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US seizing drug money, but cartels have plenty more - Arizona Daily Star

KELLY PRESNELL / ARIZONA DAILY STAR Customs and Border Protection officer Dave Pelsue looks over some papers in the seat console while searching a Mexico-bound pickup truck at the DeConcini Port in Nogales, Ariz. A U.S. campaign to slow southbound ...

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Big bass catches pay off for research, anglers - Houston Chronicle

It's a mild March weekend in Texas. Odds are good that somebody — perhaps multiple somebodies — fishing on one of the 500-plus public reservoirs in this state will land a largemouth bass weighing 13 pounds or more. That's a pretty easy ...

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Reintegration a steep climb for some parolees - Longview News-Journal

Unemployed, Oliver depends on her mother for food, shelter and clothing. "I'm thinking they're going to think bad about me and not want to hire me," she said, hands clasped in her lap. "I just want my name cleared so I can get a decent job.

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Squandering the Gift of Oil - pilot.com

There is something very wrong with how we are consuming oil, nature's one-time gift to humankind. We are burning up a finite supply in transportation and heating fuels, an unwise and inefficient use of this precious resource. While we get a smooth ...

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Little Argus: March 7 - Carlsbad Current-Argus

Carlsbad Community Theater's third production of the season, "Out of Order," will be presented at 2 p.m. today (March 7). Advance tickets are available at Blue House, Candlewood, 'Round the Corner, Old Pecos Gallery, Kristina's Framing and Shade Tree ...

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Five great Texas trails provide paths to pleasure for walkers - Dallas Morning News

It's been said that the official vehicle of Texas is the pickup. Truly, this state requires a lot of driving if one is to fully appreciate its abundant charms. With its wealth of geography, geology, culture, habitat and history, however, Texas is ...

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Pentagon Shooter John Patrick Bedell Had Troubled Past, Run-Ins With ... - ABC News

The gunman who charged into the Pentagon Thursday and opened fire was intelligent but troubled, and had struggled with a longtime marijuana addiction , a family friend said today. A shooter opened fire at a security checkpoint Thursday night. The ...

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CHEERS & JEERS - Quad Cities Onlines

CHEERS to the academic superstars who put on an amazing show at the 30th Annual Regional Spelling Bee. Sixty-six super spellers gave it their all in our own annual spelloff to decide who from our area will advance to the Scripps National Spelling Bee ...

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Trash fee plan met with skepticism - Philadelphia Daily News

But critics say the $300 flat charge - which would drop to $200 for some low-income households - is simply a tax hike in sheep's clothing. "Three hundred ... a recycling incentive program that will provide coupons to neighborhoods that recycle.

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From staff reports - Killeen Daily Herald

With spring right around the corner, it also means the arrival of storm season. Thunderstorms and tornadoes can crop up any time of year in Texas, but they're more likely to arrive during spring and summer. In fact, the National Weather Service ...

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Texas State Clothing Questions asked

Open Question: What to wear to NEW YORK in April 2010?? Girls please help!!?

Okay so April 4-9 is my spring break for my school we are going to New York, Washington D.C, and Philadelphia. Today (March 2010) the news has said there are blizzards going on there in New York and other east coast states. Is it still going to be snowing. So what should I wear. I have only been to Colorado, Texas, California, and Arizona. I have never been to any of the places we are going for school, let alone on a plane!! I know WOW!! Okay so getting to the point I don't know what to wear to these places (New York, Washington D.C, And Philadelphia) in April/Spring. Please help me in choices on like warm clothes such as sweaters, scarves, big jackets ect., or regular clothes like t-shirt jeans ect., or summer clothes shorts tanks ect. please help me!! I want to be prepared. Thank you! :) more

Resolved Question: I'm scared to death. I want a divorce. My husband is abusive and blames me for being that way. For years I?

