Right after that I went to the beach with my family. I was battered nearly to death by the wind for an hour and a half because we drove there with the cover off of our jeep. That in itself caused my ears to begin throbbing and swelling. Now, add sun, and dirty salt water, and when I woke up this morning I had a mixture of milky pus and blood leaking out of the back of my ears. One side is swollen more than the other, and is giving me more trouble. I would rather not do a sea salt soak because my ears are sunburned, so the heat will wreak havoc on me. I drained some of the pus out of my ear, and it brought the swelling down slightly. My ears are only a little warm, which could be attributed to the sunburn and not the infection. I don't have a blow-out, so I don't see the point in down-sizing. Plus, I really don't want to down-size because I'm so close to my goal (1/2"). Feel free to give me stretching advice, I'm always open to that. As far as how long I wait in between stretches, I'm ashamed to admit I only wait the minimum 1 month, but it has never given me problems before. I'm mostly looking for the best way to deal with this infection without taking out my plugs or down-sizing. A side note: When I stretched from a 12g to an 8g (I had to skip 10g and go straight to 8g because I couldn't find smaller plugs that would match my prom dress. I know, stupid.) I had a problem similar to this, minus the blood. I'm sure the bleeding happened when I put the plugs in (they have this indention on the end for an o-ring to sit securely, and it snagged on the inside of my ear.) Anyways, I left them alone and in time the swelling went down and they stopped oozing milky pus. As far as the pus, since it isn't green or yellow, but white, I'm going to not worry too much about the infection. When I got my cheeks pierced they oozed bloody white pus and my piercer claimed that it was a normal part of the healing process. So my current theory is that I tore my ear, and my body is trying to heal it. I use vitamin e, and I normally take my jewelry out every day when I shower, so I do take care of my ears. I haven't taken the plugs out since I got them in yesterday because they've given me so much trouble, but I have put vitamin e on them and I turn them and clean away the crusties and blood every few hours. If there is anything I'm doing wrong, or if there is a better way to do it, let me know. And thank you in advance to anyone that comments :) Unless you're an asshole and say something offensive or judgmental. -Beth more

Resolved Question: Can you answer the Twilight questions below? From movie or book.?

1. In the meadow scene, Edward tries to explain to Bella how she smells to him. He uses a few analogies, but which was the first? 2 When James and Bella are at the dance studio, James says that he chose this place for a specific reason. What was the reason? 3. At the end of "Twilight", Edward and Bella are at prom when Edward says, "You thought that would be a black tie occasion, did you?" What was Edward referring to? 4. When Bella and some of her friends go to First Beach in La Push, Jacob Black talks to Bella and tells her Quileute legends. When does he say some of the legends date back to? more

Resolved Question: Is this chemistry between us?

Well I now have my first boyfriend - we're both 18 and i'm his first too. We like a lot of the same hobbies and we always have fun together. It’s never awkward when I’m with him. I always get butterflies when I'm with him (< the most), when I get a text or message from him, and when I hear his name. Whenever I’m with him, he can’t take his eyes off me. A lot of times my eyes wander to him and I can’t take them off – but I try to control myself for I don’t want to look stalkerish. Sometimes though, our eyes do lock and it’s never awkward. We stare into each other’s eyes – I have never really done that before with anyone besides him and it’s kind of hard to describe. I’ve never kissed or done anything with him. We did dance once at prom (he asked me) and it was like the best moment. He may not have known how to dance (ie where to put his hands) but we just stared into each other’s eyes the whole song. Whenever my friends are with me they always say they see him staring at me or something. When I was in school, he was in 6 of my classes (we just graduated) and he’d walk me to class – sometimes he’d go with his friends, but usually he’d walk with me and we’d talk like the whole way. He always stands close to me when we’re next to each other (like almost touching). He’s kind of the more shy type so instead of a hug he pat’s my shoulder. I can tell he sometimes gets nervous when he’s about to ask me out or something but it soon wears off. There was one time I think we almost kissed. I was in English class like three days before prom and we had free time because we finished our work. I went on the computer to see what the weather was going to be like for prom. It was taking awhile to load, so I looked behind me and he was right above me (literally – he was like up against my chair) and I was looking up at him while he looked down at me and we both smiled and then I turned away because the page had loaded (plus the teacher was at her desk and could see us so yeah – that would be awkward lol). I’m going to see him this Monday for the first time since june 13 (we’ve both been on vacation – back to back and haven’t had time…) but he’s going to be down at this beach community where I’m at now so we’re going to meet up for the day. I want to kiss him for I wanted to at my party but I didn’t get to because there were too many people. So is this chemistry between us? And how do I know if there is when we kiss? more

Resolved Question: does this plan sound fun to you???

my cousin is staying with me from out of state for 8 days. (we are 14) does this sound like a fun plan?? sunday- chill out Monday shopping for prom dresses(long story) and go to the mall for the day tuesday- spend the day at the beach wednesday- drive up north and hang out with family thursday- go canoeing and hang out with family friday- spend day at mackinac island saturday- family fun day (lots of fun games) sunday- drive home and chill monday- ride bikes and go to cute little stores. thanks:)) any suggestions for fun would be really nice:) more

Resolved Question: How to cover up obvious sunburn?!?