For years I believed him. He put me down with insults.. brought up ugly things about my past.. put my body down after I had a baby.. Then the violence started to get worse. Prior to our daughter the fighting would get out of control and was both of our faults. We were kids and stupid. Now he loses his temper and flips out on me. Today actually I confronted him about some email I found to some other woman saying " Did you forget about me?" and I was pissed. Also found some dumb porn on his phone also.. I told him I was done. He took all my clothes and thru them on my bed. Thru a suitcase at me. He kept getting in my face and I pushed a fan at him.. he then ripped me down by my hair and kicked me several times in my shoulder and ribs. I'm so scared but I have to leave him. I have no job.. no education and have been at home raising my baby girl. I DONT WANT HER TO GROW UP SEEING THIS! I am usually happy and carefree when he's gone but when he's around I cant even lift my head with any shred of pride. Im really scared guys. Idk how to do this.. I was just hoping here I might find some reasources and help. I dont want this life for my daughter. I have zero self esteem now and need some serious help to get my head right again. If you know anything I might be able to do.. in the state of Texas PLEASE let me know. I know that this effects my child. I dont want that for her. Please dont post things that won't help me. You can not even imagine my desperation right now. I have no family. No friends here. No place to go. No money (He took it all and has his name only on the bank account.) I scared shitless but need to toughen up. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks guys.. :((Thanks guys and yes I do have proof. Im just scared. I have been out of work for so long and only been at home raising our daughter. I am terrified I wont be able to make it out there and he will try to get custody! He already says he wants joint and if I fight him he will spend every cent he has fighting me in court.... more

Resolved Question: Does anyone have any information on inexpensive shipping a couple of tubs state to state?

I'm moving across the country and need to ship 2 45 gallon rectangular tubs of clothing from Texas to Ohio. I'm kind of on a budget and to ship them USPS is waaay too expensive. I need help, please! Thanks! more

Resolved Question: what do these civil war quotes say to you....?

"What passes as standard American history is really Yankee history written by New Englanders or their puppets to glorify Yankee heroes and ideals." --- Dr. Grady McWhiney "Governor, if I had foreseen the use these people desired to make of their victory, there would have been no surrender at Appomattox, no, sir, not by me. Had I seen these results of subjugation, I would have preferred to die at Appomattox with my brave men, my sword in this right hand." --- General Robert E. Lee, CSA - as told to Texas ex-governor F. W. Stockdale ". . .a union that can only be maintained by swords and bayonets and in which strife and civil war are to take the place of brotherly love and kindness has no charm for me. I shall mourn for my country and for the welfare of mankind. If the union is dissolved and the government disrupted, I shall return to my native state and share the miseries of my people, and save in defence, will draw my sword on none." --- General Robert E. Lee, CSA "My shoes are gone; my clothes are almost gone. I'm weary, I'm sick, I'm hungry. My family have been killed or scattered. And I have suffered all this for my country. I love my country. But if this war is ever over, I'll be damned if I ever love another country." --- Confederate Soldier During Retreat To Appomattox "There are at present many Coloured men in the Confederate Army doing duty not only as cooks, servants and labourers, but real soldiers, having muskets on their shoulders, and bullets in their pockets". --- Frederick Douglas - Autumn Of 1861Here is one more. Asked Of Abraham Lincoln... "Why not let the South go in peace?" Response Of Abraham Lincoln... "I can't let them go. Who would pay for the government?" more

Resolved Question: Should I stay at home with my son, or push on through school?

The main question seems to have an obvious answer, right? Well, it gets a little foggy to me once I start thinking about the details. My son is due to go live with his dad in the UK for 5 years come this summer. I started Cosmetology school last September, thinking that I could do it all. I have the support of my mom (whom we live with), and figured that she could pick up the slack when it came to watching my son, and with daycare and his schooling, I thought it would all work out. Around Thanksgiving I got really sick, and have stayed pretty poorly ever since. Around the same time, my mom found out she has fibromyalgia (she already has a laundry list of other health issues, this one is just the most recent, and most debilitating problem). I've missed a lot of school, and have been able to spend a fair bit of time with my son. I realized yesterday that I'm running out of time to spend with him, that summer is coming up fast, and before I know it, I'll be flying him over to England. He even said to me today that he loves spending time with me, and wishes I could be home all the time. That broke my damn heart. So, I've come up with a "plan" to spend time with my son, and not give up on my career plan, but it involves putting school on the backburner until after I send my son to England. I guess I'm just asking...do you think it's okay for me to take a leave of absence from school so that I can spend as much time with my son as possible before he leaves? He struggles with serious ADHD, and dyslexia, compounded with a slight speech delay. I feel like if I'm home with him, I can finally get things situated with myself (in regards to time management and getting myself into a routine). My mother's health is declining rapidly, and my dad lives in Colorado (he stationed there until he retires this November) and only comes home once a month at the least. Once my son moves to England, and my dad moves home from Colorado (early Fall), I am planning on moving to Texas to live with my boyfriend, but I feel like at the moment I need to take care of my family. My mom needs help (she owns and manages a salon) with mobility (last night I had to help her get her clothes off as she couldn't lift her arms above her head), and I need to spend time with my son before he moves. I feel like I've already missed so much school due to being sick/run down, that it would just be better to take a leave of absence so as not to miss any more school due to being sick...and it'll give me the time I need to get myself healthy, spend lots of quality time with my son (one thing about my school is that we are required to go to school on a Saturday, no excuses unless it's medical or legal, and you have to have a written note stating as much, so I miss Saturday's with my son, he spends his Saturday's in daycare), and help my mom out as much as I can until my dad can take my place...but I guess I'm just looking for some clarification. Should I just stay in school Tuesday-Saturday, and try to fill in the gaps? Or do I take care of my family, and just start back to school once I get transferred to Texas in the fall? more