I got sunburnt last weekend at the beach. It's my Prom tonight and my shoulders are still very red and they're even starting to peel... Would spray tan maybe cover it up? My dress is strapless and will look awful with sunburn... :(Erm... I DID wear suncream.... more

Resolved Question: Should i ask him if he likes me just as a friend or more?

well he's my boyfriend and i know he likes me as a friend (he's like my best friend). i'm just not sure if he likes me more than a friend. i mean he shows signs (staring, smiling etc) but i don't know. like he didn't talk to me for a few weeks and whenever i asked him if we could get together - he said he wanted to, he'd say that he couldn't and was busy.i called him yesterday and we talked for like 30 minutes. i asked him if he wanted to get together today (i had asked him earlier but he never responded) and he said he didn't know. long story short he couldn't but he's going to be at the beach when i'm going and we might meet up then. i just don't know because i've never like done anything more than be really close (like touching), slow dancing with him once at prom, and him patting me on the back. i want to kiss him and see how that goes, but i haven't been together with him so yeah. I just don't know if he just likes me because i'm fun to be around as a friend or if he really likes me. i mean i really do like him, i just don't want to get my heart broken, you know? I kind of want to ask him if he likes me more than a friend or not. i just don't know if i should or what to say so i don't freak him out if he does like me more. he's so sweet he just has his few issues with contacting me and stuff like that. I may see him monday but am not sure - he's going to hopefully contact me this weekend. I know that it's best to ask him in person but i just don't know. so should i ask him if he likes me more than a friend or not? and what should i say when i ask him if i do? more

Voting Question: Shall I wear a bikini when asking a boy out to the prom (at a beach party)?

Me and my friends are going to this beach party in the weekend ad we have been looking forward to it for ages. It is going to be a huge party. Recently I found out that this really cute boy I like was going so I am nervous about what to wear because I am a bit concious of my body (especialy my boobs lol). I just bought this new bikini and it looks really hot but talking to this boy who I really don't know with it on might seem a bit weird and it may seem like I am some sort of slut which I am not, I just want to ask him to the prom. On a completley different note, there is this other boy I like and I realised his sister is in my class (they are twins). I have been trying to become closer with his sister so I can get more involoved with his family. Is this a bit weird, am I trying too hard? more

Resolved Question: Is he starting to really like me?

you don't have to read it all - you can just skim if you like. the 2nd paragraph is more important so yeah. well i'm starting to fall for my boyfriend - he confuses me so much though (as you notice i'm top contributor to this section haha). to make a long story short, he asked me out to prom. i told him i liked him and he said he was unsure and then he started showing alot more signs that he liked me so i told him again and he said i like you too :) (he always uses smiley faces when talking about that stuff or about a date or something through text lol) and he asked me on one date and asked me out again. we always have a blast together and have so much in common (like we both love computers, photography, art, pets etc) and always have something to talk about. he told me to text him when i got back from my trip and when i did i found out he was going away for 5 days. i texted him that friday asking if he wanted to go to a game with us and he said he'd love to but won't get home till late. then i sent him a text saying i missed him (which i did) and he said that he may be free sunday (he has been busy with 75 hours to complete of community service that he never finished in 12th grade and working for his dad and going on business trips with his dad - his dad owns a bank) anyways so i sent him a text asking if he was free thursday. he ever answered so i called him wednesday. i didn't think he'd answer but he did and we talked for 31 minutes and i found out he was going to be at the same beach i'm going to this monday but i'm leaving monday night. then he said he'd text me later tonight about today's plans. he never texted me so i texted him at 8 pm asking if he asked his dad. he didn't get the text till 10 pm (idk what's wrong with his phone) and he said he can't get together. then i said maybe we could get together on monday :) and i didn't think he wanted to but he texted me at 11:55 pm (the latest he ever texted me) and said i'll ask my dad the address tomorrow :). i thought he forgot but at 2 today of course when i was busy, he called my cell saying he got the address and we could meet up and stuff so he actually wants to get together (i think he wanted to get together because he realized we do have fun talking to each other in person... just its awkward through text). I emailed him our address, but i didn't want to call him back (he said to call him back if i have time) because i don't want to annoy him or whatever so i'll wait a day or two. So is he starting to really like me now that he's calling me more or is he still unsure how he feels? more

Resolved Question: What's up with him - does he not want to get together or is he just really busy this past month?

You don’t have to read it all – you can just skim through it. My crush asked me to prom back in february. he actually turned down two girls for me – I found out because one of my friends had told me she asked him to prom and he’d said no and then when I told her he asked me, she said she knew he was going to ask me. we paid seperatly but we paid the couple's price - he offered to pay but we had already paid by then. people said that he wasn't going to come to prom but he did and we had a blast and he stayed next to me the whole time. At prom, he must have asked me three times what i was doing this summer and said we should hang out :). i told him i liked him before prom and he said he did't know how he felt, but if he'd date anyone it would be me. after prom, people started asking if we were dating and i kept saying i didn't know. that thursday i decided to ask him if we were and he said yes, i like you :). the next day, he asked me out and we went to dinner and the movies that saturday. he bought the tickets early (it was iron man 2 so it was pretty popular) and he paid for my meal. we had so much fun and then on monday he told his friends that he saw the movie with me. They started calling me "his girl(friend)" and he'd always look over to see how i'd react and would smile and blush when i just smiled. I invited him to my graduation party. On june 1st, we became official (on facebook and everything). People said he wasn’t going to show up at my party because he came back from vacation the night before but he did show up. I found out that he didn’t get back until 3 am, yet he still came :). He didn’t talk to me all that much but whenever I sat next to him, he’d always look me straight in the eye and would smile. When we did talk he’d always smile and blush. he met my best friends – they kind of embarrassed him but he was pretty sweet about it. they all approved of him and agreed that he’s really shy. At the end of the party, he stayed like 45 minutes afterwards and we just talked. He said we should defiantly get together when I got back from my trip and for me to call him so we can decide when to go out. Well he went on a 3 day vacation and when he got back, I went on a week vacation. I called him when he got back and he said he was going on another vacation (they travel a lot because his dad owns a bank – I know they have that travel mileage card thing or whatever). On Friday, I asked him if he wanted to come with me to the baseball game. I won’t be home till late (like 9 or 10) but i would have loved to :). By then the game would have been over. That Saturday I sent him a text that I missed him – I actually did and he said I may be free Sunday (tomorrow) but I said I was going away but would be free Thursday (today). He just said okay and when I asked him if it worked, he never answered. He didn’t answer my texts all week – I think something is wrong with his phone for he doesn’t get his texts until like an hour later. Well yesterday I called him and we talked for like 31 minutes (we sidetracked a lot about like cameras and computers since we’re both interested in them and then on vacations and stuff lol). I asked him if he was free tomorrow (today now) and he said he’d have to ask his dad to see what he was doing. I texted him around 8:30 last night and he never answered. Then around 10 he said he never got my text until then but he can’t get together tomorrow :). I found out that he was going away next Monday to the same place I’m going to this weekend. I asked him what part of the colony he’s staying in and he said he’d ask his dad in the morning (it was 12 am by then lol). I said we should like meet up on the beach or something and he never answered – I think he went to bed. Anyways long story short, he doesn’t answer my texts a lot but I think that’s because he doesn’t like texting and he hates his phone. He keeps saying that he’s busy and is on vacation – he is… I’m nont sure if he just doesn’t want to get together or what. and also we're in college and he has to do community service because he didn't do it in high school (long story - he has to do like 65 hours) and he also works for his dad alot since his dad owns a bank. plus this month he's been going away alot since he doesn't want to stay home alone with no car so he goes with his dad. I gave him like about a weeks notice but of course those were all the days he was either away or busy. So what’s up with him? Does he not want to get together or is he just really busy this past month? more

Resolved Question: Bad memories, no friends?

Basically, I don't really have any true friends, I don't have awesome memories with any people going to prom or the beach or concerts or where ever... I keep looking on facebook and seeing all these happy people and feeling jealous and angry with myself cause I don't have anything like that. I don't know what to do. I feel like such a loser. Even in college, I can't connect with anyone... I just feel so lonely. more

Resolved Question: What to take to prom trip?

well i'm going to bavaro(dominican republic) and i'm going sunday to tuesday..most of the time im gonna be at the beach or pool. but if you were me what would you take? thankss more

Resolved Question: what to take to prom trip?

well i'm going to bavaro(dominican republic) and i'm going sunday to tuesday..most of the time im gonna be at the beach or pool. but if you were me what would you take? thankss more

Resolved Question: should i text my boyfriend telling him i miss him?