Resolved Question: Should I break up AFTER 7 YEARS!!!!? Please HELP!!!!!!!!!?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I was told by one of her family members that my girlfriend dated her cousin-husband..As soon as I had an option I ask my girlfriend about it and she started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After dating for 6 years and living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 33 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I understand that I am NO ONE to judge others, but at the same time, I feel like my girlfriend has taken a huge drop in the way I see her and feel about her since the day she told me the whole truth. 1- How can I stop judging her? Should I even trust her more for being honest with me or should I just stay away from her? 2- From the man's perspective...How would you handle this problem? Do you think its possible to move on? 3- Do you think that people have a tendency to commit the same mistake after doing it once? PLEASE BE POLITE Thank you for your support more

Voting Question: Is she a sexual abuse victim or a bad person?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I was told by one of her family members that my girlfriend dated her cousin-husband..As soon as I had an option I ask my girlfriend about it and she started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After dating for 6 years and living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 33 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I understand that I am NO ONE to judge others, but at the same time, I feel like my girlfriend has taken a huge drop in the way I see her and feel about her since the day she told me the whole truth. 1- How can I stop judging her? Should I even trust her more for being honest with me or should I just stay away from her? 2- From the man's perspective...How would you handle this problem? Do you think its possible to move on? 3- Do you think that people have a tendency to commit the same mistake after doing it once? PLEASE BE POLITE Thank you for your support more

Voting Question: Was she a VICTIM of sexual abuse? Or not?

How can I save my relationship? PLEASE READ!? I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I was told by one of her family members that my girlfriend dated her cousin-husband..As soon as I had an option I ask my girlfriend about it and she started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After dating for 6 years and living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 33 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I understand that I am NO ONE to judge others, but at the same time, I feel like my girlfriend has taken a huge drop in the way I see her and feel about her since the day she told me the whole truth. 1- How can I stop judging her? Should I even trust her more for being honest with me or should I just stay away from her? 2- From the man's perspective...How would you handle this problem? Do you think its possible to move on? 3- Do you think that people have a tendency to commit the same mistake after doing it once? PLEASE BE POLITE Thank you for your support more

Resolved Question: Was she abused? I BLAME HER FOR IT! Should I BREAK UP?

How can I save my relationship? URGENT HELP NEEDED PLEASE READ!!!!!? How can I save my relationship? PLEASE READ!? I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I was told by one of her family members that my girlfriend dated her cousin-husband..As soon as I had an option I ask my girlfriend about it and she started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After dating for 6 years and living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I understand that I am NO ONE to judge others, but at the same time, I feel like my girlfriend has taken a huge drop in the way I see her and feel about her since the day she told me the whole truth. 1- How can I stop judging her? Should I even trust her more for being honest with me or should I just stay away from her? 2- From the man's perspective...How would you handle this problem? Do you think its possible to move on? 3- Do you think that people have a tendency to commit the same mistake after doing it once? PLEASE BE POLITE Thank you for your support more

Resolved Question: How can I save my relationship? PLEASE READ!?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I was told by one of her family members that my girlfriend dated her cousin-husband..As soon as I had an option I ask my girlfriend about it and she started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After dating for 6 years and living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I understand that I am NO ONE to judge others, but at the same time, I feel like my girlfriend has taken a huge drop in the way I see her and feel about her since the day she told me the whole truth. 1- How can I stop judging her? Should I even trust her more for being honest with me or should I just stay away from her? 2- From the man's perspective...How would you handle this problem? Do you think its possible to move on? 3- Do you think that people have a tendency to commit the same mistake after doing it once? PLEASE BE POLITE Thank you for your support more

Voting Question: Is it possible to take her seriously? URGENT HELP NEEDED!?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I was told by one of her family members that my girlfriend dated her cousin-husband..As soon as I had an option I ask my girlfriend about it and she started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After dating for 6 years and living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I understand that I am NO ONE to judge others, but at the same time, I feel like my girlfriend has taken a huge drop in the way I see her and feel about her since the day she told me the whole truth. 1- How can I stop judging her? Should I even trust her more for being honest with me or should I just stay away from her? 2- From the man's perspective...How would you handle this problem? Do you think its possible to move on? 3- Do you think that people have a tendency to commit the same mistake after doing it once? PLEASE BE POLITE Thank you for your support more

Resolved Question: Should I break up after 6 years? Do you think that she let me down?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I was told by one of her family members that my girlfriend dated her cousin-husband..As soon as I had an option I ask my girlfriend about it and she started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After dating for 6 years and living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I understand that I am NO ONE to judge others, but at the same time, I feel like my girlfriend has taken a huge drop in the way I see her and feel about her since the day she told me the whole truth. 1- How can I stop judging her? Should I even trust her more for being honest with me or should I just stay away from her? 2- From the man's perspective...How would you handle this problem? Do you think its possible to move on? 3- Do you think that people have a tendency to commit the same mistake after doing it once? PLEASE BE POLITE Thank you for your support more

Voting Question: Would this bother you? Am I crazy for being worried about it? PLEASE URGENT HELP!?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I was told by one of her family members that my girlfriend dated her cousin-husband..As soon as I had an option I ask my girlfriend about it and she started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After dating for 6 years and living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I understand that I am NO ONE to judge others, but at the same time, I feel like my girlfriend has taken a huge drop in the way I see her and feel about her since the day she told me the whole truth. 1- How can I stop judging her? Should I even trust her more for being honest with me or should I just stay away from her? 2- From the man's perspective...How would you handle this problem? Do you think its possible to move on? 3- Do you think that people have a tendency to commit the same mistake after doing it once? PLEASE BE POLITE Thank you for your support more

Voting Question: Would this bother you? Am I crazy for being worried about it?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I was told by one of her family members that my girlfriend dated her cousin-husband..As soon as I had an option I ask my girlfriend about it and she started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After dating for 6 years and living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I understand that I am NO ONE to judge others, but at the same time, I feel like my girlfriend has taken a huge drop in the way I see her and feel about her since the day she told me the whole truth. 1- How can I stop judging her? Should I even trust her more for being honest with me or should I just stay away from her? 2- From the man's perspective...How would you handle this problem? Do you think its possible to move on? 3- Do you think that people have a tendency to commit the same mistake after doing it once? PLEASE BE POLITE Thank you for your support more

Voting Question: Is it just me or is Cowboy style coming to different states?

OK I live in northern Utah (as in Ogden), and quite a lot this year (as in school year), a Cowboy style has come into the schools. Example: people are wearing cowboy hats, cowboy boots, cowboy style pants, etc. And at least 50 out of 1500 people in my school are doing it. I think some people moved from Texas or something and brought there cowboy style with them. I mean I have a friend that just moved from Texas over the summer and he isn't a cowboy type person. Anyway, has that happened recently or slowly over time where you live, for the northern states? Years before this Cowboy style wasn't around where I live, now it's everywhere. And all of a sudden it just appeared in school: Cowboy style - of people wearing that clothing. more

Resolved Question: She did something unmoral!!! Should I break up after 6 years?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I was told by one of her family members that my girlfriend dated her cousin-husband..As soon as I had an option I ask my girlfriend about it and she started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After dating for 6 years and living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I understand that I am NO ONE to judge others, but at the same time, I feel like my girlfriend has taken a huge drop in the way I see her and feel about her since the day she told me the whole truth. 1- How can I stop judging her? Should I even trust her more for being honest with me or should I just stay away from her? 2- From the man's perspective...How would you handle this problem? Do you think its possible to move on? 3- Do you think that people have a tendency to commit the same mistake after doing it once? PLEASE BE POLITE Thank you for your support! more

Voting Question: I am confused! Should I break up after 6 years?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I was told by one of her family members that my girlfriend dated her cousin-husband..As soon as I had an option I ask my girlfriend about it and she started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After dating for 6 years and living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I understand that I am NO ONE to judge others, but at the same time, I feel like my girlfriend has taken a huge drop in the way I see her and feel about her since the day she told me the whole truth. 1- How can I stop judging her? Should I even trust her more for being honest with me or should I just stay away from her? 2- From the man's perspective...How would you handle this problem? Do you think its possible to move on? 3- Do you think that people have a tendency to commit the same mistake after doing it once? PLEASE BE POLITE Thank you for your support! more

Resolved Question: How to modify divorce decree in Texas when I live in Illinois?