well i do miss him. I haven't seen him since the 13th of june. usually i see him in school, but i won't any more. we're planning on going out either this coming week (maybe thursday) or the next week. we just haven't had time because i went away for a week and he went away the next week. He's coming back tonight though and i'm leaving again tomorrow and coming back tuesday. I'm leaving for the beach friday for 4th of july and he's going on vacation too i think. I wanted him to come to the baseball game with me tonight and he wanted to come too of course, but he won't be home till really late and by then the game will be over :(. We've only been official since june 1st but we've been like best friends since last may :). We had 6 classes with eachother in school so we really got to no each other and he even asked me to be his prom date in which i was and we had a blast! He's just really shy. I mean he talks all the time when i'm with him - he's just shy when it comes to asking me out and making a move and stuff but he does do it eventually - he just has warm up. we haven't kissed or anything though yet for we're taking it slow and i've never told him i missed him because we haven't really been away this long. I was thinking of just sending him a text and saying something like: Hi, I miss you. So, should I reword that or should I just send him that or not at all? more

Resolved Question: my boy friend is ignoring me?

My boyfriend got asked to senior prom by another girl. I'm not a senior and neither is he so I had no problem with him going with a friend. They also went to after prom which was him and a bunch of his friends sleeping over in the city for 3 days. I haven't talked to him since the day of prom. I texted him and my other friend who is also with him. My friend answered and said they were having fun at the beach. My boyfriend never answered and I know he ignored the text because I sent the textmessage 2 hours ago and it came up on my newsfeed on facebook that he had a mobile upload from about 30 minutes ago which means he did check his phone and ignore my text. I want him to miss me as much as I miss him. Should I just not text him the rest of the time and if he texts me in a couple of hours responding should I ignore him? I'm not sure what to doand i feel dumb just saying hey if he is going to not even respond more

Resolved Question: How to get parents permission to go to the beach for a week?[best asnwer]?

Okay so a couple of my friends and I are planning to go to the beach in a few weeks but only for about a week. I have very strict parents and they will not allow me, ever! I have never even been aloud to sleepover anyones house. I am 18 just graduated out of 12th grade and I literally just want a little freedom for once, as a kid/young teen i never had freedom, I couldn't even go to prom or any homecomings! My cousin just said to say i m going on a pre college trip, and i could say that but my mom will probably drop by and check up on me and finding me on a beach wouldn't be SO great, haha. Anyways, PLEASE HELP ME! thank youu soo much(: --Also I am not aloud to move out , i mean i can, but my mom said if i ever do that before marriage her doors will always be closed for me, and i love my family and all but all i m asking for is a bit of freedom! && no, sitting down with my parents and talking to them will not work because i've tried so don't say anything like that! I will do sneaky stuff if you recommend the best it would be awesome(: I will choose best answer for the best answer(: more

Resolved Question: What is the best way to clean up a messy motel room?

so proms this weekend! and all of my friends are staying at a gross motel on the beach. granted most of our time will be spent on the beach but for the times in the room..i know itll be repulsive haha (its a motel..on the beach..that was cheap...and thats over 50 years old..so yeah haha) what is the best way to prepare...i know to bring my own sheets, sleeping bags, always wear shoes in the room, i should bring frebreze haha what else can i do to make everything more livable and less gross? haha more

Resolved Question: what does it mean when a girl says rain check?

I was talking to a girl. it was a week before prom. she already said yes. I asked her if she wanted to go to the movies and she said "rain check". I know what it means but I am not sure if she wasnt just saying no politely. We have been friends for a few years and she might know I like her. after prom(we went together) me, her, my friend nate and his date were going to go to the beach and hang out. she says she might beable to make it. she has a softball game that friday and cant make it, and for some reason can't make it the next day avaliable. what do you guys think? more

Resolved Question: what's so bad about these messages between my boyfriend and i?