It's about 5 years since my divorce and the stipulations are that the community property was to be divided equally. To date, I have only taken my clothes and the car I had at the time. Now, I live out of state and I am also still on the mortgage to the house which my ex lives and is behind on the payments. Basically, what I need to do is modify the my decree to specifically state that the house is to be sold and the equity from the proceeds divided equally. I don't really need the money, but there's no way she could qualify for a refinance that would get my name off so she won't be dragging my credit through the mud. But, I wouldn't mind the 10-15k either. So, anyone know how I go about filing for modification without physically going to Texas? more

Resolved Question: Should I break up OR should this make my relationship stronger? URGENT HELP NEEDED.?

PLEASE READ! I KNOW IS REALLY LONG, BUT I REALLY NEED HELP! I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I was told by one of her family members that my girlfriend dated her cousin-husband..As soon as I had an option I ask my girlfriend about it and she started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After dating for 6 years and living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I understand that I am NO ONE to judge others, but at the same time, I feel like my girlfriend has taken a huge drop in the way I see her and feel about her since the day she told me the whole truth. 1- How can I stop judging her? Should I even trust her more for being honest with me or should I just stay away from her? 2- From the man's perspective...How would you handle this problem? Do you think its possible to move on? 3- Do you think that people have a tendency to commit the same mistake after doing it once? PLEASE BE POLITE, Put yourself on my shoes for once! Thank you for your support! more

Voting Question: tax question? please help?

I am 22 years old and me and my daughter lived with my mom til nov. 09.. last night she informed me that she was going to claim me and my daughter as dependents (without my permission) on tax return. I have been working almost that whole year and paying for all her food and clothing plus daycare so everything my daughter needed i bought. I want to claim myself and my daughter plus her daycare. so who can legally claim and such and do I need to file any forms to report her? last year I gave her permission to claim that way but not this year plus I really need the money so I want to claim it esp since last year she never gave me the money like she told me she would... please give me all the advice you have or info I may need.. would be greatly appreciated. btw the state is texas if that even matters.I made more than $3650 and was not in school but didnt pay rent to her. more

Resolved Question: She lied!!! Should I break up?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I was told by one of her family members that my girlfriend dated her cousin-husband..As soon as I had an option I ask my girlfriend about it and she started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After dating for 6 years and living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I understand that I am NO ONE to judge others, but at the same time, I feel like my girlfriend has taken a huge drop in the way I see her and feel about her since the day she told me the whole truth. 1- How can I stop judging her? Should I even trust her more for being honest with me or should I just stay away from her? 2- From the man's perspective...How would you handle this problem? Do you think its possible to move on? 3- Do you think that people have a tendency to commit the same mistake after doing it once? PLEASE BE POLITE, Put yourself on my shoes for once! Thank you for your support! more

Voting Question: About JFK "Single bullet theory"... Can "normal" bullet change it's trajectory several times like this?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Single_bullet_theory "According to the single-bullet theory, a three-inch-long copper-jacketed lead-core 6.5-millimeter rifle bullet fired from the sixth floor of the Texas School Book Depository passed through President Kennedy’s neck and Governor Connally’s chest and wrist and embedded itself in the Governor’s thigh. If so, this bullet traversed 15 layers of clothing, 7 layers of skin, and approximately 15 inches of tissue, struck a necktie knot, removed 4 inches of rib, and shattered a radius bone." They say that single bullet changed it's trajectory several times, even in the air(!). Can "normal" bullet do that, or there was special type of bullet used. "Normal" bullets fly straight as far as I know (:D), of course they might change trajectory when they hit something, but in some pictures (photo-reconstructions) it is shown that the bullet changed it's direction even in the air! This is what I found at one webpage: HERE is the step by step procedure of the SBT; 1. Bullet entered the Back of JFK's neck. 2. Exited at JFK's throat by Adam's apple. striking NO bone. Hesitated in mid air for 3/4 to 1.5 seconds then turned Down/Right. 3. Tumbled & entered JBC's back at the right arm pit leaving an elongated entrance wound. (similar to an exit wound) 4. Took out 5 inches of JBC's 5th rib. 5. Exited 2 inches below JBC's right nipple. (round hole similar to entrance hole) Turned Up/Right. 6. Entered/Smashed JBC's right wrist smashing right radius bone. 7. Turned Left/Downward & Entered JBC's left thigh down to the bone. The second sentence of second step says : "Hesitated in mid air for 3/4 to 1.5 seconds then turned Down/Right." How can the bullet be hesitated in air for 1.5 seconds in such a small distance(less than a half meter)?! and how can it "turn down/right"?! Not to mention that the bullet changed trajectory for a bunch of times inside of bodies of two persons. So my question is, was there the special "bouncing" bullet used in JFK assassination (does such a bullet even exist?), or was it just normal bullet (why was it bouncing then)? Everywhere I read it's never stated what kind of bullet it was, they just say it is named "CE399".EDIT : First of all, I'm not any kind of "conspiracy theorist". I don't give a damn whether JFK was assassinated by one man or 4 men :D All I wanted to know from you, was if there exists special type of bullets which are designed to tumble inside the body or similar... Or was it just a usual bullet. As far as I see your responses, it is normal bullet that tumbles in ricochet situations, and there is no special bullet invented for this, right? P.S.: About the "conspiracy theory" thing... The interesting thing is the Discovery Channels "investigation", which actually proves the opposite of what they announced. See this video if you are interested : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hgec6oCdIvE (or search "JFK Discovery Channel Scam" in youtube if the video is removed). more