heyy so i'm seventeen and almost a senior in high school. my boyfriend and i have been together since we were in first grade. he asked me to be his girlfriend when we were seven, but we were more like just friends then. anyway yesterday i left my phone on the coffee table in my living room, and my dad started reading all my texts, and saw these messages and grounded me for a week. i don't even know what's so bad about them?? so if someone could please explain to me i'd really appreciate it. sorry that our conversation is this long. thanks :] him: hey. what's up? me: heyy :) nothing much just hanging out in my pool with ryan. you? him: who the hell is that??? and why are you in a bathing suit around him?? me: he's that really tall senior that's on the soccer team. && i'm wearing shorts over it don't worryy :] him: put on a shirt too. the guy's a perv i can tell already. me: and why do you think that? him: i'll tell you when you have on a turtle neck and an ankle-length skirt. he's a major douche. i can sense him staring at your chest right now. me: hahaa. anyway i miss you so muchh :( when are you coming back from england? him: i know me too. i'm having a really good time but i'll be back in two days. me: oh i have a question to ask you but you're definitely going to flip out. him: what's the question me: you know how ryan's senior prom is in two days? well his girlfriend will be in japan until july and he wants me to go with him because he doesn't want to not have a date for senior prom. so i'll just be dancing with him...not really a date. him: what a dick. me: ayyy watch the language. so would you be alright with it? him: if it makes you happy you should go. but i need to meet the little dip sh*t first okay? me: stop cursinggggg -.- and he's not a dip... him: i'll be the judge of that. don't wear anything too low cut or short. sorry but you have a small waist, a massive chest, and a huge butt, he's going to stare. and i don't want you to wear anything too tight because he's a pedophile, okay? me: got it. i'll wear a giant paper bag. him: sounds good. i'm sorry, i'm being such a man b*tch today. me: that time of the month again? him: yeah and i'm all out of jumbo tampons, damn. me: aww, heavy flow? him: no i just have a wide vagina. me: ew okay this is getting gross. new subject. him: let's talk about how much i miss you me; aww i miss you too. you've been gone for an entire week :[ him: i know. would it be creepy if i told you that i looked at your picture for two whole minutes last night? me: yeah a little. which picture was it? him: the one from like eighth grade grade when we were at the beach lol. me: EWWW that was my awkward stage. burn it !!! him: nooo, you look so beautiful. but that's when you had the brown colored contacts in because you absolutely hated your blue eyes remember? i don't know what you were thinking because you have the most gorgeous eyes. me: why thankyou :] ughh he's trying to push me into the pool ! tell him to stoppp. him: gross, he's infectious, don't let him touch you!! tell him i said to get his horny hands off my girlfriend. me: i've gotta go. him: alright i'll call you later. love you bye me: <333 thanks :]-- OKAY THE PART ABOUT HIM HAVING A WIDE VAGINA IS JUST A JOKE. HE DOES NOTTTTT HAVE A FRIGGIN VAGINA, ALRIGHT? -- thanks. more

Resolved Question: what is bad about these texts between my boyfriend and i?

heyy so i'm seventeen and almost a senior in high school. my boyfriend and i have been together since we were in first grade. he asked me to be his girlfriend when we were seven, but we were more like just friends then. anyway yesterday i left my phone on the coffee table in my living room, and my dad started reading all my texts, and saw these messages and grounded me for a week. i don't even know what's so bad about them?? so if someone could please explain to me i'd really appreciate it. sorry that our conversation is this long. thanks :] him: hey. what's up? me: heyy :) nothing much just hanging out in my pool with ryan. you? him: who the hell is that??? and why are you in a bathing suit around him?? me: he's that really tall senior that's on the soccer team. && i'm wearing shorts over it don't worryy :] him: put on a shirt too. the guy's a perv i can tell already. me: and why do you think that? him: i'll tell you when you have on a turtle neck and an ankle-length skirt. he's a major douche. i can sense him staring at your chest right now. me: hahaa. anyway i miss you so muchh :( when are you coming back from england? him: i know me too. i'm having a really good time but i'll be back in two days. me: oh i have a question to ask you but you're definitely going to flip out. him: what's the question me: you know how ryan's senior prom is in two days? well his girlfriend will be in japan until july and he wants me to go with him because he doesn't want to not have a date for senior prom. so i'll just be dancing with him...not really a date. him: what a dick. me: ayyy watch the language. so would you be alright with it? him: if it makes you happy you should go. but i need to meet the little dip sh*t first okay? me: stop cursingggggggg -.- and he's not a dip... him: i'll be the judge of that. don't wear anything too low cut or short. sorry but you have a massive chest, a bubble butt, and a small waist, he's going to stare. and i don't want you to wear anything too tight because he's a peadophile, okay? me: got it. i'll wear a giant paper bag. him: sounds good. i'm sorry, i'm being such a man b*tch today. me: that time of the month again? him: yeah and i'm all out of jumbo tampons, damn. me: aww, heavy flow? him: no i just have a wide vagina. me: ew okay this is getting gross. new subject. him: let's talk about how much i miss you me; aww i miss you too. you've been gone for an entire week :[ him: i know. would it be creepy if i told you that i looked at your picture for two whole minutes last night? me: yeah a little. which picture was it exactly? him: the one from like eight grade grade when we were at the beach lol. me: EWWW that was my awkward stage. burn it ! him: nooo, you look so beautiful. but that's when you had the brown colored contacts in because you absolutely hated your blue eyes remember? i don't know what you were thinking because you have the most gorgeous eyes. me: why thankyouuu. ughh i have to go. him: alright i'll call you later. love you bye me: <333 thankyouallsomuchhhhhh !lmao...my dad is not normal. he works for the government...and assumes the worst of everyone. so he just goes through my phone all the time. usually i delete my messages though. more