Resolved Question: She lied! Should I break up? Long but URGENT HELP NEEDED!?

met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about a rumor that I heard about her from one of her family members, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well, she is always been a good girl while with me. -she states that she has moved on HOW CAN I MOVE ON? more

Resolved Question: She lied!!! Should I break up and move out the house? Move on? How to recover?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about a rumor that I heard about her from one of her family members, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well, she is always been a good girl while with me. -she states that she has moved on more

Resolved Question: SHE LIED! Is it possible to trust her ever again? Does her past matters?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about a rumor that I heard about her from one of her family members, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well, she is always been a good girl while with me. -she states that she has moved on more

Resolved Question: What should I bring on MY road trip ?

Hi, I am going on a road trip with my dad over the summer . We are going threw all the states from Florida to Maine to Texas then back to Florida . We are only stopping in the states that my dad has boat reps . I'm assuming that the reps will have a building near the water ( duh cause of the boats) , but of course were staying in a hotel. I will be going with my dad as his helper. I guess I will need office supplies and a date book to be able to help him but what I don't know is what to pack ; type of clothes to bring , shoes to pack, and things like do I bring a bathing suite or a jacket? Should I pack my camera ? Do I pack a tote bag that has pens, pencils, notepads, and other things? How many purses should I bring - 1 for dinners ; 1 for going around town while were driving ; 1 for my office supplies ... and do I pack them all with the same things like tissues and wipes , gum and mints? Or do I have seprate things in each bag? Should I bring many sweats for the long car rides, and do I wear beach dresses with cardigens when we go see the boat reps or do I wear fancy pants and a bedazzled tops? For dinners with the office men do I wear fancy dresses or jeans and a classy top? Do I bring my straightner for the dinners and gel for the days at the office? Should I wear heals, wedges , sneakers, or flip flops? Should I bring a bag of my yarn and needles for the car rides? or do I bring a dvd player? What color sunglasses do I bring? and do we pack water and snacks? Sorry for so many questions but I have never been on a road trip that I have to look professinal for work and lazy clothes for driving :-( Please Help Me and If your not going to help me then don't respond with rude comments :D more

Resolved Question: Could it be the same ever again? LONG but in need of Urgent HELP!?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about a rumor that I heard about her from one of her family members, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well, she is always been a good girl while with me. -she states that she has moved on more

Resolved Question: It is disturbing me BIG TIME! Do you think that my disappointment will go away?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about a rumor that I heard about her from one of her family members, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well, she is always been a good girl while with me. -she states that she has moved on more

Resolved Question: How would you feel? LONG BUT IN NEED OF URGENT HELP!?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about a rumor that I heard about her from one of her family members, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well, she is always been a good girl while with me. -she states that she has moved on more

Resolved Question: It is disturbing me BIG TIME! What would you do? Please URGENT HELP!?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about a rumor that I heard about her from one of her family members, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well, she is always been a good girl while with me. -she states that she has moved on more

Resolved Question: She lied!!!! Is she worth the headache?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about any special secrets that she had that I didn't know about, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I'm currently talking with a therapist and a priest, both of them help me out a lot to understand the problem, but after a few hours of visiting with them I always start going down hill with pessimist thoughts, and I always find my self in the same place where I was before. How can I stop myself from doing that? more