Voting Question: HELP! i mixed alcohol and dayquil. I'm at my senior beach week?

ok so im at my senior beach week right now. and im drinking alot of beer/liquor every day. (please dont give me a lecture about underage/binge drinking) but this is my third day here and i have a terrible cold and swollen tonsils/glands that hurt so my friend told me to take dayquil or ibuprofin. so i did. and it helped sooo much! i want to continue taking these meds so i can feel good but i still wanna be able to go out and get drunk each night soooo basically im worried about the health issues/warning about combining the drugs with alcohol. is it really THAT bad? cause i did research and people were like "your liver is gonna fail" and stuff. but my friend said she did it at prom and got wasted and was fine....HELP! i dunno what to do. more

Resolved Question: my parents are unbelievably strict.. honestly.. and i don't know what to do this summer.?

I'm a 16 year old girl living in England. My family are muslim, but I don't believe in it at all, and didn't even have an opinion on whether to practice the religion. I'm a responsible girl, and I SHOULD be trusted. But my parents don't trust me, at all. They don't like the fact that all my best friends are English, just because they don't know what I get up to when I'm with them. However, I've felt the need to rebel a lot. I'm usually out with my friends in the night when I can, simply because that's my nature... I'm a very social girl, and a ''live for the moment'' type of girl. So, I've just done my GCSE's and it's summer, and I'm really hoping it's going to be a brilliant summer wiht my friends at the beach, out at night, living the good life. I get really good grades, and I've put so much effort into my exams just so that they are more leniant with me this summer. But my parents don't seem to be having any of it.. I've got one exam this week, and my mum's not letting me sleep out at my friends house on Thursday night, or go to an end of exams party on Friday. Haven't even ASKED her about After-prom. She still thinks I'm a really good muslim who prays, but I'm the total opposite seeing as I drink etc. I don't know how to break free, because I can imagine that this summer, they're going to be really tight and let me out like once a week, which I won't be able to deal with. Any advice on how to break free? It's been on my nerves for ages, because I'm just leading a wasted life by pretending I'm still muslim.I have my friends and my boyfriend to help me as well, as they're very willing to listen to my problems and give me advice. I'm really too scared to tell them I'm not muslim anymore, but I can see that as being the only way that all my problems will go; seeing as they won't have any reason not to let me go out, as I'm not even a follower of the religion. And yes, I have left Islam, and I'm not a muslim anymore; I am a good person, and I have good morals. I know how to treat people, and I don't do drugs or anything like that. I just want to be a normal teenager, a normal person in fact, without having my parents peering over everything I do. more

Voting Question: how to get to my after prom party - without getting in trouble ?! (hurry - only got 2 days)?

I can not go to the after prom party, as my friend can no longer give me a lift back from prom . As well as this the teacher must make sure that i go back with who i said i am , and at the moment i am "sleeping at that friends house" . ( by the way the party is at a beach - but the distance is not a problem ) Any suggestions are welcome.Thank youyou . more

Voting Question: My girlfriend broke up with me because she "rushed" our relationship?

I have been with my girlfriend for 2 and half months. We were having the time of our lives together. She ALWAYS said how much I made her happy and how much she loved me and how she was looking forward to spending the summer with me. I felt the same way and always told her the same thing. Then after we spent the greatest night we had together at her prom she didn't text me goodnight. We ALWAYS texted each other good night and this was the first night that she didn't. Then she texted me less and less and I knew that something was weird. Then at my friend's graduation party at a beach club, I asked her to take a walk with me and watch the sunset. Just as the sunset, I said "I love you" and was waiting for her to turn her head and say the same and then we kiss. But this time she didn't say it. She paused for 10 seconds, put her hands over her eyes and said "we need to talk" She said that she rushed the relationship and it was too soon (2 months) after breaking up with her boyfriend. She also said that we only knew each other for 2 weeks before we started going out. We agreed to still be friends and things wouldn't be awkward between us. But it just came out of nowhere! Even if it was rushed, we had so much fun together and I think it's stupid how our relationship just ended like that. We loved each other and cared for each other so much. I don't know what to do. I'm not suicidal or revengeful or anything like that. I just need some advice. She was my first girlfriend and she meant so much to me. We are going to college next year and we are both going to college in the NYC and everything was perfect for a long term relationship more

Resolved Question: Sweet sixteen makeup and outfit?