Resolved Question: She made a HUGE MISTAKE!! Would you still consider her a good person?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about any special secrets that she had that I didn't know about, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I'm currently talking with a therapist and a priest, both of them help me out a lot to understand the problem, but after a few hours of visiting with them I always start going down hill with pessimist thoughts, and I always find my self in the same place where I was before. How can I stop myself from doing that? more

Resolved Question: She did wrong!!!!How can I move on?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about any special secrets that she had that I didn't know about, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I'm currently talking with a therapist and a priest, both of them help me out a lot to understand the problem, but after a few hours of visiting with them I always start going down hill with pessimist thoughts, and I always find my self in the same place where I was before. How can I stop myself from doing that? more

Resolved Question: It is disturbing me BIG TIME! How can I stop it?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about a rumor that I heard about her from one of her family members, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well, she is always been a good girl while with me. -she states that she has moved on more

Resolved Question: Is it illegal for anyone over 18 to .... with someone underage?

Me and a few friends all from 17-19 were talking bout this subject the other day and couldnt come to an agreement. we live in texas (so if this is different for different states) Is it illegal to : *kiss *make out *touch ontop clothes *touch under clothes (not oral ... though) *oral ... Please help us end this debate once and for all. Thanks for the help! more

Resolved Question: She lied!! Would you move on? How?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about a rumor that I heard about her from one of her family members, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well, she is always been a good girl while with me. -she states that she has moved on 1- I understand that people make mistakes, but is it normal to forgive something that intense? 2-What would you do if you are willing to move on, but think about it all day long, even waking up at night to think about what had happened? Am I a victim of a Obsesive compulsive disorder that doesn't allow me to clear my mind off of that accident? more

Resolved Question: Should I feel stupid if I forgive her about it?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about any special secrets that she had that I didn't know about, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well, she is always been a good girl while with me. -she states that she has moved on 1- How would you feel about it? 2-How would you handle it? 3- Is it normal for a 17 year old to make such a big mistake? more

Resolved Question: Do you think I am stupid if I try to move on and forget about it?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about any special secrets that she had that I didn't know about, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on Should I pretend that nothing ever happened? How would you handle this situation? more

Resolved Question: Full of resentment!!! Is it possible to move on, and how?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about any special secrets that she had that I didn't know about, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I'm currently talking with a therapist and a priest, both of them help me out a lot to understand the problem, but after a few hours of visiting with them I always start going down hill with pessimist thoughts, and I always find my self in the same place where I was before. How can I stop myself from doing that? more

Resolved Question: She lied to me! How can I move on?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about any special secrets that she had that I didn't know about, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I'm currently talking with a therapist and a priest, both of them help me out a lot to understand the problem, but after a few hours of visiting with them I always start going down hill with pessimist thoughts, and I always find my self in the same place where I was before. How can I stop myself from doing that? more

Resolved Question: how can I feel better about it?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about any special secrets that she had that I didn't know about, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I'm currently talking with a therapist and a priest, both of them help me out a lot to understand the problem, but after a few hours of visiting with them I always start going down hill with pessimist thoughts, and I always find my self in the same place where I was before. How can I stop myself from doing that? more

Resolved Question: How can I stop judging my girlfriend's past?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about any special secrets that she had that I didn't know about, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I'm currently talking with a therapist and a priest, both of them help me out a lot to understand the problem, but after a few hours of visiting with them I always start going down hill with pessimist thoughts, and I always find my self in the same place where I was before. How can I stop myself from doing that? more

Resolved Question: How can I stop feeling disappointed?

Do you think is possible to get out of thinking about this mess? I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about any special secrets that she had that I didn't know about, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I'm currently talking with a therapist and a priest, both of them help me out a lot to understand the problem, but after a few hours of visiting with them I always start going down hill with pessimist thoughts, and I always find my self in the same place where I was before. How can I stop myself from doing that? more

Resolved Question: Would this bother you? What would you do to not let it affect you?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about any special secrets that she had that I didn't know about, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I'm currently talking with a therapist and a priest, both of them help me out a lot to understand the problem, but after a few hours of visiting with them I always start going down hill with pessimist thoughts, and I always find my self in the same place where I was before. How can I stop myself from doing that? more

Resolved Question: Would you break up or move on?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about any special secrets that she had that I didn't know about, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I'm currently talking with a therapist and a priest, both of them help me out a lot to understand the problem, but after a few hours of visiting with them I always start going down hill with pessimist thoughts, and I always find my self in the same place where I was before. How can I stop myself from doing that? more

Resolved Question: What if my girlfriend did something completely against my principals?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about any special secrets that she had that I didn't know about, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I'm currently talking with a therapist and a priest, both of them help me out a lot to understand the problem, but after a few hours of visiting with them I always start going down hill with pessimist thoughts, and I always find my self in the same place where I was before. How can I stop myself from doing that? more

Resolved Question: i worked on new years day, should i get paid double?

i work at a clothing store in houston texas and i worked 10 hours on newyears day so my question is is there a federal or state law that states that i must recive a 1 1/2 times or double on hourly dollars for forking on a national holiday? if so please put a link so i can show the boss. thank you all more

Resolved Question: How in the hell AM I SUPPOSE TO LIVE WITH THIS PROBLEM?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about any special secrets that she had that I didn't know about, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I'm currently talking with a therapist and a priest, both of them help me out a lot to understand the problem, but after a few hours of visiting with them I always start going down hill with pessimist thoughts, and I always find my self in the same place where I was before. How can I stop myself from doing that?What should I do when thinking that way? Are relationships supposed to be this complicated? Please help me out as much as possible! How can I move on? What do you recommend me to do? more

Resolved Question: How would you handle this situation? PLEASE URGENT HELP!?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about any special secrets that she had that I didn't know about, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I'm currently talking with a therapist and a priest, both of them help me out a lot to understand the problem, but after a few hours of visiting with them I always start going down hill with pessimist thoughts, and I always find my self in the same place where I was before. How can I stop myself from doing that?What should I do when thinking that way? Are relationships supposed to be this complicated? Please help me out as much as possible! How can I move on? What do you recommend me to do? more

Resolved Question: Would you let this ruin your present and future? If not, why?

I met my girlfriend in high school 7 years ago (When she was 18 years old), around the second month that we were dating I asked her about any special secrets that she had that I didn't know about, suddenly, I noticed that she got really nervous as if she was hiding something from me, as soon as I noticed this, I pressured her into telling me what was the matter. She started crying and told me that she made a huge mistake when she was 17 years old... she said to me that she got caught with a cell-phone that was given to her by her cousin-husband so that they could send each other messages, I asked Claudia if this guy had ever forced her to do something or if this guy had ever touch her... Claudia's response at the time was NO. Due to her response, I though that this guy had only tried to get her to do things, but that nothing had happen between them, so I decided to move on and forget about it. Problem is that now...After living together with Claudia for 5 years (even buying a house together) I asked her more information about what had happened in her past hoping that she would answer me the same way she did 7 years ago, but unfortunately, she said to me that one day when she got off early from high school and called her cousin's husband to hang out...which led them to a hotel room where he had oral sex with her. Apparently, the guy tried to do more things with her, but she stopped him and put her clothes back on. I asked Claudia why she didn't tell me truth 7 years ago, and she replied to me saying that she was afraid, and that at the time she didn't trust me to tell me. I asked her why she didn't seek for help to stop this guy, she said that she tried to so by talking to a preach whose solution was to ask her to move in with him, which hopefully didn't happen. How am I supposed to believe that she is telling me the whole truth? Is she supposed to be blamed for her pass? I would like to move on! How can I get myself to chill out about it Extra info: My girlfriend (Claudia) was sent to the United States from Mexico by her parents with a temporary visa so that she could go to high-school and learn English, At first, she lived with her grandmother ,but due to Claudia's loneliness and depression of being alone and not knowing anyone, she was removed from her grandmother's house, and transferred to her aunt's house who lived in Texas as well. While staying at her aunt's house she met her cousin(Diana) who was married to a guy named Jason who was a policeman at the time. Long story short, Claudia would always go to Diana's house to babysit Diana's and Jason's kids, but while being there she noticed that Diana's husband would always try to seduce her, especially while Diana was either asleep or absent...Claudia would always reject Diana's husband advances, but as time when by Claudia became friends with Jason and started giving in on some of this guy advances. At the time, Jason was 32 years old and Claudia 17. As a result: -Claudia's mom came to Texas to tell the police about what had happen -Jason was asked to resign to his policeman position (He wasn't fired, and doesn't have any criminal charges) so that means that he could get a job as a policeman anywhere else in the country, because he is not registered as a sex offender) -Diana and Jason remain married together, even though the whole family knows about what had happened -Claudia was removed from Texas and now lives somewhere else where she doesn't have contact with any of this people. -Claudia and myself used to get along very well. -she states that she has moved on I'm currently talking with a therapist and a priest, both of them help me out a lot to understand the problem, but after a few hours of visiting with them I always start going down hill with pessimist thoughts, and I always find my self in the same place where I was before. more

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