My sweet sixteen is coming up and my friend and I are thinking about having a joined party. I love American Apparel and Aritzia dresses but I want something that nobody else will show up wearing. I live in Canada by the way. Near downtown Toronto so I have access to the Eaton's Center and Queen Street West. Any suggestions on a dress store that's AFFORDABLE would be amazing. I can splurge on probably a little over $100 if I really like the dress but I'm not spending that much on a something plain. I really like plain dresses as well as floral ones. Not too fancy, though, it's not prom or anything :) As for makeup I was thinking maybe a purple smokey eye with a nude lip? I have long, dirty blonde hair (I might dye it dark brown again though) that I will probably straighten for my birthday, blue eyes, and skin that is currently pale but will be tanned by the time my birthday comes around (September). We may be on the beach so I don't mind playing around with colours. Thanks for any help! more

Resolved Question: How to get my mother to let up...?

I know how 'My mom doesn't let me do anything! >:(' sounds, but hear me out first. I don't do much. I go to school everyday [I almost never miss days, I never skip and I don't get sick], come home, do my chores and bla bla bla. On the weekends I either babysit my little sister, watch movies on netflix all day, or do yard work. The only person I hang out with is my BEST friend, and when I do[in this year, 2010 alone, I have hung out with her 5 times only, 3 times in January and twice in April], we always have to do stuff at home or out with a parent because my mom doesn't let me ride in cars with friends. I don't get in cars with strangers or people I barely know. It's just getting to a point where I feel like I'm missing out on stuff, and I'm getting to an age where I shouldn't be SO restricted on what I can do [I will be a senior in highschool in the fall]. The night of prom, I was supposed to go out to eat with my friends at a Thai resturant before prom, but I couldn't go because no parents were coming, so my mother dropped me off at prom, and picked me up, because going to an after party or even a friend‘s house would mean a friend‘s car. Today was the last day of school, but also my best friend and another close friend's birthday. We were going to go to school, and leave after first block to have their combined birthday parties at the beach, and glowstick it at nightfall. My mom didn't let me go because it would mean riding in a friend's car, but she didn't care about me skipping school. It was my best friend’s first birthday party ever [last year doesn’t count, no one showed up at her party, but I would have, if my mom would have let me go -.-]. These two incidents are just recent, which is why I mentioned them. I just feel like I'm wasting time doing this, when I already never hang out with anyone. Sorry this is long. more

Voting Question: He's torn between being with me and being single?

So my ex and I have been talking about getting back, he was supposed to ask me out on prom then he chickened out. he went to the beach and told me we would get back when he got back- to start fresh. So since then he has been all cuddly with me and stuff and I thought things were good until I found out he lied to me. Right after he hooked up with me, he hooked up with this other girl. I told him i knew and his excuse was being drunk. The only reason I'm mad about this is because he told me it didnt happen and he has been saying we are getting back together, then goes and hooks up with other girls. His friend recently told me that he said he wanted a " new relationship spark" so thats why he keeps hooking up with these girls. anyways thats not even part of my question. He told me he enjoyed being single, so I said okay thats It i guess i cant say anything else, and got ready to leave. So he goes, " so youre done talking?" There was nothing more i could say, and i told him that. I asked him what he really wants and he said he wants me but he also wants to be single, and that he is torn. I told him I was getting sick of waiting and getting thrown to the side so I gave him till sunday ( Tomorrow) to decide. It's either he has me or he loses me, and he knows that. And thats why he is having so much trouble choosing. I don't really know what to ask, I guess I just want advice? more

Resolved Question: what did i do wrong? is she still interested? =/ help?

Soooo i met this girl at prom (last friday), and we danced together and slow danced and everything...and both went to the same party in the night...and i ended up getting her number....then we spent the prom weekend with the same group of friends...talked with each other somewhat but not a lot lot...and i always made her laugh and stuff....haha....she'd do random suggestive things like hold my hand randomly while walking..or at the beach in the waves...or once asked for a piggyback ride...idk it seemed like she liked having me around..and also that i made her laugh a lot anyways i texted her monday night...and talked to her for a while...and then again on tuesday night....she flirted with me a lot on tuesday night...and kinda played hard to get and i flirted back til we both fell asleep. The next day (today) in school i only saw her once, it was kinda awkward cause it was loud and we both couldnt hear each other...but we talked for about 1 min and thats it...since we were both late to class. I didnt see her the rest of the day so then i didnt contact her wednesday night...cause it'd seem mad clingy and desperate...i saw her in school on thursday...and talked to her while walking to lunch for a good 5-7 minutes...it was a fun convo..and she laughed....lol so in the night, we had the senior awards night, and me and a bunch of friends (ppl from the prom group she was friends with as well) decided to go to eat out...i sent her a text before the awards saying...hey me, ___, ___, ___, etc. and bunch of ppl are going to ___ for food after awards tonight....you should join us =] idk that text doesnt seem creepy to me...but she didnt respond..and at the awards thing...she didnt even say hi..i know her phone was working cause she sent my friend texts while we were at arbys..so idk....then the next day in school she kinda was awkward around me and didnt say hi like usual...im mad confused =[ help? more

Resolved Question: is she still interested? did i do anything wrong? am i being creepy? =/?

Resolved Question: Where is there a place where we can have a bonfire after midnight Around LA?

Me and some friends want to go to a beach and light a bonfire after our prom. We live in california and it is around Los angeles and it will be after midnight. more

Voting Question: what did i do wrong? am i being creepy? =/?

Voting Question: did i do anything wrong?? am i being creepy? =/?

Resolved Question: Did i do anything wrong here? am i being creepy?

Voting Question: am i being creepy? is she still interested? =/ help?

Resolved Question: am i being creepy? =/ is she interested? help?

Resolved Question: How do I cover up my extremely prominent tan lines for prom?

I went to the beach with my friends and wore two tank tops, layered. Now I have 4 strap lines that contrast with my really dark burns, and prom is 3 days away. How do I cover the tan lines up? The lines on my back are from a spaghetti strap top and a racerback tank, and I'm wearing a strapless prom dress... Thanks! more

Voting Question: is she interested in me?? =]?

Soooo i met this girl at prom (last friday), and we danced together and slow danced and everything...and both went to the same party in the night...and i ended up getting her number....then we spent the prom weekend with the same group of friends...talked with each other somewhat but not a lot lot...and i always made her laugh and stuff....haha....she'd do random suggestive things like hold my hand randomly while walking..or at the beach in the waves...or once asked for a piggyback ride...idk it seemed like she liked having me around..and also that i made her laugh a lot anyways i texted her monday night...and talked to her for a while...and then again on tuesday night....she flirted with me a lot on tuesday night...and kinda played hard to get and i flirted back til we both fell asleep. The next day (today) in school i only saw her once, it was kinda awkward cause it was loud and we both couldnt hear each other...but we talked for about 1 min and thats it...since we were both late to class. I didnt see her the rest of the day so im wondering if there's a chance she's interested in me....and also when i should contact her next...i didnt really talk to her tonight...cause that seems desperate and clingy..i just had a few comments on a facebook post haha...and she responded to them..but i think thats aight..but idk maybe thursday night i should text her? or is that too soon to text? or should i try to talk to her online? more

Resolved Question: is she interested in mee?? =]?

Voting Question: Should i say goodnight to herrrr? =]?

so i was texting this girl i recently met and hung out with (with a group of friends) over prom weekend...and i really like her....after flirty texting for a couple of hours i think she fell asleep cause we all spent the whole day at the beach....i was thinking of sending her a text like "haha you must have fallen asleep....goodnight ill ttyl =]"...is that pushing it? or is it sweet? =] if its sweet, should i say "haha you must have fallen asleep...goodnight....i had fun hanging out with you and everyone else today =] ttyl"...or is that too forward? more

Voting Question: Trying to figure out if my friend likes me more than that?

A pretty good friend of mine for around 4 years now. I've noticed that recently she's gotten a bit more "into me." *We've been kayaking and skiing together for a few times now. *We kind of make up for what each other lacks in terms of personality and skills , and she's said things like "Together we make a whole person." *We jokingly "insult" each other and laugh about it and afterward she goes "love ya (my name) playfully. *She's asked me to go to the beach last week. I couldn't make it, but she asked me again this week and seems really into the idea. *She also mentioned visiting me at college when we leave in the fall. *We're going to prom together too. (When I asked her in October, it was "just friends," but when I didn't mentioned it for a few months come April she asks me again to make sure.) *I'm doing a building project and she drew up the plans for me. I asked how long it took, and she said about 4.5 hours. She said "Well, other people are going to be looking at it, and it was for you, and I wanted to get it right." *She heard my sister talking to someone and she says "Is that your sister? She has your voice." Are these thew signs of normal friendship or does she have a bit of a crush? Because I'm starting to like her now because of this trend. It's like I have no control over it. And I don't want to have a crush on her because I don't want to lose the friendship if something happens. But I don't want to ask because I actually had a longtime crush on a mutual friend of ours and when I told that friend, it didn't go well. So if I tell her now, I'm worried that I'm going to look shallow for liking two of my best female-friends. Sorry for the long explanation, but these things are complicated!We're high school seniorsJust to put it out there, I'd like people to only answer if they've read everything. The details tell a lot. more

Resolved Question: I need to lose weight fast! how can i lose 20 pounds in 2 weeks?

I currently NEED to lose 20 pounds ASAP, Prom is coming up! and I'm going to the beach in two weeks with my school and how embarrassing is that being a bit overweight/; I'm VERY self conscious so this will really help me out a lot! please help me, maybe with like a cleansing drink or diet tips! I have love handles too so can you help me get rid of that too? (: more